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4/26/07 - About the Gender Wage Gap
In our class discussion, there was debate about the gender wage gap. According to this article, in 2006, women made 77% of what men made; however, you have to be aware that the ratio changes from year to year, and may also vary due to the methods of determining the gap. For exam, some reports say the gap in 2004 was 74:100, while another says it was 81:100. Included in what has to be considered is occupational category, and gender segregation in the workforce. Men and women still generally don't work in the same occupations. Even where they do, men tend to make more than women, and in many professions, the gap is much wider than the national average. Another thing to consider is the gap's slight narrowing over time has less to do with women making more money than it has to do with men making less money.

Sociology of the Family/Marriage and Family

Robin Brownfield - Instructor

Texts

Lamanna and Riedmann. Marriages and Families: Making Choices in a Diverse Society, 9th Edition.
Annual Editions. The Family 08/09.
Pelzer. David. A Child Called “It”

Course Objectives

This course will cover the study of marriage and family life with sociological theory and research . The course will provide a comprehensive overview of the progression from dating to marriage and family, as well as the alternatives to “traditional” marriage and family arrangements.

Evaluation

1. There will be 2 exams (a midterm and a final exam) in this class. Each will count as 20% of your grade. I will no longer allow make-up exams more than one (1) week after the scheduled exam date.

2. You will write a 2-page book review of "A Child Called It. Counts as 20% of your grade.

3. You will be writing one term project where you will do an extensive analysis of your own family, its structure, and various issues that have affected its life course. You will be given guidelines for this shortly. This will be a rather lengthy project that should take AT LEAST 7-8 pages, plus research and documentation. This project is worth 20% of your grade.

3. Attendance and participation can affect your grade. You are allowed 2 “free” absences during the semester. If you arrive late, leave early, and spend class time texting friends outside of class, that can impact on this grade. (20% of your grade)

Schedule of Assignments

1/22 - 24 Introduction

Varied Perspectives on the Family
Read: LaManna et al, Ch. 1 & 2.
Annual Editions, Articles 50, 51.

MORE NOTES

1/29 - 31 - American Families in Social Context; Exploring the Family.
– LaManna, Ch. 3.
Annual Editions, Articles 1 - 5.

2/5 - 7 - Our Gendered Identities
LaManna, Ch. 4
Start reading: A Child Called “It.”

2/12 - 14 - Loving Ourselves and Others; Our Sexual Selves.
LaManna , Ch. 5. 6
Annual Editions, Articles 6 - 9.

2/19 - 21 - Committing to Each Other; Marriage, A Private and Public Relationship.
– LaManna, Ch. 7 & 8.
Annual Editions, Articles 10 - 12.

2/26 - 28 - Alternatives to Marriage.
LaManna , Ch. 9
Annual Editions, Articles 20 - 22.
Book Review Due: 2/28/08 (A Child Called “It”)

3/4 - 6 - To Parent or Not to Parent; Parents and Children Through the Life Course.
Ch. 10, 11.
Annual Editions, Articles 23 - 27.

Midterm handed out at the END of class, 3/6/08. Please do not ask me for the test at the beginning of the class. Schedule your doctor's appointment, court dates, and your great-aunt's third funeral for another day or time. If you have a problem with getting the exam on this date, inform me ahead of time - NOT ON MARCH 6.

3/11 - 13 - Work and the Family.
LaManna , Ch. 12.
Annual Editions, Article 38.

Midterm Due - 3/11/08

3/18 - 20 - SPRING BREAK!!!

3/25 - 27 - Communication and Managing Conflict in Marriages and Families; Power and Violence in Marriages and Families
LaManna , Ch. 13, 14.
Annual Editions, Article 33 - 35.

4/1 - 3 - Family Stress, Crises and Resilience; Divorce: Before and After.
LaManna , Ch. 15, 16.
Annual Editions, Article 44.

4/8 - 10 -Step-Parenting/Families
LaManna , Ch. 17.
Annual Editions, Article 45.

4/15 - 17 -Aging Families; Death and Dying.
LaManna , Ch. 18.
Annual Editions, Articles 39 - 43.
Term Projects Due - 4/15

4/22 - 24 -Families and Public Policy.
Annual Editions, Articles 39 - 43.

4/29 - 5/1 -End of Days.
Final Exam Due - 5/1/08.

TERM PAPER - SOCIOLOGY OF THE FAMILY

For your term paper, you will write a biography of your family, analyzing the relationships between family members. The information in these papers will be confidential, so do not worry about discussing family issues that you would not discuss with other people. This is a project geared toward getting you to look at your family from the outside in.

In your paper, consider the following:

Who is in your family? Try to give a brief history of the people in your family - as far back as you can go in researching it. If you know things about your great-great-great grandmother, then that is...great! But if you can only find information as far back as your grandparents or even your parents (or whoever raised you), then that is acceptable.

Focus on your family of orientation (birth or adoptive family). If you are married and/or have children, you may focus on your family of procreation (the family you create) if that is preferable. You MAY do both if you are ambitious!

Consider the following issues as well when doing your analysis:

Gender Socialization

Do you think your family was very traditional in raising you to be masculine or feminine? Consider as many different angles regarding gender socialization in your family as you can. Who did what in your family? Were (are) gender roles overtly taught, taught by example, or not taught in a traditional way at all? Were (are) males and females treated differently in your family? If so, how?

Division of Labor

Again, who did/does what in terms of work in your household? Were/are there any issues regarding the division of labor that affected your family (positively or negatively).

Power Relationships

Analyze your family in terms of the power relationships that exist. Who has/had what kind of power? How was that power exerted? Were/are there power struggles between family members? If so, what are some of the results of that struggle?

Parenting

How were your parents as parents? Describe their parenting style(s), the issues that came up for them as parents, the struggles you may have (had) with your parents, etc. If you are a parent, try to analyze your own parenting style and skills.

Single Parenting

Were you raised in a single parent home? Are you, or have you been a single parent? Do you think that your experiences with single parenting are different than for parents who raise children with partners? If so, how?

Adoption

Were you or any of your family members adopted? Have you adopted a child or children? What are some of the experiences you’ve had being an adopted child or an adoptive parent related to the issues of adoption?

Gay or Lesbian family members and the issues of Sexuality in General

Has your family had experience with relating to a Gay or Lesbian family member (including yourself, if this is appropriate to your life)? Were you raised by Gay or Lesbian parents?

(Note: If this or other issues suggested are not applicable to your family, you do not have to address them.)

How did your family handle the issue of sex education?

Divorce, Remarriage, Step-Parenting, Step-Siblings

Has your family had experience with divorce or separation? Remarriage? Do you have step-parents and/or step-siblings? How would you characterize the relationships between yourself and step-family? Similar questions if you are an adult who has experienced your own divorce, etc...

Dramatic Events in Your Family Life

Have there been any dramatic (or traumatic) events in your family’s life? Examples: (positive) were there any multiple births, weddings, adoptions; (negative) death in the family from a catastrophic illness, accident, suicide, murder/homicide, war. Were there problems with child or spousal abuse and/or substance abuse (drugs, alcohol)?

THIS IS YOUR FAMILY STORY, so I don’t expect any two papers to be alike. You may choose the style or format to tell this story, but be sure to use the textbook as reference to various concepts (such as gender roles, Gay/Lesbian issues, power issues, etc.). You may also use outside references to help you organize your paper.

(Note: I do not share any of the information in your papers with others. Everything in them is strictly confidential. If this paper is too personal or may cause you discomfort, please speak to me and I will give you an alternate assignment.)

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How I grade: Family Analysis Paper

Utilizing the materials introduced in this course so far, analyze your family sociologically. Specifically, address the ways your individual family has been “socially constructed.” Situate your family in social, historical, and economic contexts and discuss how these forces may have shaped courting, marriages and other partnerships, family structures, divorces, and childbearing/childrearing in your family. Does your family conform to the social trends in the above areas about which we have been learning? How? If your family differs greatly from these trends (and those differences are not addressed in course materials), you may draw on your emerging (or maybe well-developed) “sociological imagination” to sociologically interpret your family patterns in ways not fully articulated in the course materials. However, use this option in a manner which demonstrates that you are familiar with course materials.

You should also consider how race, class, and gender have impacted your family’s forms and paths. Finally, address whether the examples provided by your family support or refute the idea of a “monolithic family form” or a “stable and harmonious family of the past.”

Note that it is not sufficient to assert that your family is a social anomaly which does not reflect any social trends or is outside the impact of social forces. You may rely on the concept of “social agency” but be sure to explain fully both the concept and the attributes or resources available to your family.

Use data from your own life as well as from the lives of your grandparents and your parents. It is acceptable to use data from only one set of grandparents. Speak to me if you are not able to gather any information about any of your grandparents. Note from the description above that you may need to gather more data on family members than we have used for class activities thus far.

I expect well-written, grammatically correct, spell-checked, and properly punctuated papers. They should be 7 to 8 pages, in 12 point font, and double spaced. You need not include a bibliography but do cite your sources after you refer to them – for example (Skolnick, p. 45) or (Lecture, 4/21/05).

Grading Criteria: All written assignments will be evaluated on the basis of these general guidelines.

A – Great! Superior composition, organization, and style. Excellent and detailed supporting examples to back up arguments. Good grasp of the material is demonstrated by the correct use of important concepts from the class as well as their complexities. Creative and original. An “A” paper demonstrates a sociological analysis which goes beyond simply matching your family to the readings and lectures. Sources cited. I learned something valuable from you. Your written work is carefully proofread and with a few exceptions is free of error.

B – Good work! Skillfully and well-organized. Arguments are well-supported. Good use of concepts from class. Perhaps you have more than a couple of mistakes. Perhaps you could be clearer or more in-depth in you discussion. On the whole, your written work is good, but I can point to a few counter-arguments or implications that you are missing. Your written work is proofread, and contains no more than 5 errors.

C – OK. Fulfills the requirements of the assignment. Adequate but uninspired writing. Main points have some sort of support. Your reference concepts from class and have some arguments. Perhaps your arguments are unclear. Perhaps you have a few minor misunderstandings, but no major errors or misinterpretations. There are some gaps in you logic at times and perhaps you lack depth in some areas. Your written work could benefit from a closer proofreading.

D – You can do better! Does not meet all the assignment requirements and/or has missing sections. Poorly delivered/written and organized. Poor arguments, large logical gaps, major misunderstanding of concepts, and analysis that generally remains at the surface or obvious level. Number of errors noted were a distraction to the reader and/or made interpretation of your ideas difficult.

F – Insert your own explanation here!

Note: The two most common (and easiest to fix) mistakes that students make are 1) not paying attention to the assignment and leaving out necessary segments of the assignment, and 2) not having a clear grasp of the assignment and failing to ask for clarification. If you are confused, talk to me before or after class or email me.

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