In Memory of A Little Genius

I've been promising to make this page for a year now, 
and I've finally done it.  This page is in memory of 
My good friend A.F.
He was one of the sweetest, most unselfish, and brave
people I have ever met.  He was a great friend.
Here are the vital stats of my Scrawny little buddy.

A. F.'s Life and Times

A.F. was born on June 30, 1980 as the youngest child of a loving family.
Doctors discovered early on that he had Cystic Fibrosis.  It is a lung
disorder.  It can cause many other problems as well, such as difficulty
in digesting food, and can lead to Diabetes.  A. F. was told that he
would be lucky to make it to the age of 12.  He was 15 when I met him, 
and already a natural wizard with a computer.
He couldn't eat alot of sugar, but he loved Salt. He would eat that nasty yellow Popcorn salt like it was candy! And he hated any food that was green. Including Green Pixy Stixs, Green M&M's, Green Skittles, etc,.. I ate alot of green candy for the next 4 years. Colds would affect him worse than the other kids. His lungs would create too much fluid and that made it harder for him to breathe. Each morning he had to go through a "breathing treatment". It was a noisy machine and smelled kinda like mentholatum rubs. By my Senior year of High School, A.F. began to get colds easier and was more susceptible to viruses of all types.
He was out of school on homebound for 6 weeks, during which time, I lost about 20 pounds worrying about him. I went on to college and didn't get to see him as often as I would have liked. But we talked on the internet between my classes. He was never far from his beloved laptop. He helped me to start this page. Telling me where to find interesting pictures and scanning photos of me onto the page. The Image of me as a Saloon Girl on Index2, is one I had made as a gift for his Birthday. He got such a kick out of it! In the Spring of 1998, I met Lusiphr and had to take him to meet A.F. Apparently Lusiphr met A.F.'s approval. :) In February of 1999, I learned that he had come down with a bad cold and was in the hospital again. It was Valentine's Day. I raced to the hospital in Nashville as quick as my little car would take me. I'd never been there by myself before. I went to see him 3 times between Valentines Day and March 10. I came down with the flu. A.F. had already had two lung surgeries and his immune system was weak. I knew I couldn't go back until I was better. I called him to check on him. He said that "You need to rest, and get better. One of us needs to be healthy." I cried. We all knew he wasn't going to come home this time. I recieved a call on the morning of the 11th. His mother had called mine and told her the bad news. A.F. had been expected to return home for his last few days, but at about 2 a.m. on the 11th, after the machines were turned off to let him sleep normally on his last night in the hospital, his lungs quit working. He was 18 years old. He left us just shy of his 19th birthday.
I can honestly say I never felt a loss so great. I hope I never feel that kind of pain again. I miss him very much. Now almost 4 years later, the loss is still there, tugging at me, but in a funny way I feel that he is still with me. Watching over me until he's satisfied that I am happy.

Cystic Fibrosis: What it is.

CF does not follow the same pattern in all patients but affects 
different people in different ways and to varying degrees. 
However, the basic problem is the same-an abnormality in the glands, 
which produce or secrete sweat and mucous. Sweat cools the body; 
mucous lubricates the respiratory, digestive, and reproductive systems
and prevents tissues from drying out, protecting them from infection. 

People with CF lose excessive amounts of salt when they sweat. This 
can upset the balance of minerals in the blood, which may cause 
abnormal heart rhythms. Going into shock is also a risk. (This is 
probably why the doctors let A.F. eat so much raw salt)

Mucous in CF patients is very thick and accumulates in the intestines
and lungs. The result is malnutrition, poor growth, frequent respiratory 
infections, breathing difficulties, and eventually permanent lung 
damage. Lung disease or infection is the usual cause of death in most 
patients. 

CF can cause various other medical problems. These include sinusitis 
(inflammation of the nasal sinuses, which are cavities in the skull 
behind, above, and on both sides of the nose), clubbing (rounding and 
enlargement of fingers and toes), pneumothorax (rupture of lung tissue 
and trapping of air between the lung and the chest wall), hemoptysis 
(coughing of blood), cor pulmonale (enlargement of the right side of 
the heart), abdominal pain and discomfort. Liver disease, diabetes, 
inflammation of the pancreas, and gallstones also occur in some 
people with CF. 

Despite what many of my High School classmates thought, CF is not a 
virus, or a germ.  You cannot catch it from shaking a CF sufferer's 
hand, or from being coughed on.  Many people confuse CF with AIDS, 
many of the symptoms are similiar.  CF sufferers are often frail in 
stature and pale.  They are picky eaters and have to be.
Diabetes can develop, and Pnuemonia can kill them just as it will
a person who is in the advanced stages of AIDS.

More Information on Cystic Fibrosis

CFRI: Cystic Fibrosis Research Inc. Many FAQ's
The Daily Apple: An Internet Medical Newsletter, click here for easy access to information on this hereditary disease.
Cystic Fibrosis Foundation: A Generous Charity that funds Research on CF, more questions answered.
National Cystic Fibrosis Awareness Committee: Another page out to spread awareness and knowledge about CF