When you bring a pet into your life, you
begin a journey - a
journey that will bring you more love
and devotion than you have
ever known, yet also test your strength
and courage
If you allow, the journey will teach you
many things, about life,
about yourself, and most of all, about love.
You will come away
changed forever, for one soul cannot touch
another without leaving
its mark.
Along the way, you will learn much about
savoring life's simple
pleasures - jumping in leaves, snoozing
in the sun, the joys of
puddles, and even the satisfaction of a
good scratch behind the ears.
If you spend much time outside, you will
be taught how to truly
experience every element, for no rock, leaf,
or log will go unexamined,
no rustling bush will be overlooked, and
even the very air will be
inhaled, pondered, and noted as being
full of valuable information. Your pace
may be slower - except when heading home
to the food dish - but you
will become a better naturalist, having
been taught by an expert in the
field.
Too many times we hike on automatic pilot,
our goal being to
complete the trail rather than enjoy the
journey. We miss the details -
the colorful mushrooms on the rotting log,
the honeycomb in the old
maple snag, the hawk feather caught on a
twig. Once we walk as a
dog does, we discover a whole new world.
We stop; we browse the
landscape, we kick over leaves, peek in
tree holes, look up, down,
all around. And we learn what any dog knows:
that nature has created
a marvelously complex world that is full
of surprises, that each cycle
of the seasons bring ever changing wonders,
each day an essence
all its own.
Even from indoors you will find yourself
more attuned to the world
around you. You will find yourself watching
summer insects collecting
on a screen. (How bizarre they are!
How many kinds there are!), or
noting the flick and flash of fireflies
through the dark. You will stop
to observe the swirling dance of windblown
leaves, or sniff the air after
a rain. It does not matter that there is
no objective in this; the point
is in the doing, in not letting life's most
important details slip by.
You will find yourself doing silly things
that your pet-less friends
might not understand: spending thirty minutes
in the grocery aisle looking
for the cat food brand your feline must
have, buying dog birthday
treats, or driving around the block an extra
time because your pet
enjoys the ride. You will roll in
the snow, wrestle with chewy toys,
bounce little rubber balls till your eyes
cross, and even run around the
house trailing your bathrobe tie - with
a cat in hot pursuit - all in
the name of love.
Your house will become muddier and hairier.
You will wear less dark
clothing and buy more lint rollers. You
may find dog biscuits in your
pocket or purse, and feel the need to explain
that an old plastic
shopping bag adorns your living room rug
because your cat loves the
crinkly sound.
You will learn the true measure of love -
the steadfast, undying kind
that says, "It doesn't matter where we are
or what we do, or how life
treats us as long as we are together." Respect
this always. It is the
most precious gift any living soul can give
another. You will not find
it often among the human race.
And you will learn humility. The look in
my dog's eyes often made me
feel ashamed. Such joy and love at my presence.
She saw not some
flawed human who could be cross and stubborn,
moody or rude, but
only her wonderful companion. Or maybe she
saw those things and
dismissed them as mere human foibles, not
worth considering, and
so chose to love me anyway.
If you pay attention and learn well, when
the journey is done, you will
be not just a better person, but the
person your pet always knew you to
be - the one they were proud to call beloved
friend.
I must caution you that this journey is
not without pain. Like all
paths of true love, the pain is part of
loving. For as surely as the sun sets,
one day your dear animal companion will
follow a trail you cannot yet
go down. And you will have to find
the strength and love to let them
go. A pet's time on earth is far too
short - especially for those that love
them. We borrow them, really, just for awhile,
and during these brief
years they are generous enough to give us
all their love, every inch of
their spirit and heart, until one day there
is nothing left.
The cat that only yesterday was a kitten
is all too soon old and frail
and sleeping in the sun. The young pup of
boundless energy wakes up
stiff and lame, the muzzle now gray. Deep
down we somehow always
knew that this journey would end. We knew
that if we gave our hearts
they would be broken. But give
them we must for it is all they ask in
return. When the time comes, and the road
curves ahead to a place
we cannot see, we give one final gift and
let them run on ahead - young
and whole once more. "Godspeed, good friend,"
we say, until our
j ourney comes full circle and our paths cross
again.