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Subject: Get Over It, Already! (Was: Land of Rising Sun Bad?)

The war has been over for 45 years. It's time for people to move on and not wallow in the mistakes (both US and Japan) of the past. However, I do see from monitoring the posts and essays of this board, that many Japanese Americans are still bothered by this after all of these years.

Here, I (a non-Nikkei American) will ask a general question to all that subscribe to this service which you may choose to answer in good faith, or completely ignore. What is it about the events of WWII that you find troublesome? The fact Japan lost the war? Dosen't the fact the Japan was able to rise up and become one of the leading countries in the industrial world despite the hardships of WWII mean anything? Why is the war still a sore point in your general psyche?

I'm sorry, since subscribing to this service late last year, I've seen nothing but a "cry baby" mentality from most, (not all, and I do reiterate that), about the events of World War II. I need to ask this of all of you. What will make this pain and guilt, that many of you, if not all had nothing to do with finally go away? Get over it, already!


Subject: Re: Get Over It, Already!

> The war has been over for 45 years. It's time for people to
> move on and not wallow in the mistakes (both US and Japan)
> of the past. However, I do see from monitoring the posts and
> essays of this board, that many Japanese Americans are still
> bothered by this after all of these years.

If you're talking about the JA internment camps, I'm personally bothered by it because I feel it can still happen today. It's not only a Japanese "American" issue (as many people see it), but an issue for "all" Americans, because it was a test of the U.S. Constitution and Bill of Rights. Yes, Redress did happen for JAs, but no reason to make it a dead issue. There are still Americans who have "never" heard about it, and we "should" learn from the lessons of history. The next time, it might not be JAs, but perhaps, Arab Americans, or it might be some other ethnic American group.

(And I would say the same to the Japanese WWII history, that people shouldn't forget the lessons learned.)

Also, racism and prejudice is still a relevant issue. The U.S. is a country of immigrants and diversity, and issues like race, identity, and culture are important to know and understand. WWII is long gone, and I wasn't even born then, but it still affects Japanese/Asian Americans. I still get racial slurs thrown my direction from other Americans who have some resentment against Japanese or Asians. When I was in Ohio, my Toyota's window got smashed in and vandalized, with anti-Asian graffiti written on it. Because I or my car was Japanese? Remants of WWII and Japanese prejudice? Or just racism in general? Who knows? The past maybe doesn't get left behind that easily. Yes, we should move on.

A few months ago, I was walking on the streets of Little Tokyo, LA, a white man said to me, "Where can I find someone who speaks English? This country was a good place before YOU people came. I'm an ex-Marine, and it gets me angry to know this is what I fought for." A black man said, "I heard that Japanese hate Black people. Is that true?" For me, I'm a sansei, but I still can't just walk on the street, and blend into becoming the "mainstream American" -- that's my reality, so that's why I can't "get away".

I feel that WWII events affect JA's because many of their lives changed drastically, including freedoms and a certain faith in the American system. It affects younger JA's too, since many Nisei parents have remained silent about this for over 45 years. I feel that has a lot to do with it. It's for the same reason, old WWII vets talk about it -- it was a significant part of their lives.

> What is it about the events of WWII that you find troublesome?
> The fact Japan lost the war? Dosen't the fact the Japan was able
> to rise up and become one of the leading countries in the
> industrial world despite the hardships of WWII mean anything?
> Why is the war still a sore point in your general psyche?

To me, your questions show that you don't understand Japanese Americans or the issues too well. Maybe this is only an "insider" thing -- I don't know. Perhaps these are good questions, since I feel myself that JAs are still probably misunderstood in the mainstream society. I've been in Little Tokyo too long, and take many things for granted, so maybe this is a good "reality check".

> I'm sorry, since subscribing to this service late last year,
> I've seen nothing but a "cry baby" mentality from most, (not all,
> and I do reiterate that), about the events of World War II.
> I need to ask this of all of you ... What will make this pain
> and guilt, that many of you, if not all had nothing to do with
> finally go away?

I've seen "much" more than a "cry baby" mentality on this list. Are we talking about the same "Ties-Talk"? Then we see things differently, and maybe that's all I can say. I do not feel it is right to judge people too harshly for what they consider important. I feel it's true that many people carry pain, but it's not all about WWII -- it's a lot more than that. What else can I say? If you look around this message archive you will see categorized a lot of the different issues that have been talked about on this list.

Can I ask a question to you, about why you, as a non-Nikkei American, are interested in the issues discussed on the list? What issues interest you?

Oh well...


Subject: Re: Get Over It, Already!

For me (and I suspect some others on this list), there's certainly no feelings about Japan having lost the war I have mixed feelings about how brutal Japan was in executing the war and find mself trying to both identify with and disassociating myself from the Japanese mentality of those times.

The simple reality for Japanese Americans -- something that "hakujin" or Caucasians probably can't identify with, no matter how close they are to Japan -- is that because of how we look, people will always associate us with Pearl Harbor and atrocities and every other piece of emotional baggage they bring to stereotypes. Some people will always identify us with the victims of Hiroshima and Nagasaki, but in my experience, I get the hatred side of racism more often. It's just something we can't escape because others won't let us.

On the other hand, I think our self-image as a community has in the past relied far too much on a "victim" profile because of the Internment. I'm all for thinking about ethical and moral issues on both sides of the Pacific, but I'm also all for moving on and letting the next generations carve out their place in our country's cultural stew/salad/melting pot.


Subject: Re: Get Over It, Already!

> I'm sorry, since subscribing to this service late last year,
> I've seen nothing but a "cry baby" mentality from most, (not all,
> and I do reiterate that), about the events of World War II.
> I need to ask this of all of you ... What will make this pain
> and guilt that many of you, if not all, had nothing to do with
> finally go away?

I think it is comments like these that remind me that Japanese Americans still have a long way to go. I want to first emphasize that the majority of the people on this list are Japanese Americans, and the focus of this list (that I can tell) is about Japanese American issues. That said, I think it is important for people to realize (but Americans, most of all) that Japanese Americans are Americans, and not Japanese. Many of us have been Americans for several generations (I am 3rd generation or sansei), and many of our ancestors who lived before and during the war were also American citizens (and NOT -- must I repeat NOT) Japanese citizens.

The reason the second world war is still a sore point has a lot to do with the fact that Japanese Americans were incarcerated because they looked like the enemy and had names like the enemy. I won't go on, but suffice it to say that this experience is the most unfortunate reminder that most Americans cannot differentiate between Japanese citizens and American citizens of Japanese descent (Though there doesn't seem to be as much a problem in distunguishing the differences between European and African Americans from citizens of Europe and Africa).

Quite frankly, it doesn't personally bother me that Japan lost the war. The fact is, the country of my citizenship won the war (the US) and my American relatives who fought in Europe and the Pacific helped contribute to that victory. I also don't benefit much from Japan's economic rise after the war. In fact, it is more a nuisance when shop keepers would try to overcharge me or people on the street would treat me poorly, thinking I was a rich Japanese tourist -- or worse yet, seeing Asian Americans harmed because other Americans want to take out their frustrations on a "Japanese" (Think auto industry in the 1980s). I also don't care that much if the Japanese economy is in recession or on the rise -- what I care about is that the American economy is now booming. Do you see the difference? Sure, I still have relatives who are Japanese citizens living in Japan, and I care that what happens to Japan affects them. But it's not the same as what happens to America, because that affects us.

I realize that this kind of thinking is not limited to mainstream America (and Canada). I am aware of the atrocities Japan committed during those years, and Chinese/ABCs, Filipinos/FAs, Koreans/KAs etc. etc. look at JAs and are reminded of those years in a negative way. In fact, it still takes me a while to get beyond this barrier when dealing with Asians/Asian Americans who remember the Japanese in this way. They often don't realize what had happened to my family and thousands of others during that same time. I even don't think my Chinese in-laws can quite get past this, either, though they now know JA history, and how my family fits into it. I find that I am, in fact, the most comfortable around Chinese Americans from the earlier immigrations who also lived alongside Japanese/Japanese Americans in the days before the war because they knew what happened. In talking with some, I get the feeling that they felt badly about what happened to J/JAs, but were glad they weren't sent to the camps (though I am sure they know that something like that could happen to them if US relations with China soured). When I tell them I'm "second generation" (Same as sansei in their way of counting the generations), they understand.

What would make some of this pain go away? Some of it has, though it took 40 years for the internment to be recognized as a mistake by our government. Because my parents' generation, the nisei, were so quite about the negative aspects of the internment, we could never discuss these things freely. But now, my generation ranges in age from 30s-50s--we're finally at points in our lives where we can talk and learn about what happened, and do something about it (I think sansei and yonsei generations have finally inherited American "pro-active-ness"). Most of us have moved on from the camp days, but Japanese Americans (and other ethnic American groups, too) still need to be recognized by Americans as fellow citizens. Why do you think there were some posts on this list criticizing "Snow Falling On Cedars" for casting a Japanese citizen for the lead Japanese American role--and supposedly played it with a noticeable Japanese accent?


Subject: Re: Get Over It, Already!

I thought that was a pretty good answer, and I would say similar being sansei too. Thanks for taking the time and writing all this out. I assumed most people on the list understood this, so never really thought of telling the whole JA story. JAs are a pretty diverse group, though, and I don't want to exclude the issei and new post-war immigrants -- but as much as there are JA senators and congressmen, decorated war veterans, and people of Japanese ancestry at all levels of society, full acceptance as so-called Americans is not there yet.

It got me a bit depressed, though, and got me wondering how much has really changed in understanding of JAs as (real) "Americans". I don't really blame the non-Nikkei American for his questions, but maybe it does show how little the mainstream society understands this concept, as hard as JAs (and Asian Americans) have tried to "prove" their so-called American-ness over the many years and generations. I've once had to explain similar issues when I was in grad school with PhD candidates in history (who I thought should know better).


Subject: Re: Get Over It, Already!

> I would say similar being sansei too. JAs are a pretty diverse
> group, though, and I don't want to exclude the issei and new
> post-war immigrants.

I didn't mean to exclude post-war immigrants, though I do not know how they might feel about Japan's actions during the Second World War or their allegiance to Japan today. I can only speak for myself. Perhaps the newer nisei on this list could respond to that, or naturalized citizens originally from Japan.

On a more general level, I am sure that many different ethnic American groups still face the problem of being recognized as "real" Americans, too (Even African Americans, though I think their story has and is still being told in most classrooms, and they have a stronger media presence.).

> I am aware of the atrocities Japan committed during those years,
> and that Chinese/ABCs, Filipinos/FAs, Koreans/KAs etc. etc.
> look at JAs and are reminded of those years in a negative way.
> In fact, it still takes me a while to get beyond this barrier
> when dealing with Asians/Asian Americans who remember the
> Japanese in this way.

I still don't expect mainstream America to know the difference between ethnic Americans and foreigners, but perhaps I have higher expectations from ethnic Americans who must face the same problems that we do.

On a somewhat related topic, I haven't seen anyone refer to this page on Asian Americans. I have found it amusing and informative:

GoldSea
http://goldsea.com/index.html

There was a nice article on this site on "parsing Asian America" by Maxie Gondo, who is part Japanese American and Chinese American, and is married to a Corean (Korean) American.

Parsing Asian America
http://goldsea.com/AAD/Parsing/parsing.html


Subject: Re: Get Over It, Already!

That was some kind of passion-filled statement you posted! But I liked it a lot in that I learned about where you're coming from, so to speak. It's not always that one hears about such a visceral statement. I have a few comments of my own to make, prompted by yours.

> I also don't care that much if the Japanese economy is in recession
> or on the rise -- what I care about is that the American economy is
> now booming. Do you see the difference? Sure, I still have relatives
> who are Japanese citizens living in Japan, and I care that what
> happens to Japan affects them. But it's not the same as what happens
> to America, because that affects us.

Whether JAs (particularly those whose immigrant roots go back to the early part of the 20th century) like it or not, we are connected to Japan in many ways. You say Japan's prosperity or demise does not matter much. It may be so, as far as your personal situation is concerned. But, for the JA community as a whole, it's a lot more complex - to wit, the amount of money that has come into various JA projects in the last two decades (though increasingly less lately), e.g., JACCC, JANM, just to name a few. Though it's very difficult to establish the Japanese connection, a large number of JAs - not only the newcomers but also some of the more established JA figures - are well connected to Japanese business interests.

Those who know me well know that I am somewhat anti-Japanese in many of the sentiments I hold vis-a-vis my homeland (which I left at the age 18). I find a lot of things that I really dislike about Japan and I am not bashful about mentioning about my feelings - both orally and in my writings, as ineffective as they might be. But, as a social scientist, I feel that I have to always make my best effort to understand what is truth and what is not. I am not, for example, totally convinced what Iris Chan discusses in her book "Rape of Naking" is all documented in objective truth. But, I don't know enough about it and I definitely don't want to make any flippant comments. So, I have been reading quite a bit about the subject - mostly in Japanese (where, contrary to some arguments in this T-T line as well as elsewhere, many sincere efforts are being made to document it - both from the rightist and leftist perspectives). I often hear JAs make what I consider to be rather emotional arguments about this subject as well as others; but, I don't always feel they are factually correct about what they say. I feel it's the responsibility of those of us who can research things out both in English and Japanese to uncover as much truth as we can.

Though I still have some ties there in Japan - mainly through my two sisters and their family members, I consider myself an American, albeit a naturalized citizen. I have been involved in various political activities - some of which might have been questionable in tactics (if not outright illegal). For example, I actively opposed the war in Viet Nam (even going to Japan to help organize GIs to oppose the war effort) - something that many of my older nisei friends looked at me with obvious disdain. I did so on the basis of principles that I strongly believed in. I have always carried out my political acts because I wanted to express my conviction but not to defy the U.S. for the sake of it. I've always done so because I believe strongly in the notion of citizenship - sometimes even in opposing the government action. Perhaps, some of the things I have been involved with are not as clear in the eyes of others as would like to believe. But I feel that I have been living my American life with full sense of citizenry participation.

I decided to leave Japan because of the circumstance of my family - I would have found receiving the university education very difficult in the 1950s Japan. I came to the States thinking as though I was immigrating but not to return. My immediate family members were not sent to the concentration camps but nonetheless suffered a lot because of the war just like millions of other ordinary Japanese people. My U.S. experiences in the 42 years are no less genuine than anyone's - nisei's or sansei's. We - meaning more "established" JAs and newcomers like myself alike - have some common historical past but certainly not all of it. All I could do is to learn from the collective history of Japanese in the U.S. through their 125 years of history. We all have the responsibility of keeping the legacy of the immigrant past. To me, the most important thing is to uphold the spirit/collective behavior of fairness and fulfillment of citizenry responsibility. I know I am far from perfect but I could only try to get better - one step at the time.

Thank you for inspiring me to say my piece.


Subject: Re: Get Over It, Already!

Thank you for posting this! It helps me better understand things, too. You have a very refreshing view of things perhaps because you have truly lived in 2 different worlds and can appreciate the best and worst of each -- and your professional background certainly helps.

And no, I do not mean to imply that Japan's economy doesn't matter much, but it matters less than what some might expect. I am always very impressed when Japan takes an interest in Japanese American institutions. Certainly Japan's economy affects the entire US! But in my case, I don't pay taxes in Japan, I don't own Japanese land or securities -- my financial interests are in the US. Many non-JAs don't realize this, even though I think it is stating the obvious. And no, I don't deny any link to Japan, far from it -- but I am not the same as a Japanese national. For example, if some says to me, "Your English is good," it is _not_ a compliment, but a reminder that we still have a ways to go.

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