Note: East - Air; South - Fire, West - Water, North - Earth
Candles for the ritual will be made that day. Celebrant will make two white candles. Candles will be herbal and scented, and enscribed appropriately. Celebrant and mother will also bring something that symbolically (to them) symbolizes the rite of passage.
Ritual baths will be taken prior to ceremony, with Celebrant's bath being drawn for her. Salt, herbs and scents appropriate to the occasion will be added to the bath, and it will be blessed prior to use. Mother will help Celebrant to the bath, where she will light a candle and incense, give words of love and comfort and instruction to the Celeb- rant, and then withdraw to assist in Circle Preparation.
Circle area will be cleansed and Circle constructed and consecrated in the usual manner. Altar will sit just West of Center of Circle to symbolize both the emotional aspects of the ritual, as well as the death/ rebirth aspects.
Added to altar arrangement will be the Celebrant's two white candles. Also on the altar will be a mirror sitting behind and between the two white candles. Symbolic gifts will be placed beside the altar -- the mother's to the North symbolizing steadfastness, grounding, caution, and wisdom of the elder. The Celebrant's will be to the South of the altar, symboling the fire, passion and impetuosity of youth.
Blessed Lady of a Thousand Names,
You who art Maiden, Mother and Crone.
Grant that this night the bindings of childhood will be broken
And the bond between mother and daughter be strengthened.
For the two, as so reflected throughout all creation,
Are but images of thee in thy divine Trinity.
Blessed Be.
In honor of thee do I pour this toast, and drink this wine.
In honor of thee do I pour this toast, and drink this wine.
Chalice is then passed to each of the coveners to share in the toast.
Priestess/Mother stands facing the moon with hands upraised and palms turned upwards, cupwise. Drinking in the Lady's essence, she says,
Come to me and fill me with thy light
Enter me, shine in me your fullness
That I may use your power for my good,
And for the good of All.
When appropriate, she blesses all within the Circle, and the rite that is about to be performed. Then, nodding to the Father of the Celebrant, says:
Bring forth your daughter, that she might, this night, cross the threshold of adulthood.
Father brings the Celebrant to the Eastern Gate.
I have heard your words, and weep for them; Tears of both joy
and sorrow.
It was my body that cried out in pain and joy as you were born.
It was my mind that went in circles to provide for us.
It was my heart that broke when that which you wanted I could
not give you.
But always did you have my love... and always shall you carry
that love with you.
Behold in me the Three-Fold Goddess
She who is One in Three - Maid, Mother, and Crone
One in Three, as she is in you and all women,
And as you and they are in her.
Look upon her and know her,
That you, too, may be whole.
So I ask thee truly, art thou ready to face the woman within thee?
To see within thee the light and dark, and fear no more the dark?
To accept that which you are, and strive for that which you can become?
To leave behind the things of childhood,
But to continue to love and nurture the child which lives in
all adults?
After the last question, the Mother then says:
Now look again into the mirror. Look at yourself with love. See the Goddess shining within thee. She is strong; no man has dominion over her. She knows herself and loves herself. She will give herself to those who are worthy of her affections, and turn from those who try to debase her. Let the Goddess within thee shine through thee, that the nobility and strength of woman is clear for all to see.
Now, come with me.
Mother embraces daughter and leads her to each of the four quarters. After each challenge, the Celebrant must answer as she sees fit, and asks the Guardian's Blessing. The Covener at each gate will then bless the Celebrant, and offer a gift for adulthood, such as strength, courage, etc... or a physical gift pertinent to the rite and Gate.
Covener at Eastern Gate:
Hold! I am the wild wind and fury of the storm!
That which buffets thee without shelter.
How will you survive?
Covener at Southern Gate
Hold! I am fire and passion That which will consume thee with lust.
How will you survive?
Covener at Western Gate
Hold! I am floods and weeping and gnashing of teeth.
I am lonliness and frustration. How will thee survive?
Covener at Northern Gate
Hold! I am chaos and turmoil Plans gone wrong and dreams that die.
How will thee survive?
Mother faces daughter (Priestess mode ON here)...
I am the Lady, thy Mother...
I shall be with thee no matter how far thou shalt roam.
And when lonliness besets thee,
Thou needs only gaze upon the moon,
To see my face and my love reflected there to you.
Father approaches daugher and turns her to face him...
I am he who is father to thee now.
I shall stand behind and beside thee always.
And when lonliness besets thee,
Thou needs only to step out into sunlight
To feel my warmth and love within thee.
Mother takes daughter by hand and returns to the altar. Daughter picks up her gift of childhood and presents it to the mother, saying ...
This I do give you as a symbol of childhood now behind me. Hold it and cherish it as you remember me.
Mother picks up her gift of adulthood and presents it the Celebrant, saying...
This I do give you as a symbol of your adulthood, and my recognition of it. Hold it and cherish it as you remember me.
Draw a pentegram above the celebrant, with an affirmation at each of the five points:
Point one: In the name of Inanna, Queen of Heaven
Point two: In the name of Athena, warrior Goddess, but also of Peace
Point three: In the name of Astarte, warrior Goddess, and protector
of
young females
Point four In the name of Diana, she of the bow and arrow,
Goddess
of Light
Point five: Do I bless thee, and call thee "Woman".
May their strenth and independence, their love and virtue, be thine all
the days of thy life.
I recognize the child no more, but she the child who lives in all of us.
Mother stands with a space between her and her daughter and presents the new adult to the coven.
Feasting (and in our case, a birthday celebration) follow.
Quarter Guardians are thanked, and blessings are asked of the Lord and Lady upon the group, as well as the Celebrant.
Blessed Be Lady Shyra
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