The Official Sonny and Brenda Handbook:

126 Reasons Why Sonny and Brenda
Should Reunite!!

Sonny and Brenda Should Reunite Because...

126. They illustrate the very essence of the daytime supercouple and share a love so deep that they can be considered nothing short of soulmates.

125. Who else would convince Sonny to sit through "Sleepless in Seattle?"

124. Sales for The Tony Rich Project, Chris Isaak, and other artists who sing the songs played for S&B will go through the roof.

123. When Sonny says he's taking Brenda to BED - he means it.

122. Brenda promised Sonny that he would never be alone - she would always be with him.

121. With Brenda, Sonny is able to let his guard down.

120. Sonny will never call her "Brender."

119. Brenda promised to keep Sonny's heart safe.

118. Sonny and Brenda are two remarkable people who have discovered deep within themselves the strength to fall in love and the faith to keep that love alive and strong despite the obstacles in their path:
B to S ~ "No matter who we love or who we let love us or who we let into our lives, no one will ever diminish what we mean to each other."

117. Sonny was willing to stand up to the most powerful and influential people and risk his life just to spend a minute with the woman he loved.

116. Brenda will never have to fight Sonny for the bathroom mirror.

115. Sonny doesn't make snide little comments such as calling Brenda "The Face of Deception," if he doubts her. Sonny will discuss his feelings with her instead.

114. After they exchanged their respective gifts on Valentine's Day, Sonny and Brenda made love and Sonny said, "I can feel your heart beating," to Brenda, who lay beside him. This is because they have the same heart.

113. Sonny shared a cup of tea with Lila in the Quartermaine mansion, and charmed her with his good looks and personality simply for Brenda's sake.

112. Brenda was willing to leave her home and friends behind to devote her entire life to Sonny.

111. They can't keep looking at each other that way much longer!! They need to be together and stop longing for each other.

110. Sonny and Brenda will contribute to the continuation of the species since:
(a) Sonny has already proven his ability to impregnate
(b) Brenda has expressed her desire to bear his children

109. When Sonny says he is going down under, he doesn't mean Australia.

108. Adventure is their middle name....Brenda has always craved danger, excitement and adventure. Just her mere words to Robin about Jax seem to indicate that there is something missing from her life at this current time: "He's caring and makes me feel completely safe." She didn't convince Robin, the GH audience or even herself with those words.

107. Brenda loved Sonny so much that she respected his decision to want to be a good father and allowed him to leave her and make it work.

106. Sonny hates yogurt and bananas too.

105. Sonny never belittled her modeling career by calling it "painless."

104. In Sonny's own words, "Brenda saved my life and she's been saving it ever since. All good things in my life I owe to her in one way or another..." Sonny's life needs saving again and Brenda is the only one who can help. She did it before and she can do it again.

103. Brenda has always been a schemer and a survivor, ready to seek out what she wants, usually is successful in getting it, and has proven she can suffer the consequences. Of course, those same characteristics can be used to describe Sonny. AND, since Sonny now has Brenda's blood flowing through him, well, he's got the same "adventure-seeking fever"...

102. Sonny did what no one else has done for Brenda. He threw her a very special surprise birthday bash for her 21st.

101. The way he holds her face when they kiss.

100. Sonny and Brenda fans will smile once more.

99. The love between Sonny and Brenda surpasses the bounds of mortality.

98. True love is like a rollercoaster - it is an out-of-control, exhilarating, terrifying thrill ride of never-ending ups-and-downs - everything that S&B are together. Once you experience the Cyclone, nothing else will ever do.

97. Sonny and Brenda should reunite because of the saying from Leo Buscaglia: “Love is like a mirror. When you love another you become his mirror and he becomes yours.” Brenda and Sonny have become each other’s mirrors.

96. Lesley Lu and “miracles can happen”. Even Lesley Lu has brought Sonny and Brenda back together. Their shared concern over her and Brenda’s loving look at Sonny when he was with LuLu said it all - she still loves him!

95. They have demonstrated the ability to get themselves INTO adventurous situations....Example:
(a) Brenda was able to seek out where Sonny and Lily were staying in Canada and convince Jax to take her up there. She then was able to stage an entire skiing disaster/accident/avalanche episode in order for her true love/soulmate (Sonny) to come to her rescue. Talk about getting oneself into a TIGHT bind!!!
(b) And Sonny is NO slouch in this area, either. In one particular incident of Sonny's long and continuing adventures, he managed to place himself in EXTREME peril by helping to "spring" Frank Smith from the slammer.

94. They have demonstrated the ability to get themselves OUT OF adventurous situations...
(a) Brenda managed to leave Canada in fairly good health, with a new understanding and burning love for Sonny and his confession that they were (and ARE) far from over in their relationship.
(b)Taking Sonny's example above, he was successful in releasing Frank Smith, and although he was physically injured during the sting operation, he was carefully nursed back to health by Brenda and this served as a catalyst for their romance and love. And this was the first in a series of events that enabled Frank Smith to be out of Sonny's life - PERMANENTLY!
(c) Also, Brenda and Sonny managed to dodge bullet-after-bullet in Puerto Rico without acquiring a single cut, bruise or scrape. Why don't we all try that and see how successful and injury-free we'd come out as a result?!!! When one REALLY thinks about it, their track record "boggles the mind" (to quote Mr. Corinthos, himself!).

93. Sonny would never have to ask Robin what Brenda's thinking.

92. Friends and family (of S&B fans) have been driven crazy by incessant discussions about why S&B should be together.

91. Sonny and Brenda's love shall stand the test time.

90. Sonny and Brenda are two passionate people. One of the ways they show this is the way they make love. It's not just two people enjoying a physical act, it's two people who actually become one person for a short, intense time. They live, fight and love passionately.

89. They say that couples who live together long enough start to resemble one another. That woulde no problem for Sonny and Brenda as they already share that dark, vibrant, soulful look.

88. As Leo Buscaglia says: “One does not fall ‘in’ or ‘out’ of love. One grows in love.” Brenda and Sonny have grown in their love. Whether together or apart, their love has grown for each other. Realizing what they had and lost has made their love stronger.

87. Even Tracy knows they are still in love with each other. She’s only been in town for a short time and has already figured it out.

86. As part of her Valentine's Day gift to Sonny, Brenda wrapped herself in red tissue paper and let her very own Valentine unwrap her.

85. They confided in each other about their childhood experiences and old loves: Sonny can understand Brenda's pain over her non-existent relationship with her father and vice versa. They both come from relatively the same place in this regard. They basically are cut from the same cloth where family is concerned. They both suffered abuse at the hands or their fathers and stepfathers. Mike's abandoning Sonny and his subsequent abuse at the hands of his step-father and Brenda's emotional abuse and neglect from hers. The same force is driving them.

84. Brenda presented Sonny with a pocketwatch for Valentine's day in order to count the minutes they were apart. Sonny said he would rather count the minutes they were together.

83. Sonny doesn't need a magic lamp to make Brenda's dreams come true.

82. A dose of S&B together everyday keeps the doctors away.

81. Sonny and Brenda have a connection that no one, including Jax, can break.

80. The intense way they become lost in each other when they make love like the night before he found the wire. They both thought it would might be the last time they would ever be together like that.

79. Think Sonny riding shotgun in Brenda's little red sports car - chilling with his woman looking like a million bucks....now imagine Jax...knees curled up to his chest, head hanging out the window - not a pretty picture is it?

78. Sonny and Brenda have learned to love each other for who they are inside, flaws and all, and do not want to change one another let alone hope that they can: S: "After everything I did....?" B: "You never did anything. You were so perfect and I was the one who ruined it and I'm so sorry. I'm going to be so much better. Honey, I'll be different." S: " No, don't be different!"

77. Lois - yes Lois! Lois knew they were meant for each other. After their first spat, she urged them to hold hands and make up at the Outback. It was Sonny who helped repair Lois and Brenda’s friendship after the “Eddie Maine” incident. Although Lois' hope for their success as a couple may have faded, she knew they were two of a kind because she knows them both so well. She still loves both of them.

76. According to Vanessa, Maurice is a better kisser than Ingo. In exchange for allowing Vanessa to kiss Maurice exclusively, TPTB could have great leverage during future negotiations.

75. After many years of mob-involvement, both Sonny and Brenda have proven their fantastic ability to avoid harm's way...

74. They both know what it's like to be judged for past mistakes by the people of Port Charles. Sonny's continuing persecution is making Brenda protective of him.

73. Sonny's declaration of love to Brenda: "I love you. As God as my witness, I love you with all my heart."

72. Sonny's bodyguards will keep that pesky Katherine away from Brenda. 71. The fans are getting stressed out.

70. Sonny and Brenda's love can be felt whenever they are together.

69. The first time they made love in Washington, D.C. Talk about two worlds colliding. And then on the beach in Puerto Rico, the day she moved into the apartment, Valentines Day, 1995.

68. Sonny speaks Spanish! Is there a sexier way to take someone's breath away than by whispering "Te Amo?"

67. Sonny's words: “You’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me in my life. I need you in my life. I’m going to take care of you and protect you always.” Sonny has always wanted, respected and needed Brenda - like he needs her now. Although it caused him many months of pain and anguish he pushed Brenda aside for her own good - to protect her from Rivera. She understood that after Rivera threatened her himself and she realized Sonny did that because he loved her. There is no Rivera to keep them apart any longer.

66. Every time Sonny suffers from post-traumatic stress, Brenda is the one right there to comfort him. It is like somehow she knows he’s in pain - that’s how connected they are - two souls bonded for life.

65. Adventure is an "undeniable" attraction to Sonny and Brenda...Adventure doesn't and shouldn't have a negative connotation. And in this case, the adventures of Sonny and Brenda should be perceived as positive, exciting, learning, growing experiences.

64. The compassion they have shown one another and their friends: Their compassion for their friends is unparalleled. Their love for Stone and Robin took precedence over their anger at each other and hurt over their break-up. Sonny and Brenda would do anything, drop anything, go anywhere for any of their friends as they have proven time and time again. They supported each other and Robin and Stone selflessly while Stone was sick and right on through. They were able to put aside all the ugliness of the breakup and create a solid support for Stone.

63. Sonny and Brenda became passionate on the beach in Puerto Rico thankful that they were still alive and safe in each other's arms.

62. Sonny gave Brenda half the closet space.

61. The fans are losing sleep over their separation.

60. Sonny and Brenda have risked their lives for one another.

59. The passionate kisses they shared outside of Luke's club, the night he was arrested. They couldn't get enough of each other. Even while he was trying to protest he couldn't stop kissing her. It had been too long.

58. Sonny does the cooking - from scratch! Bye, bye, bread machine! Hello, breakfast in bed!

57. Sonny and Brenda's words of joy and happiness: Brenda to Sonny: “I’ll be happy, oh God, I’ll be so happy with you forever. I promise Sonny, I’ll make you happy for the rest of your life.” Sonny to Brenda: “My God, I don’t know if I’ve ever been this happy.” These quotes are when they thought they’d be on the run together and back together forever. They show that they both feel the happiest when they are together.

56. When Brenda’s car broke down and she went to Sonny’s penthouse to use the phone, it was another instance of how much they are connected. The rainstorm caused them to be together again and realize that their love was still so much alive.

55. It seems that whenever and WHEREVER Sonny and Brenda go, adventure seems to follow: Puerto Rico, Washington DC (at Eddie Maine's concert), Frank Smith's escape, the car bomb, the retaliation of Joe Scully, etc. Has Jax had any adventures with Brenda since his debut seven months ago? With the exception of Canada, which was created by Brenda and solely FOR Sonny (and in which Jax played a "third-wheel" role, anyway), the answer is NO!.... 54. The support they provide each other during the rough times: (a) When the whole AIDS story hit, Brenda and Sonny supported each other through the death of Stone and the knowledge that Robin had the virus. (b) When Brenda found out about Lily's death, she ran to Sonny's side. Sonny, who had really not been able to open up to anyone, who had been building this wall around himself and his grief and reacting mainly out of anger up to that point, broke down in Brenda's arms. That is true love - Brenda reached out to Sonny even though his grief was over the death of her rival whom she despised, that never even entered her mind, she knew he was devastated and it only mattered to her that she be able to comfort him. (c) The night of the Nurse's Ball when she went to him. She knew he was hurting and she was able to break through again. No one, not even Robin, really gets through to Sonny like Brenda does. That is due to their one heart, their deep connection that nothing can break.

53. Sonny presented Brenda with a glistening diamond bracelet and a poem by William Wordsworth: "Sensations sweet felt in the blood, felt along heart. This will always remind you of what I can't forget," to get through some rocky times and solidify their deep relationship.

52. Sonny's dimples! What woman could resist?

51. Sonny and Brenda keep the fans watching General Hospital

50. Sonny and Brenda's love may be ignored by others, but that doesn't mean that its not there.

49. When Sonny was in jail, Brenda couldn't be away from the man she loved any longer so she stole a forbidden, yet electrifying kiss from Sonny causing the guard to separate them.

48. Brenda will receive the family discount on the Godfather trilogy at Blockbuster.

47. As the saying goes, “Once you save someone’s life, you are responsible for it forever.” Brenda and Sonny saved each other’s lives.

46. Although Brenda did manipulate the Canada situation, she didn’t cause the avalanche that got them stuck together. It was the avalanche that made them talk to each other, realize they were still so much in love together and it was the driving force that led them to the dock scenes and Sonny leaving Lily.

45. Maurice is Vanessa's "gift from God." Vanessa's beauty is certainly heaven-sent. Watching them together is truly a spiritual experience.

44. They are both risk takers. Sonny was willing to risk the wrath of Rivera to be with Brenda, and she for him. They know what they want and they believe in it. They believe being together is more important than any consequence they may endure rather than being apart. Jax may be a risk taker, but he's in it for the kill, for the victory, for the glory. Not for love.

43. Their new found friendship allows them to be friends as well as lovers: (a) Even though Sonny is hurting he's still able to be nice to Brenda. He could have been spiteful that she married so quickly, but he wasn't. He could be bitter that she's happy and he's lost everything, but he's not. He's happy for her that she's found some peace. He's friendly when they speak, and supportive of her actions. (b) The modeling shoot, his quick words of support, about when the light comes on she's magic really calmed her nerves. Sonny has reached the point in his love for Brenda where he loves her to the point that he truly wants her happiness. (c) The day of Steve Hardy's funeral when they met in Lulu's room and they took a walk. They actually talked, they've grown up. The loss of each other and then the death of Lily and the baby, enabled them to get past their need to hurt each other. Now, all they want is to protect the other and make sure that each of them is happy.

42. Sonny bought a $10,000.00 table at the 1994 Nurses Ball just to sit next to Brenda.

41. While Brenda and Jax's relationship is nothing more than a spark - short lived and unfulfilling, Sonny and Brenda's relationship is an eternal flame, burning on through it all.

40. After over two and a half years of dedication, fans have earned their right to a reconciliation.

39. Sonny and Brenda not only share a past, but they share a love that surpasses all other couples in daytime.

38. In the cabin during the avalanche, Brenda claimed to Sonny that she would "rather die here with you than live another day without you."

37. Brenda will never again have to say the words "Not tonight, honey, I have a headache."

36. Sonny and Brenda should reunite because of this quote from Brenda: “Just feel me - we have the same heart, we feel them beating together, we love each other, and nothing else matters.” Sonny and Brenda are soulmates and have a connection that goes beyond the norm; that is why they belong together.

35. Vanessa has grown incredibly as an actress since she started working with Maurice. If she thinks she can continue to improve her craft by working with Maurice, maybe she won't want to leave GH...

34. Why had all their relationships failed before? Why didn’t they find compatibility and love with others? Simply because their love and lives were predestined to be together.

33. They were able to speak to each other and be around each other even though they were angry with one another without making the whole room uncomfortable.

32. Alone in the cabin in Canada, Brenda whispered that "I still sit up at night and my mouth still burns from that first kiss."

31. Even Jax knows Sonny and Brenda still love each other. He pretty much told Brenda that when he said she would probably be with Sonny right now if Lily wouldn't have been pregnant - Brenda did not deny it!

30. Sonny and Brenda fans have proved their loyalty to General Hospital

29. Sonny and Brenda share an undying love that neither time nor distance can change.

28. They should never have to feel the anguish they felt in front of Kelly's Diner the night he told her he had to stay with Lily and they kissed one last final time.

27. They will save tons of money on dream analysis.

26. Brenda's words: “I want to grow old with you Sonny, I want to have your children.” Brenda obviously envisions being with Sonny the rest of her life and wanting to spend the rest of her life with him. They mutually want to spend their lives together and that is why they belong together.

25. When Brenda fantasized about all the Port Charles eligible bachelors, the one that stuck in her mind out of them all was Sonny. She could have ended up with any of them but she ended up with Sonny - that’s destiny. Sonny and Brenda were destined to be together. . GH hasn't changed the credits. Even when they changed the credits to add Carly, they left in the clip of S&B running in Puerto Rico and the one of them dancing. They recently altered the credits once again to incorporate Stefan and Nikolas and to remove Lily, yet the S&B clips still remained.

22. Sonny and Brenda keep the fans' blood racing.

21. Sonny and Brenda share the same heart and soul.

20. Maurice Benard and Vanessa Marcil's chemistry and rapport on-screen is nothing short of phenomenal! Who dares mess with divine inspiration?!

19. The passion that ignited on the night of the Nurse's Ball - `nough said.

18. Love is neither rational nor safe. It requires risks and blind faith.

17. Sonny and Brenda should reunite because of this saying from Leo Buscaglia: “Deterrents to love are man-made. Love will not be deterred. Love flows like a river; always itself, yet ever changing, recognizing no obstacle.” Despite all of the obstacles that have been put in their path - both internal and external, Sonny and Brenda’s love has not been deterred or weakened. It is still present and with both of them.

16. Fate intervened when Sonny was shot and crashed. Who just happened to be there to save him? Brenda.

15. When she accepted that it was over with Sonny, Brenda told Lois that the only thing against Jax is that "...he's just not Sonny."

14. GH has never shown J&B making love and there is no bedroom set. In contrast to what they've shown with S&B, there is a huge difference. It suggests TPTB don't want to invest that much in the J&B coupling and that Sonny and Brenda will reunite.

13. Sonny and Brenda help the fans believe in the power of love.

12. Sonny and Brenda's hearts are like puzzles with missing pieces, and when they get together the puzzle is complete.

11. The lingering looks they give each other every time they are in a room together, the Outback, the Q mansion, Luke's Club...

10. You cannot "get over" the love of your life! It defies the laws of nature.

9. Jax and Brenda have no theme music. Most of the couples on GH are given theme music even Tom and Felicia. This suggests again TPTB do not want to invest much in the J&B pairing because Sonny and Brenda will reunite.

8. Due to Brenda's strong love and devotion for Sonny, she nursed his weak body to health after donating her very own lifesaving blood to him.

7. "Friends (off-screen) make better lovers (on-screen)."

6. Stone’s last wish was for Sonny and Brenda to get back together: "You're going to get back with her you know"~Stone "Don't start that again. What are you going to do? Pull strings from somewhere?"~Sonny "I won't have to. It will just happen"~Stone Stone is looking down on them now and still effects the way they deal with each other. He knew them both like no one else from living with the two of them. No one saw their love so clearly like Stone did. He was right - they will be back together.

5. They share an explosive chemistry. Anytime, any place, anywhere they are together. Sparks fly and you'd better sit back and enjoy the ride. Even in pain and sorrow they feed off of each other.

4. Why should the fans settle for a spark (J&B) when they can watch the world be set on fire (S&B)?

3. Sonny and Brenda are destiny and destiny can't be denied.

2. The laws of the heart are stronger than the laws of man. There is no crime more dangerous or more foolish than fighting one's own heart. Love will always win.

And The Number One Reason Why Sonny and Brenda Should Reunite Is...

1. General Hospital’s ratings are higher when they are together. Throughout 1994 and in the first half of 1995, during the height of Sonny and Brenda’s relationship, ratings were higher than they ever have been since, ranging from 5.7 to 6.3 ratings points. In contrast, from July 1995 to December 1995 which covers the time they broke up and their dalliances with Lily and Miguel, 4.5 to 5.4 was the range of ratings points. Although 5.4 was only .3 lower than when S&B were involved in a relationship - that is from the week Stone died so that is what caused such a high rating - not Lily or Miguel. During July, August and September of 1995 which mostly covers when S&B broke up (July), when Brenda went with Miguel (August) and when Sonny went with Lily (September) ratings were at an all time low, ranging from 4.5 to 4.8 - obviously showing viewer discontent at having S&B apart. Even the introduction of Jax on GH has not increased ratings to the point they were at when S&B were together. In fact, the ratings increased in 1996 during the dock scenes and the cabin scenes which both curiously enough showed S&B together again.

Even SOD knew that GH was better with the pairing of S&B evidenced by this quote in their 1/3/95 issue:

"GH also struck paydirt this year with the pairing of Sonny and Brenda. Alternately sexy, insecure, funny and poignant, this couple is one of the best-written on daytime. They don't need an outside force to keep them apart -- they are their own worst enemies. Isn't that a refreshing way to create tension within a relationship? Sounds a lot like real life...."

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