I’m a Ham radio operator and spend some time working with radios
and electronics. So when I heard this story it really made me think! I
hope that you will find some application in your own life as well....
A few weeks ago, I was shuffling toward the basement shack with a steaming
cup of coffee in one hand and the morning paper in the other. What began
as a typical Saturday morning, turned into one of those lessons that life
seems to hand you from time to time. Let me tell you about it.
I turned the dial up into the phone portion of the band on my ham radio
in order to listen to a Saturday morning swap net. Along the way, I came
across an older sounding chap, with a tremendous signal and a golden voice.
You know, the kind, he sounded like he should be in the broadcasting business.
He was telling whoever he was talking with something about "a thousand
marbles."
I was intrigued and stopped to listen to what he had to say. "Well,
Tom, it sure sounds like you’re busy with your job. I’m sure they pay you
well but it’s a shame you have to be away from home and your family so
much. Hard to believe a young fellow should have to work sixty or seventy
hours a week to make ends meet. Too bad you missed your daughter’s dance
recital."
He continued, "Let me tell you something Tom, something that has helped
me keep a good perspective on my own priorities." And that’s when he began
to explain his theory of "a thousand marbles."
"You see, I sat down one day and did a little arithmetic. The average
person lives about 75 years. I know, some live more and some live less,
but on average, folks live about 75 years."
"Now then, I multiplied 75 times 52 and I came up with 3,900 which is
the number of Saturdays that the average person has in their entire lifetime.
Now stick with me Tom, I’m getting to the important part."
"It took me until I was 55 years old to think about all this in any
detail", he went on, "and by that time I had lived through over 2,800 Saturdays.
I got to thinking that if I lived to be 75, I only had about a 1,000 of
them left to enjoy."
"So I went to a toy store and bought every single marble they had, I
ended up having to visit three toy stores to round-up 1,000 marbles. I
took them home and put them inside of a large, clear plastic container
right here in the shack next to my gear. Every Saturday since then, I have
taken one marble out and thrown it away."
"I found that by watching the marbles diminish, I focused more on the
really important things in life. There is nothing like watching your time
here on this earth run out to help get your priorities straight."
"Now let me tell you one last thing before I sign off with you and take
my lovely wife out for breakfast. This morning, I took the very last marble
out of the container. I figure if I make it until next Saturday then I
have been given a little extra time. And the one thing we can all use is
a little more time."
"It was nice to meet you Tom, I hope you spend more time with your family,
and I hope to meet you again."
You could have heard a pin drop on the radio when this fellow signed
off. I guess he gave us all a lot to think about. I had planned to work
on the antenna that morning, and then I was going to meet up with a few
hams to work on the next club newsletter. Instead, I went upstairs and
woke my wife up with a kiss.
"C’mon honey, I’m taking you and the kids to breakfast."
"What brought this on?" she asked with a smile.
"Oh, nothing special, it’s just been a long time since we spent a Saturday
together with the kids. Hey, can we stop at a toy store while we’re out?
I need to buy some marbles."
Copyright © Jeff Davis, N9AVG
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