Lord Ganesha was born as a normal child to Lord Siva and Goddess Parvathi, but came later to have
a change of form and fate.
Lord Siva was an ascetic and for all of his marriage, he liked to roam in the forest. Right
after the conception of their son, Ganesha, he decided to start a new journey, and told his
faithful wife, Parvathi, to wait, he would return soon. He did not return for about 15 years,
about the time Ganesha would be a teenager.
From a young age, Ganesha knew he had a father, somewhere wandering in the forest, but never did
he see him. Due to this, Ganesha would protect his mother by standing guard the house each day,
especially at the time for her bath. So, one day, she was bathing, and Siva returned from the forest.
Remember that Siva knows he has a son, but has been gone for such a long time, he would not know how
he looks. Similarly, Ganesha also would not know how his father would look. So, when Lord Shiva returned, Ganesha unknowingly told his father to go away, as mother is bathing and I cannot let anyone, especially strange men into the house.
Siva could not bear some stranger telling him not to enter his own house, so after some time, he chopped
the head off of Ganesha and went inside to his wife, Parvathi, who was bathing.
Parvathi shouted, "How can you come into the house, is not Ganesha there to protect me?"
Siva said he did not know anything about Ganesha, but had come in by beheading the man guarding the door!
Parvathi wailed and shouted, "How can you kill our only son!??"
At that time, Siva knew what damage he had done. And Parvathi asked him to bring Ganesha back to Life.
Siva said, "How can I do that? His head is severed and can not be reconnected!"
Parvathi agreed that Siva should take the head off of the first living being in the area and attach it to the
body of her son, so that he could live.
Siva had saw one elephant, and beheaded that elephant and attached that head to his son.
That is one of many stories of how Ganesha has the head of an elephant.
These are following questions some have asked me regarding Lord Ganesha.
Drawing by Kamakshi
1. Why do I like Lord Ganesha?
At one time, I was only curious about Hinduism, and considered myself an atheist. But something happened to me. I visited a Hindu temple. At the time it did not strike me much more than a new and exciting experience. But sometime later, visions of Ganesha came to me in daytime, waking hours and in my sleep. I had many dreams of Ganesha in different forms. I never had visions or dreams of God before this one of Ganesha. In one such dream, Jesus also came. It was quite a revelation for me. I pray to many Gods, of Hinduism and Christianity, but somehow Ganesha is always there for me, to help me overcome my obstacles.
2. How can you see a person with an elephant's head as a God?
God comes in many forms and shapes, I feel this form of God has great powers as any other God.
3. How do you worship this God?
Ganesha is the 'remover of obstacles,' so one should pray to him before starting any new journey. That is
why he is at the entrance to my home, so that you will enter with a clear mind.
And when I pray to him, I pray to him as I do to any other God, with devotion (bhakti), sincerity, and affection.
4. Has this 'God' ever done anything for you?
Yes! He has saved me. Some say that before meeting Jesus, they did not know what or who God
truly is, but I was lost and I found Ganesha. Now I know what God truly IS.
5. When you pray to this God, what do you pray for?
I pray for anything as you also pray to God for, my family, friends and personal health and happiness.
6. Because you pray to Lord Ganesha, are you a Hindu?
Yes! But Hinduism, truly is not a religion, it is a way of Life. Even atheists can be Hindus!
It depends on how you live your life.
However, it must be said that to pray to any Hindu god or goddess, one does not have to become a Hindu to do so.
7. I know Hindus worship a LOT of gods and goddesses, how many do you worship?
Ganesha is the FIRST and preferred God, but I also worship Balaji (Sri Venkataswara),
Murugan (Ganesh's brother), Banashankari Devi (a form of Parvathi), Siva, and Lakshmi.
8. That seems like a lot of Gods to pray to, are you sure they all work for you?
Yes! Really all Gods are One. Even in my puja (prayer alter) I have a photo of Jesus.
Jesus, too is a form of God, and has contributed in a meaningful way. It is just that some see God as One, where
as others can see God is One, but having many forms. (Read the philosophy of Ramakrishna to understand.) All want
to reach God, it is just how we do it differs, but my way is not wrong, and your way is not wrong, either!
As a side note, I used this story to discuss Ganesh Chathurthi at a presentation on Hindu Holidays at my workplace in 2007. This story can be intrepreted by some as 'violent' or confusing. Why would a father chop their own kid's head off? Well, I think there are plenty of lessons to learn from this, and I'd like to hear what you think, but I also believe one of the lessons to learn from this story is "Don't jump to conclusions or make assumptions." Bluntly speaking, a saying goes making assumptions makes an a-s-s out of u and me. There you got the word, assume. Maybe this can be one moral of the story. What do you think?
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