Hi there! Some of the words that might describe me are adventuresome, cautious, cheerful, confident, courageous, happy, helpful, imaginative, industrious, outdoorsy, patient, persistent, respectful, very sexy and trustworthy. I'm 53, 6'0", 200 lbs in good shape with green eyes and brown curly hair with little wisps of grey that tend to make me look distinquished and I'm told that I'm not too hard to look at. I'm also open minded, very frisky and looking for a woman that is as equally open minded, frisky and sexy! I'm looking for someone that has either swung before or understands the lifestyle... or would like to learn about the lifestyle. My ICQ #8148871 can be used to reach me if you have the ICQ program! Or you can E-mail me at Rascal@cyberdude.com I'm seriously looking for a life long mate that can share and enjoy these interests with me. Yes I know it's quite a jump to go from advertising for a mate to swinging.... but if you're honest with yourself you'll admit that the thought has crossed your mind and why not couple up with someone that already knows the ropes and can help guide you correctly thru the lifestyle maze directly to the center of attention! :-)

I've been visited by: exciting females!

I've been swinging for a few years now and have found a very entertaining and "social" life style and would like a mature amicable lady in her middle 30's to middle 50's to share this exciting lifestyle with! I'll provide the perfect protection that you need and be a reliable companion! This is a no pressure relationship, with no expectations or assumptions made!

The first question that comes to the female mind is "what does he get out of it?" lol Well, obviously I get lotsa extra sex this way, but more than anything... I sort of vicariously enjoy the females enjoyment more than anything. Yes! I do enjoy all the normal things... but I also get a rush from being part of the 3sum that takes her over the edge.... where she overwhelmed by the tactil sensations that two men can and do cause while in symbiotic concert. Let your imagination run wild for a moment.... (you've thought of it before), and think of how much "fun" that really could be! :-)

I am left-brained (analytical), and I communicate with words, deeds, and touch. I believe in romance and suspense! I believe that the human psyche has hardly been explored, especially in the realm of sexuality! If you "think" you might enjoy this lifestyle or entertain thoughts of casual swinging..... get in touch with me and,............ I'll help you decide! I can be reached at ICQ #8148871 if you would like to talk to me about this!

Why can't anybody be themselves? Maybe when they're old and decrepit they will realize that there's more to life than plastic visions. The American dream gone sour? Lamborghini, Gucci, gold chains--will it buy happiness? I doubt it. I just need to find someone that appreciates the beauty within--the beauty that not even time can fade away. Someone that enjoys the same lifestyle and social life and sexual freedoms

The Vietnamese Buddhist monk and philosopher, Thich Nhat Hanh, writes about enjoying a good cup of tea. You must be completely awake in the present to enjoy the tea. Only in the awareness of the present can your hands feel the pleasant warmth of the cup. Only in the present can you savor the aroma, taste the sweetness, appreciate the delicacy. If you are ruminating about the past or worrying about the future, you will completely miss the experience of enjoying the cup of tea. You will look down at the cup, and the tea will be gone.

Life is like that. If you are not fully present, you will look around and it will be gone. You will have missed the feel, the aroma, the delicacy and beauty of life. It will seem to be speeding past you.

The past is finished. Learn from it and let it go. The future is not even here yet. Plan for it, but do not waste your time worrying about it. Worrying is worthless. When you stop ruminating about what has already happened, when you stop worrying about what might never happen, then you will be in the present moment. Then you will begin to experience joy in life.