THIS MONTH » October 

There is a lot to be said for being friends before being lovers. You may have to get hurt in order to learn a lesson on the 3rd and 4th, but at least it's a lesson that you won't soon forget -- do your best to move on without holding a grudge. Your restlessness in a current relationship could cause you to sit back and think about what you are doing and why. If you're in a relationship, it's important to try to shift the focus off of yourself and onto your partner from the 18th though the 21st -- they may be feeling ignored or unwanted, and only you can make them feel special.