That Was Then...
1968

This Is Now!!
2003



This is about me, and my memories of David and

the Monkees..of which I am still making new ones!


I am 49 years old, obviously a first generation Monkees

fan, married for 30 years with

one son, age 16.





I fell in love with Davy the first time

I saw him on the show in Sept 1966 when

I was at the tender age of 11. I'm still

waiting for that feeling to wear off but

I don't think it's gonna happen! I never

missed the show. In fact, I actually got

dressed up to sit in the floor in front

of the tv as close as my mother would

allow to watch. I guess I thought I might

have two-way tv or something and Davy

could see me too! Yes, I'm one of those

girls that David talks about in his show

now who used to kiss the screen when he

was on!

Posters too. I bet I'm not the

only one out there! At least when no one

was looking. Gee, I haven't done that

in... oh... at least... two or three months!





Also used to sit right next to the stereo

speakers just so I could hear better when

he said," Mary, I love you!" in LOOKOUT

HERE COMES TOMORROW! That seems abit silly

now doesn't it? I haven't done that

in......OK, I STILL DO IT ALRIGHT?!!!





You know, I remember sitting on my front

porch steps on sunny Saturday afternoons and

thinking about how nice it would be if I

could just "wish" Davy there! I spent many a

pleasant afternoon that way!


I was also a horse-lover all my life and

still am for that matter. I got my own horse


at age 14 and used to pretend I

was riding with Davy! That also just com-

pleted my fantasy, I mean, I was just PERFECT

for David! Never mind I was only 14 and he

was 23!





I had tickets for the Monkees show coming

to Atlanta, in 1967 I think, and I was so

excited about it! I still remember how

crushed I was when I heard on the radio

that they had cancelled the show because

they were delayed in Japan! Boy, I was

upset! I was looking forward to that show

more than I had the Beatles concert I had

gone to in 1965!!





Never did get to see them live in the 60's.

I guess that's why I was determined to make

up for it later! Well, along came the 70's.

I was 22, only married for a few years,

when I heard on the radio driving home one

day that Davy & Micky were going to be at

one of the local clubs! Well, needless to

say, I rushed home and informed my husband

that we HAD to go! Luckily he agreed.

Anyway, the big night came and we found

ourselves seated pretty close to the stage

on the floor! I mean ON THE FLOOR literally!

Well, it WAS the 70's! When I first saw Davy I


just couldn't believe he was real!

You know how it is. Finally my brain got it

straight and I began to really enjoy the

show. Micky was very funny, still had the

curly hair at that time, Davy was gorgeous

and REAL and Coco was pretty and very

talented I might add. They did the show

the next night too and of course I was

there! I enjoyed it immensely, finally

getting to see at least half the Monkees

live!





It never dawned on me to try to meet them

after the shows. I still don't know why.

But that's ok...the 80's were coming...





1986 - The Monkees show is running non-stop

on the MTV Monkees Marathon. It got me

thinking about Davy again. Then I saw some-

thing about Monkee Business Fanzine in the

paper. I subscribed right away. Ended up

going to the Philadelphia convention in August that year.


and started "following" the guys around alot!





Got to be friends with Davy's bus driver

Ed and also his bodyguard Dave Lewis, who

could look as foreboding as a grizzly bear

but who was really just a teddy bear!







Finally David got to know me on sight, and

would say hello to me by name! I was happy

to say the least. 1986 went into 1987 and we

continued our "tour" with the guys, having a

blast! Spent a week at Harrah's in Lake Tahoe.

Saw two shows a night! What a wonderful week that was!






In 1988 my only "Davy" trip was to Cherry

Hill, NJ to a booksigning. I was 7 months

pregnant! Hard to stand in those lines when

you're about to explode. When I got up to

David he asked me how it was going. I patted

my huge stomach and said "It's getting
bigger!"




He laughed since he understood. Anita was also
about 7 1/2 mos pregnant at the time (with Annabel!)

He was very sweet that day.






In 1989, my best friend Annette and I went on a trip

to New York, Toronto and back down to Virginia following

David around.


(I'm sure he was THRILLED!)

We had such a good time. Too much to tell

here though. Just ask Davy next time you

see him how much fun it was for him to get

through the Canadian border without his

passport and what he had to do to make it

through!!!!





I went to a show or two in 1991 and saw David

in The Real Brady Bunch in 1994.

Family matters and financial constraints

kept me from going since then but now I'm

BAAAACKKK!!! As you will see if you visit my

Epcot page, I finally caught up with him again!


When I walked up to him the first night in the

autograph line..I wasn't sure he would remember me.

I mean it had been seven years and I was about 60

pounds thinner thank goodness! But I barely got my

introduction started when he interrupted me with..

"Mary! Yes.. of course I remember!" Well that set

the tone for three of the best days

'with' David I have ever had! He was so sweet to me

and to my friends Annette and Deb. Especially at the

booksigning. He gave me such a bear hug..at least

it felt like it to me..that you couldn't get the grin

off my face for quite awhile.. in fact..it's STILL there! :-)






It was a wonderful re-introduction to him..that I really

enjoyed and a wonderful joy-filled three days that I

mentally needed too. My husband is wheel-chair bound

at age 49 now..from a so-far undiagnosed disease so

life has not been good lately. So it was nice to 'escape'

for abit..with my husband's blessings. All in all

my adventures surrounding David and the Monkees are

so wonderful and so exciting that it makes me feel just..

well.. more ALIVE!


Anybody know what I mean?


Especially known to me..when David takes the time

and goes out of his way to be nice to his fans

well, it just makes me realize what a wonderful man

he really is. I'm sure the other Monkee's fans feel

the same way about their favorite.

I don't think that they realize

just how much joy they bring to their fans!





Well, I hope I haven't bored anybody to tears or

anything. I left out ALOT believe me. I

probably could write a book... Hey maybe I will

someday.. could call it.."Dedicated For Life to Davy!"
What do you think?



MARY PRUITT
2004




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