When
a person has been hurt the first thing to happen is to be angry and
want to strike back. And rightfully so, but one must use wisdom and
when you are hurting that is not always the case. For those of us who
love and trust in Jesus, He will take care of us and those that hurt
us.
Romans 12:9 "Never take revenge, my friends, but instead let God's
anger do it. For the scripture says, "I will take revenge, I will pay
back, says the Lord." We must trust in God to take care of our enemies
using whatever and whomever He needs to.
While
God is taking care of our enemies we who are hurting must trust and
allow Jesus to heal our wounds, spiritually, emotionally and
physically. We
must bath ourselves in the Word of God so that we may learn to love
and forgive.
"You
have heard that it was said, "You shall love your neighbor and hate
your enemy. But I say to you, "Love your enemies and pray for those
who persecute you. so that you may be children of your Father in Heaven;
for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain
on the righteous and on the unrighteous. For if you love those who love
you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the
same? And if you greet only your brothers and sisters, what more are
you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same?"
Be
perfect, therefore, as your Heavenly Father is perfect." Matthew 5:43-48
"Beloved, let us love one another, because love is from God; everyone
who loves is born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not
know God, for God is love."
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God's love was revealed among us in this way: God sent His only Son
in the world so that we might live through Him. In this is love, not
that we loved God but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the atoning
sacrifice for our sins. Beloved, since God loved us so much, we also
ought to love one another." 1 John 4:7-12
The
question you have to ask is "Can I trust you Jesus?" Be honest
with yourself and God. Then healing can begin. It is a slow
process and all God is asking for is to trust Him for 1 minute and then
2, so on until you can trust Him everyday.