PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT & YOU

To boost your self image with optimism by possessing special qualities that inspire respect, admiration, confidence to impress those around you is like holding a MASTER CREDIT CARD to win hearts and lead road ahead to achieve peace, prosperity and above all, a positive personality YOU. Getting alongwith people is very important in today’s modernity and as a matter of fact, pleasing personality, patience, tolerance, appreciation, tact, efficiency, literacy, awareness, etc. are the major factors that play a key role for a future vision for success. Some can turn an acquaintance to a strong bond of friendship, while some refrain from any kind of relation. It depends individually on nature and lifestyle, however, it is very true that certain qualities in You is your Personality. In day to day life, we have to perform a hundred chores right from the duty to talking, eating, meeting friends, people at work place, meeting strangers, in solitude and so on. The way one think, reacts, speaks, behaves and copes up is more important for a thorough You. However, an impressive personality can be briefly summed up which play a basic role to make a special You.

Pleasing Personality: Be kind, loving, caring, thoughtful, sympathetic, positive to project self image with confidence and firm in decision. A sunny nature with cheery heart leaves no room for gloom on one’s face. Your attitude, etiquette and manners project your innerself and win many hearts. Neat, clean, well dressed with maintained physique makes you confident, sure result oriented person. Cool disposition with maturity and sensitivity adds to charm and beauty in making an impressive personality .These qualities make you a different person - a cut above the others. Positive qualities once imbibed will inevitably become a part of one’s nature.

Cultivate a Smile: Be friendly and happy. A smile is the longest word in the world with a mile between the first and the last letter. The smile is the shortest distance between two people. People are more responsive to good humoured person. A smile tension, eases pain, leaves behind troubles. It enriches those who receive, create happiness in homes, foster goodwill and business and is the countersign of friends. A smile reflects genuineness, a curved line that straighten up things right. It invites friendship, affection, confidence and encourages the disheartened. A bubbling smile from the heart drives away hovering dark shadows to coax the sun again to brighten up the path to reach the goals.

Give Honest Appreciation & Avoid Criticism: Appreciation is demanding to encourage enthusiasm in an individual. Every human craves for appreciation to develop his personality and possess the superior complex with lavish praise.Sincere appreciation and flattery are two different actions altogether. Appreciation means complimenting heartily to make a person feel important and rise his spirits whereas flattery is lame which a well aware person’s heart fills with malishness, egoism and harsh reality puts either of the two involved in bitterness. Hence, appreciation with heart makes all the difference. Criticism in turn, wounds hearts, arises inferiority, discourages a person and leaves scars of despair. Tact should be implied instead of Criticism and all sarcastic remarks should be avoided to forego grudge.

Tact: This is securely favouring position to make a person friendly. Avoid being irritated but firmly and kindly speak your say without entering into an argument. Be optimistic in views and avoid negative impacts of words.

Voice Modulation: A person’s voice reflects his personality. The way one feels,behaves, moods, attitudes are reflected through his voice. Soft, pleasant, husky voice with low pitch, not harsh, dull or lifeless, but bold, confident, clear, well pronounce play a vital role in self reflection. Mirror practice proves to be beneficial for better pronunciation and also find yourself in a corner of a room and repeat your name often till you find your voice clear, soft, but audible. Avoid shouting on top of your voice and check yourself with spicy food habits

Correct Posture: Stand erect with an authority with lifted face, chin forward and upward, face alert, shoulders straightened without standing stiff. Hand should not show signs of consciousness but either with fists closed, not clenched or easy with hands folded or at the back with slight one foot forward. Balanced in a natural looking way Tummy should be in and not get distracted and have presence of mind by avoiding all ways like scratching your nose, jingling keys or coins in pocket, rocking back & forth on your heels etc. Walk should be graceful with proper strides, easy, feet moving parallel to each other with arms swinging and shoulders relaxed. Palm should be towards the body. Sit erect with hands on your legs, with neat curves of your dress falling at your knees or feet together in a managed way.

Be an Interesting Person : Be zestful in life and enjoy thoroughly. Be creative, pour new ideas and fill your life with Interest, hobbies, ambitions, exhibit your talents. Develop your tastes, your positive approach. Imbibe the habits of reading, music, creativity, walking, socializing and workoholism. This will widen your visions, improve on personal efficiency, concentration, power of observation, optimistic and make you a lively person. Personality will widen your horizons with Happiness and is really the ability to strike a balance between an individual Lifestyle and art of living.

Human Relations is your influence with people around you. The patterns of lifestyle, attitudes, behaviour, feelings, motivation, sharing and giving, etc. In short, different aspects of your personality, making a MAGNETIC YOU! The basic insights into human nature is important and can be categorized as follows:

Different Character : All possess different kind of character, whether good or bad. This is because of their continuous influence on their surroundings right from the birth to levels of their understanding. All have their ups and downs and so, one has to understand through sympathetic imagination, possess the abilities to feel other’s problems, joys, thrills, sorrows and above all, nature.

Emotionally Sociable : Be kind, caring, thoughtful person. It shows your quality of goodness, friendliness, loving and cooperative self. People see what you show yourself, the genuineness, originality, eternal outer surface of your heart. Your built up image reflects your mind and your actions speak louder than words.

Concerned Nature : Your concern over feelings of others is always appreciated and are the basic forces for their liking towards you. Criticism should have no stand in one’s life and is raw, disheartening, discouraging and just smudged reaction to let down a person. Criticism is your inferior complex, popping up on surface, an ego to boost your ownself. Love, affection, appreciation in turn, makes you feel important, liked and above all, a best among the rest.

Ideals & Inspirations : These are the qualities that motivate to show the surging potentials within you. They rise your spirits to swing in action and gear for a set of desired goals reaching the attaining heights of superiority and success. Encouragement builds confidence and plays a major role from the start. The conscious within stirs the soul with the ideals and thereby Inspirations generate the will to push ahead the lifetime Karmas for a nonchalant achievement.

Wisdom of Acceptance : Our basic concept of accepting people is "Beware - No blind conviction please" which true in modern times yet, unfortunate attitude misguiding the human mind. Strangers too, are humans with equally a static life with ups and downs turning their moods and attitude. A kind, caring affectionate goodness with sympathetic imagination and ability to feel other’s joy, thrills, anxieties, problems builds an acceptance of a person with insights of human behavioural patterns.

 Forgiveness : The shaken and strained state of mind with resentment experiences bitterness and frustration. Forgiveness to the guilty relaxes and easens the stress and relations. The sympathetic forgiveness, true from the heart brings peace and happiness. The emotional set back turns to normalcy with realization of shame and guilt, gathering up oneself from shattered hopes of despair.

Sharing & Giving : When you squander for yourself, you become a victim of selfish mind but selflessness sharing and giving, in terms of your ideas, time, energy, talent, money, belongings will reach you heights anew with aliveness and joys of living. A luxurious living hurts inside with loneliness and malign feelings but, initiated feelings of sharing and giving will add to peace, joy and prosperity, the true art of living.

Pious Nature : Being an atheist brings out a human in you. Divine contact brings vision for future. Abilities blossoms with renewed hope, faith and trust making a more deeper person with understandings of humanity. The blurred visibilities are clear as reflections of religious feelings gives strength and courage to face challenges of life.

 Communication : The very heart of human relations that bridges gaps towards closeness. Communication can be words, gestures or from the core of the heart. Sorrows, joys, dreams, success, failures and so on are the basic human conversational topics in different forms. Personal feelings are vital exposures and should be shared deeply for a strong bond of relationship. The very absence of communication would leave one alone morose and broken hearted.

True is your Beauty in body and Soul if you understand the Art of living with the basics of Human Relations and then one is able to built a better Personality

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