What is Flirting all about?
Flirting is NOT about blowing kisses at the boys or smiling seductively. Flirting is about smiling sweetly at the boys and showing your best, gentle, caring self. If what you feel is lust, by all means do the former. However, if your aim is to make him fall for you, well, you do the latter. Who doesn't want to have lots of admirers? Of cos I'm not here to encourage you to flirt around all the time, especially when you already have a boyfriend, so this article here applies to those single girls out there who are wondering how to make a guy like you. It's not that difficult, really. Kayla has lots of guy pals, and almost all of them fall for the ones that are caring and treat them well. Guys are like girls in that sense, I guess. We all can't help our feelings sometimes, can't help falling for someone because he or she is just so nice. If guys can do the flirting, why can't we girls?? Hence listed below are some well-practised techniques that Kayla has tried-and-tested and culled from her vast experiences ( gasp!):
Don't praise another guy's looks in front of him
Don't criticise anything or make yourself seem petty
Don't scold him too much even if you mean affection
Talk to him about his interests
Look into his eyes when you smile
Give handmade gifts for his birthday eg. sew something special
Show support for him eg. cheer for him at competitions
Help him in his research eg. look for a reference book for his research topic at the library
Laugh at his jokes. If they are not funny, well, what are you doing with a guy who tells bad jokes?
Lastly, NEVER put a guy down, if your intend is to snare him. It's a well-known fact that their egos can't take too much beating...
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