Ho yeh right.But I cant do it! So how can I feel this positive motivation ,I just
get kicked in the teeth
I feel this is down to goals.
Are you ready to go mountain climbing ?
So you say "im going to climb that mountain!" and off you go,1/16th of the way up you say "I cant
do this it's too far". So you go home "I have failed". You re-think it and say,"One day
ill climb that mountain!" And one day never comes,you have just put it off. "I have failed"
So you re-think it again "I have a plan,today ill get all my gear sorted for the climb". (you sort out
your gear) "success!". The day after you say "Today ill drive up to that mountain and set up
my tent!". (you drive and set up your tent)"success!" The next day "Today I start to
climb!" but then it rains.. you are forced back to the tent..... "Not as planed but tomorrow ill try again!".
The next day,the sun is out off you go.... it's hard going but by the end of the day you look down on your
tent from a new height,"(success!)" You are a full 12 feet above where you were yesterday,,,, "Its
not allot but Im still going upwards, and tomorrow I will try again". There maybe days where the rain is
hard and Ill have to put the tent up! but I am on my way.... So what I'm on about in a "Mountainous way"
is lots of small succsess are better than trying for one massive one, and the little steps get you the same place
in the end with less slips, so don't rush it and fall!
Mind games
Try this; When you come across a difficult pattern, don't let your sub-conscious know it!,,, Don't say "Wow!
That's really hard to do." Say "hmmm Now that's an interesting pattern to work on". If you think
its impossible or possible your sub-conscious mind will try it's best to agree with you!
I'm off now to try and believe all of the above !!
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