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Julia (5/8/01)
I was
getting very heavy periods and blood clots to start with and then the intense
pain started, I just thought it was normal because my mother use to get the same
symptoms. This carried on for about a year and then I can remember saying to
myself this pain can't be normal, so I made an appointment to see my GP. It was
a lady doctor and she did seem reluctant, but I was not going to be fobbed off.
First I was tested for clamydia which proved negative and then I went to the
hospital for an ultra sound scan where they detected a cyst on my ovary.
They suggested it was probably benign they even suggested it could be a
chocolate cyst and even mentioned endo. I had my lap and found endo on my left
hand side, apparently it is mild endo. The gyno then put me on Zoladex implants
for 6 months, one G.P. said it wouldn't stop my periods and the other one did so
I was confused as after the first injection my period started. I can only
describe as being on zoladex as hell it really affected my moods and the side
effects are none too pleasant the night sweats being the worst. I was then told
after my course of zoladex has ended there is no guarantee that the endo will
go. I have just had my fourth period since coming off zoladex and I know it is
back because of the intense pain I have endured for three days and also the
heavy bleeding. My next step is too have the cyst on my ovary removed which I am
having done on the 21 August. The only thing that is worrying me is that if they
can't pierce the cyst they want to remove one of my ovaries. I also get a lot of
pain in my bowel I suspect it could be endo I have got a colonoscopy in October
so I wont know until then. I will keep you posted after I have had my operation.
Marina (4/8/01)
Joanne (4/8/01)
I started my periods
at 14, I used to get really bad pain, very heavy bleeding and sometimes I would
go a grey colour and just pass out. I would go to the doctors and get sent
home being told everyone has this trouble I have got to learn to cope with it.
I knew this was not normal as my friends did not seem to be in as much pain as
me.
I left school at 16 and went to college, my course got terminated because I was
having so much time off with my periods. I started work and every job I
had I lost because of the time I would have off due to my periods. I got
another job and luckily enough my boss recognised my symptoms as her daughter
was an endo sufferer. My mum took me round the doctors and asked if I
could be checked for endo, the doctor just laughed and said I was too young.
My mum demanded that I be checked, my periods got worse and worse so I got my
appointment through for my lap quite soon. At the age of only 17 I had
been diagnosed with endo, I was told it was on a ligament, I can't remember
much. I got put on Danazol after lap and they gave me bad side effects, I
was very moody so I had to stop.
A year later my periods got worse and worse, I had to wait for another lap, this
lap also got brought forward as I was in a lot of pain. I was told if the
endo had spread they would laser it away. I went in hospital for my lap,
when I woke I was told they had to laser as endo had spread to ligament and
pouch of douglas. I was put on Provera which was supposed to stop me from
bleeding but I bled all the time, I also got very moody so I was taken off
Provera. When I was first diagnosed with endo I cried and cried because endo
meant one word to me and that was I could not have children. I wanted to
try for a family as soon as possible, I had to wait 6 months to
let Provera get out of my system and then I fell pregnant after 6 months of
trying. I had a fairly good pregnancy and had my first child at the age of
21. After my baby my periods calmed down, the pain did not stop I was put
on the pill so I would not be as heavy, the laser must have helped.
When I was 23 I wanted another baby, I fell pregnant after 4 months of trying.
At 22 weeks pregnant I was rushed into hospital as I was bleeding, no one could
find the cause of this bleeding so I was told I would have to stay in. I
bled for 6 weeks constantly and had to stay in hospital the whole time being
away from my other child. I had the baby at 28 weeks pregnant being 12
weeks early he weighed only 2lb 2oz, the baby (Ronnie) had to stay in hospital
for 3 months as he was poorly. I have been told since that this happened
due to endo.
I am now 26, my
children are 2 and 4 years. My symptoms of endo are Painful periods, heavy
bleeding, blood clots, headaches, tiredness, painful bowel movements, pain
during intercourse, increased PMT. At the moment I am looking in to if I
have a hormone imbalance as I get very moody I feel like I am on my PMT 3-4
weeks out of one month. I have gone to see my gyne and have been told this
is impossible and he wants me to see a shrink, I feel so tired I don't
think I have the energy to keep fighting for answers. I also feel like I
don't even have a sex drive, I am never in the mood for sex and this puts
pressure on my relationship, especially as I am getting married next year.
But I always say how can I want something that hurts so much?
Tracy
(5/8/01)
At the age of 13 I
started my periods, and by the time I was 15 I was on the pill as they were so
heavy and painful, my mum actually took me to the surgery so they would believe
me. I took it, up till I was about 18 1/2 when I realised I was doing so
badly with personal relations as I was depressed, which I am sure was the pill.
I was then stuck with regard to contraception, so I had the Depo-Provera
Injection Twice. Oh my god, if any of you are ever
thinking of trying it, please don't. I had horrible mood swings, constant back
pains, and no periods for a year. When me periods did return, I was
menstruating for 9 months. I was a mess. It was about this time that I had
my first admission to hospital. I spent two days as an in-patient on
antibiotics as they thought I had P.I.D.. I was given an ultrasound scan which
showed enlarged ovaries. When I was discharged I was told I had irritable
bowel syndrome, eat more fibre and I would be fine. Years went by,
multiple admissions to casualty for query ectopic pregnancy, query miscarriage,
query infection and possible ruptured cyst. I became more and more disheartened,
each time I was told, there was nothing wrong with me, Women get bad periods, I
had to learn to put up with it. I was told my pain was in my head, that I
was wasting N.H.S. resources and that I was just looking for attention. In
one follow up appointment, I went in to see the consultant and demanded a
Laparoscopy, he agreed (my heart stopped beating whilst I waited for his reply).
My op was scheduled 12 weeks later, and as I came round from my anaesthetic, the
consultant told me "I had a perfectly healthy reproductive system, although
my bowel as a little 'loaded,' congratulations". I was told to sort
out my IBS and I would be fine. This was in Jan 2000. I think my lap must
have done something to relieve my symptoms for a while as I was okay until Sept
of that year, when the pain returned with vengeance. I missed so much work, I
was constantly in pain, and again I was a mess. I went to see my GP, I had left
it till I was at the end of my tether as I was sure she would be useless. I was
24 by this time. She listened, then said "Tracy, the pain is due to
your endometriosis". Shocked, I nearly fell off the chair, I was convinced
I had it but the consultant had told me I was healthy. It turned out he had
found a very small amount on my left utero sacral ligament, but didn't think it
was worth mentioning to me. Angry didn't even come close. I was prescribed
strong pain relief, Tramadol and Danazol. Both of which were horrible.
Terrible side-effects and feeling spaced out all the time. During this time I
also had my routine smear. It came back borderline so I had to go to the clinic
at the hospital to have a few tests done, They found pre-cancerous cells which
needed to be removed, and as I found the examination so painful, they decided to
do it under general anaesthetic. I was due to go in and have it done on 03/01
and my GP also suggested we could get the consultant to do a hysteroscopy at the
same time, to look at my endo. (Shows how good she was, seen as endo lives on
the outside not the inside)!!!!!!! When I hadn't heard anything for a few weeks
I called her, she was very short with me, and said it was a decision for the
consultant to make, not her. I would like at this point to tell you what I
thought of her, but trying to keep this polite!!!! So, I decided to see the
consultant direct and ask him, I phoned and managed to get an appt. I got
there, and he didn't know anything about me, or why I was on such a cocktail of
drugs, as according to my notes there was little wrong with me. He was
very too the point, and in my fragile state I felt like the last part of the rug
had been ripped from underneath me. I cried all the way home. The only
good thing was he agreed to refer me to the pain clinic. Upon returning to
my GP, she was just as pleasant (please note the sarcasm). She was
horrified that I had taken matters into my own hands, her exact words were
"I had shot myself in the foot, she could no longer confer with the
consultant on my behalf". As far as she was concerned that was the end of
it. I was mortified, my other half was so upset he threatened to go and
tell my GP what he thought of her, until I calmed him down. My pain clinic
apt came through, for August 2001, 6 six months away! Then the worst pain
I had ever felt in my life hit me, one Sunday night. My other half didn't know
what to do, and in the end he couldn't bear me rolling round the bed in pain any
longer and phoned the doctor. She came, and as my periods are not regular,
could not rule out ectopic pregnancy, sent me to the hospital. I had
morphine and a positive pregnancy test. I was told I would have to have a
blood test and a scan the next day, and probably the removal of a fallopian
tube. My blood test was negative, so I wasn't pregnant, and my scan showed
Polycystic Ovaries. I was then told I had Polycystic ovary syndrome. The
best thing was my pain clinic apt was brought forward and I got to see my
greatest friend. This consultant was one that specialised in chronic pain,
and he found out I had a trapped nerve in my abdo wall. He injected it and I
found myself pain free for two months. Trouble is now that my periods have
returned, and my nerve block wore off after only three months (having it
injected again tomorrow!) My pain has
become cyclical again and I am only having one pain free week in every cycle.
I have found myself a new GP who is wonderful (they do exist) who is doing blood
tests for my PCOS and tiredness, and treating my horrid PMT. He also thought it
was about time that I had another Lap, as he has no doubt that I have endo and
no doubt that something has got to be done. I have had over two months off
work this year for pain alone, and often find myself wishing that my life was
over, but I have learnt to cope by holding on tight to my pain free days, and by
loving those around me. I know this story is really long, but I hoped, by
writing it, I could give hope to others in the same position. I will never
give up and hope that you won't too. Take care and God bless.
Caron (7/8/01)
I am 31 years old (32
in Sept 2001) and was diagnosed with Endo on 16th March 2000.
I did not even consider I had a gynealogical complaint and had been going back
and forth to Hospital for about 18 months prior for various bowel exams after I
suffered a severe bout of Diahorrea that lasted for 2 weeks and got so bad I was
passing blood. Once this eased off I still suffered regular bouts of Diahorrea
and severe pain on left hand side of stomach, hence the bowel exams that
followed:
Barium Enema
Colonoscopy
After both tests they diagnosed IBS as the exams showed nothing unusual in
relation to my bowel.
Months later I went for my regular smear test (had to go yearly due to an
abnormal cells result 4 years ago), because of severe bleeding that occurred as
soon as my smear test had taken place my doctor said he would refer me to see a
gynae as this was not normal. On my first gynae visit I was asked the following:
Did I have irregular bleeding whilst on menstrual
cycle?
Did I have any breakthrough bleeding?
Did I have painful sex?
Did I have painful periods?
And many more questions
I found myself answering YES to all of these and more so he booked me in for an
Internal Scan which showed my left ovary was over twice the size of my right
(still not sure why ?). A month later I went into hospital for my 1st
Laparoscopy and advised that if endo was found they would perform the laser
surgery to remove it. The Operation uncovered that I had endo on my ovaries and
it was stuck to my womb and my bowel was stuck to my stomach.
Unfortunately, after recovering from the operation the pain returned. I was on a
course of DANAZOL which was great for a while (apart from some side effects).
I then found further information from the National Endometriosis Society (NES)
website that got me thinking that maybe I didn't have IBS and that this was endo
related, although my gynae always refers to IBS separately.
Nearly a year later I went into hospital for a Partial Hysterectomy, but was
advised that I may have to have my Ovaries out at a later date as this would
only stop the Heavy Periods and was not a guaranteed cure for endo. I did ask to
have my ovaries removed to but because of my age I was advised against it and
went ahead with the partial instead.
Now 4 months after my Partial Hyst the Pain is back I have an additional Bladder
problem caused by the surgery and my bowel movements are up the wall again. My
next appointment to see my gynae is in September and it's unfortunate I'm
counting down the days until I see him hoping he can help, (already on
medication for pain/IBS - taking colofac and on medication for Bladder problem
Detrusitol).
I'm not sure what to expect next but am ever hopeful that someday my pain will
be no more !!!
Fiona
(7/8/01)
Debbie (12/8/01)
My
problems started when my periods started at the age of 13, I always had bad pain
but not unlike many others at school. As a few years passed it got worse and I
had to have time off of school with my period pain. Years passed and the
situation got worse, my Doctor for so many years would just say you are just
unlucky and JUST have bad periods. For about 4 years between the 3 Doctors at
the surgery they tried different pills over periods of time for about 4 years,
some would make me collapse and pass out at work, while all the others just did
not touch the pain. In the end (December 1994) I almost screamed at my Doctor to
refer me to a specialist because my life was becoming unbearable and I was in
fear of losing my job (I worked there for 5.5 years), because of having to have
the 2 days off each month at the beginning of my period (which one year I took
nearly all as holiday).
I went to see the Gynaecologist
(March 1995) he seemed very nice and understanding at first. He carried
out one Laparoscopy (June 1995) and lasered some Endometriosis, but apparently
there was a small amount on the left side of my womb, which was too dangerous to
laser. In October 1995 I was put on Synarel (nasal spray hormone treatment),
this was meant to be for 6 months but I was taken off of it after 5 months
because my hair had started to fall out & I was extremely depressed
(understandable as I was ill & losing my hair), depression was also a side
effect of the drug, BUT what did my GP do – he sent me to a psychiatrist
(March 1996). I couldn’t believe it, sending me to one of them, when I am one
of the fortunate who have had a wonderful upbringing, I have lovely parents
& brother and some woman is asking me about my child hood, I was disgusted.
My GP thought I was some sort of hypochondriac or something. Throughout this
time it was very painful to have intercourse.
I also had abnormal cells and had to have a colposcopy. The same Gynaecologist
done this too and the day after I went into work but was like a zombie as I was
in so much pain. I went to my Doctor and he signed me off for a week. Throughout
all of this my Employer requested all of my medical files including from the
hospital, of course they got to see all of them because I was actually ill, I
had nothing to hide from them. On the 2nd day of my signed off period
I was visited by my Supervisor and Personnel Officer, they were quite pleasant
at first (bearing in mind that my supervisor was a so called friend), but at the
end of their visit they told me that if I came back to work they would take me
through disciplinary action. I was absolutely gutted I had worked really hard
there for 5.5 years and this was how they would repay me. They added that if I
did not want to come back, don’t worry we will pay you your notice period of a
month. Once again I was gutted, that’s how much they thought of me. I had
about 30 friends there, who I see none of since then.
My Gynaecologist told me after coming off of the Synarel that this may be the
only chance I have to become pregnant. So I did (in fear of if I left it, it
could be too late), at 7-8 weeks I had a miscarriage, this was the worse time of
my life. I got rushed into hospital with my Dad & Boyfriend. They put me on
a commode & then when I was screaming in agony and passed like a large clot,
I looked at the nurse and she told me I had lost my baby. I cried all night in
hospital, my Dad and boyfriend went home believing the same. At 10.00 a.m. my
Gynaecologist was talking to my boyfriend and best friend, when they came over I
could tell that Nathan (boyfriend) was upset, I then found out why. The
Gynaecologist had told them that I had not lost my baby and that he thought I
was having an ectopic pregnancy, which is very dangerous. Everyone was in a
state, I had lots of visitors, it was as if someone had told me my life was
about to end. All day I was in agony and all they would give me was paracetamol,
which never ever touch the pain caused by Endometriosis & the pain I was
felling then was worse than my period pains. That night I cried myself to sleep,
because this was Saturday night and even with the severity of what they thought
the problem was, they were not going to do anything until Monday (good job I
didn’t die (which can happen with ectopic pregnancy) wasn’t it). Sunday
morning I woke up at 6 a.m. feeling completely empty. I waddled to the toilet
and as I sat down this like a 5-inch package fell into the toilet – I had
miscarried whole. I will never ever forget what that little parcel looked like
– that had my baby in it. I pulled the alarm and a nurse rushed in and asked
her to confirm that that was my baby and she said we will not be able to tell
until tomorrow but it could just be Endometriosis tissue – AS IF!! I knew it
was not because I felt completely empty. I phoned Nathan to tell him. The next
morning they sent me to wait in a waiting room full of very pregnant women
waiting for a scan, you can imagine how upsetting this was. I had to have a
scan, to be told you have lost your baby.
After this I just went back to using Co-Proxamol for the pain – after all I
had lived on these for approx 4 years. I started to get ill again and yet again
my GP made me feel like I was pestering him, he would say ‘Oh, you again’
when I walked into his surgery room. I had another appointment for a Laparoscopy
and was so ill I wanted them to just take everything away –a hysterectomy
(December 1996). But I was too young and they would not do this. My appointment
was going to be in 6 months time. Unknown to me my Dad had phoned the hospital
telling them how ill I was every day and wanted them to get me in sooner. As
well as the normal pain I had been suffering extreme pain that almost made me
scream every time I went to the toilet – not passing water. I did get a
cancellation appointment for 3 months time. Two days before my operation I had
visited my GP again and he called me a hypochondriac, I walked out.
When I saw my Gynaecologist (20th February 1997) before the operation
he was very sarcastic to me in front of my Mum as well, because I had jumped the
queue by keep moaning, my Mum could not believe what he was saying but gritted
her teeth as he was just about to operate on me. My Mum said I was gone about 3
hours. When I came around from the operation, the gynaecologist came to tell us
what had happened, he was kneeling beside my bed apologising because I was in
such a state inside and he had not believed me. He had lasered a mass of
Endometriosis adhesions and a curtain of adhesions had pulled my bowel up to my
liver (even though this was not his area – near the liver). Since this I have
been told I have IBS as well as being tired all the time, miserable & upset
and feeling totally inadequate as a woman towards my husband (luckily he has
been great through all this).
After this I changed GP and did get the necessary forms to complain about my GP
but felt to ill & tired to bother, I was just glad to be rid of him.
My new GP is very understanding. I had been ok for 2 years but started to become
ill again before my wedding last year. My doctor put me on the pill for 4 months
with no break so I could get through my wedding with no hassle, unfortunately on
my honeymoon after intercourse I bleed very heavily and was in pain every other
day. When I returned home my doctor referred me to my old Gynaecologist and he
sent a letter saying Non-Urgent appointment will be in 9 months time. I was
disgusted; I didn’t think it was going to come back again. I paid to go
private and had scans which do not show Endometriosis, he spoke with my old
Gynaecologist and told me I need to have a baby. I refused hormone treatment and
am on the pill for 4 months at a time. Unfortunately, this is not working out,
as I am still in agony every month, I have had terrible headaches, nose bleeds
and have started bleeding after intercourse.
I phoned the Endometriosis Society to ask for a name of a woman Gynaecologist
and have been referred to see her in London; this is under the N.H.S and only
took a month from referral date to appointment date. I saw this gynaecologist
who changed my pill from Dianette to Cilest and booked me in for a scan for 26th
June 2001, a Laparoscopy & laser treatment for 2nd July 2001. In
between this time I had breakthrough bleeding after 1.5 months of being on
Cilest, which caused me extreme agony and was absent from work yet again. I had
two scans (internal & external) a week before my Laparoscopy & laser
treatment, the results of which I was told that my left ovary was enlarged &
milky looking. The doctor was expecting to see a large cyst but she didn’t so
she thought it could be covered with endometriosis. Obviously this worried me
for a week. The results of my Laparoscopy & laser from Monday 2nd
July 2001 was that I had new Endometriosis at the back of my womb and some on
the right & left side, which were removed via the laser. The bad news is
that my left fallopian tube is damaged as it is stuck to my bowel. This was not
removed from the bowel as it would have made a mess. I have been told to stay on
the pill continuously and just to break from it if I have breakthrough bleeding.
There was nothing abnormal about my left ovary but that is obviously irrelevant
now as my tube is damaged. The gynaecologist didn’t seem to bothered as she
said ‘your right ovary & tube are fine’.
But I suppose this means that maybe that my chances of falling pregnant
are halved?
My story is one of many. I hope this helps with the understanding of how
important it is for someone to do something about the length of time it takes to
be diagnosed and the care you receive after.
Before
I begin telling my story, I wanted to say that this is going to be a continuing
story. For as long as I continue my
battle with this disease that so few know about and understand, I will keep
writing about it.
On
August 14, 2000, I was finally diagnosed, via Laparoscopy, with endometriosis.
My mom had read an article in a Reader’s Digest about it and it gave a
list of all the symptoms – I had nearly every single one so at my request my
family doctor refereed me to an ob/gyn.
When I saw the doctor for the follow up appointment, he told me that he
couldn’t remove all of the endometriosis.
In other words, he wasn’t skilled enough.
He said that I had 2 options open to me – Lupron or Danazol and that I
was to have my children before I was 30.
When I asked him about the possible side effects, he said I’d only
suffer from hot flashes.
I didn’t trust him on that since I knew every drug had side effects so
I spoke to my pharmacist and got a lot of information from her on both
treatments.
I
decided to try Lupron.
My first shot was my last.
I had more than just hot flashes.
I had hot flashes, nausea, dizziness, anxiety, lactation, and insomnia.
I’d cry at the drop of a hat. I was forgetful – I was going out of my
mind.
My family doctor took me off the treatment as well as told me to stop
seeing the ob/gyn.
She showed me a letter from him and it said that he told me that I could
take Lupron, Danazol, or the birth control pill.
Too bad I was already taking BCP and he had never mentioned it to me.
My
family doctor then referred me to ob/gyn #2.
I saw him for the first time in December.
By this time I was searching the net for everything I could find on endo.
The
ob/gyn told me that if the pain got worse he’d send me for a Laparoscopy at
Women’s College.
He put me on a new painkiller – Toradol, 4 times a day (10 mg each
time).
He wouldn’t answer any of my questions – just gave general answers.
I
saw him a second time in January because I was in significantly more pain and
the painkillers would only last for 3 hours, if I was lucky.
He took me off the Toradol and put me back on Anaprox (550 mg, twice a
day).
I’d been on Anaprox for over a year already and they no longer eased
the pain.
When I asked him about doing a Laparoscopy he said no point.
He said I could have Lupron, Danazol, stay on the BCP and painkillers or
have a hysterectomy.
Talk about choices!
When I asked about a hyst, he turned around and said that he wouldn’t
recommend it at my age.
I
had read in a book that a woman with endo has a greater chance of miscarriages
and harder pregnancies and that it was also harder for them to conceive.
When I asked what my chances of having children were, he said that endo
made some women infertile but didn’t harm others.
Once again only general answers were given.
I left the appointment feeling frustrated, angry, upset and that I
hadn’t received the help that I deserved.
I
saw my family doctor and right away she said she wasn’t sending me to see
another doctor because two was enough and that I had to “grow up an deal with
it” and “stop letting it rule my life”.
I didn’t go back and see her for well over a month.
The
pain continually got worse. On March 12th, 2001, the pain was so bad
it hurt to move. I felt like
numerous knives were repeatedly stabbing me and that they were being twisted
around. Every time I moved, it felt
like my insides were being torn apart.
On
March 14th, 2001, I went back to see ob/gyn #2 to see if he would do
a lap on April 3rd. The
pain was so bad that my left leg had begun to hurt as well.
If I had had a lap on April 3rd, it would have messed things
up with college, but it might have eased the pain.
At that point I just wanted to stop hurting all the time.
The
trip was pointless. The ob/gyn
informed me that he wasn’t qualified to do a Laparoscopy and he didn’t know
how to treat endo. He said all he
could do for me was a hysterectomy. He
gave me Tylenol III with codeine (pain killer number 7) to take along with the
anaprox and said that he’d send a letter along with a referral to the endo
specialist I had found in hopes that I’d get an appointment sooner.
I
was so mad at my family doctor that it wasn’t funny.
I kept thinking, “How could she send me to see someone who can’t even
treat endo and knows nothing about it”? All
I could do was hope that I got in to see the specialist soon.
When
I returned from my appointment, I stayed home from after noon lectures and took
a Tylenol III, as ob/gyn #2 had told me to do.
It didn’t do much of anything so I took one on top of an anaprox at
supper time. By 7:30pm that night,
I was seeing double. It did
alleviate the pain a bit and I managed to get some sleep.
The
next day I went to college with no pain killers and was in a lot of pain.
I took a Tylenol III and an anaprox at supper and went to bed.
I ended up feeling nausea, my head was hurting and I was seeing double.
I slept for about 3 hours then was awake crying from the pain.
I
called the endo specialist’s office on March 16th, 2001 and his
secretary said that they hadn’t received anything from the ob/gyn but that
she’d set aside May 15th for me and put me on the cancellation
list.
She
also told me that no doctor would recommend taking the Tylenol III and anaprox
at the same time and to go to emergency if things got worse.
I
left a message with the ob/gyns office to send the stuff and they called later
on to say it’d been sent.
My mom called the specialists and made my appointment for May 15th
at 10am.
I was really worried about not being able to have kids and having to have
organs removed if necessary.
On
May 15th, 2001, I saw my new endo specialist.
Once again I was very let down.
He didn’t treat me like an individual; he treated me like all of his
other patients.
I don’t believe that this is a fair way to be treated, as endo
doesn’t effect each person in the same way.
He said that he would do a Laparoscopy on August 22nd because
there is still endo on my ureter, bladder, left ovary and possibly my bowel.
The specialist prescribed a Macrobiotic diet for me to follow, which with
my other health issues is too risky.
He also told me to stop taking my birth control pill for 3 months so that
the endo is more visible during the Laparoscopy.
Of course, he neglected to tell me what would happen when I stopped
taking the pill.
When
it came time for me to start a new package of pills, I didn’t and since then
have suffered from severe headaches, more pain than normal, and lactation.
I expected the pain, my cycle to be messed up and heavy periods – but
lactate for over 8 weeks?!
This wasn’t something I expected.
I’ve
had constant back pain that has made it almost impossible for me to sleep.
The pain has travelled down my left leg, which makes it very difficult to
walk, and I can’t wait for my surgery to happen.
Without
my supportive boyfriend, and my wonder friends at www.endo.org.uk,
I would be lost. I would be going
crazy from this disease and not trying to get by day by day.
I’ve managed to work almost full, 35 hour weeks this summer, which for
me has been a struggle. Even when
I’m in pain, I’ve gone to work and done the best I could do.
I have also started trying to find other women in my area who suffer from
endo so that we can start a support group.
I’ve written a letter to my MP, which will be sent on August 11th,
so hopefully that will help in raising awareness.
For
now I am done with my story. I will
update it as often as I can. As I
said at the beginning, as long as I struggle with endo, my story will be told.
Sammy (14/8/01)
In 1994 I had a Laparoscopy, following very painful periods and doctors not being able to find a solution. The found 'scarred tissue' on my ovaries, but said there was no trace of Endo back then. However, shortly after coming round from the anaesthetic, my lung collapsed which resulted in me having a chest drain and spending the next two days on oxygen to help me breath, followed by another 5 days in hospital until they were sure my lung was OK. All this after such a minor op. I asked the surgeon what had gone wrong and he said he thought it may have been an escaped pocket of air which had caused the lung to collapse. They wanted me back in for another lap to remove the scarred tissue as soon as possible, but after my terrifying experience I said I would live with the pain for a bit longer. It was another 5 years before I went back to see my GP to say enough was enough. I explained my symptoms, painful periods, pain when having sex and he suspected endo. I told him how anxious I was at the thought of having another lap and he said he would ensure they did the procedure under local anaesthetic. On 2nd July I received an appt for admittance onto the day ward. Worked myself into a total frenzy thinking my lung was going to collapse again. Saw the consultant who was going to carry out the op who told me to get my gown on as I would be going down for the op after the anaesthetist had been round. By this point, I had no nails!! The anaesthetist came to see me and asked if there was any problems he should know about, I told him what had happened last time and the immediately refused to operate on me as a day patient, saying I needed to be monitored closely. WHY HADN'T ANYONE READ MY FILE. I was sent home and had to wait another 6 weeks to be admitted again. This time they were very cautious with me. The lap was completed and they told me Endo had been found but it was 'set like concrete' and they couldn't do anything to laser it off. I now have to wait 3 months to see my gynae, at which point they will refer me to another specialist. Does anyone know if this will mean I will have to have open surgery to remove the endo. I am also worried I have it on my bowels as it hurts like mad when I have a 'No.2' It's a shooting pain going straight up my back. I'm only 30 and up until now have always had the attitude that I'll have kids when I'm ready. But it almost seems like that choice has been taken away. My gynae told me I should be thinking about it sooner rather than later, but I want to have them when I want them, not just because somebody has put a time limit on it for me. My best friend had just been diagnosed with inoperable liver cancer and told he has a max of two years to live, and that's with heavy chemo, it tends to put things into perspective for you. I'm sure this disease is hereditary, my mum had a hysterectomy about 18 years ago, that we due to fybroids. My sister had Endo diagnosed 5 years ago, and since then had 4 miscarriages. She has regular laser treatment to get rid of the Endo and at 32 has been told her time is also running out to have children. I have been very tearful over the past few days as there are so many things buzzing around in my head. Every time I think of something I'm writing it down so that I can remember to ask the specialist when I eventually get my appointment. They have not given me anything for the pain, but have asked me to keep a record of the pain, when it comes and how bad it is in a scale of 1-5. My gynae has suggested staying on the pill for three months at a time and having one month break. My GP did touch on the point as to whether my Endo had anything to do with my lung collapsing, as it is found in the lungs. Food for thought. I am kicking myself, as I keep saying if only I'd have had the scarred tissue removed back in 1994, the Endo may not have got so bad, but life is full of What If's. There is so much information on Endo now, with this website and various chatrooms, nobody should feel isolated.