According to our values, and most deeply held 
predilections and beliefs, selections are made, often quite
tacitly, which in so many ways shape the events and circumstances 
of our lives.
	As life encumbers us with it's raw materials it's 
raw experiences, it is our personal values which serve to define,
redefine, refine and assemble them into suitable and productive lives 
for ourselves, our families and our communities.
	Therefore a disordered set of values will tend to bring 
about discord and a disordered life and where the values are carefully 
scrutinized and ordered one's life begins to make sense.
	Does it not therefore make sense to make an effort 
to think about one's values, to recognize that they exist, and to 
determine for onesself how they should exist-and to order them 
according to the highest ascertainable modes of cognition, 
now I ask you?

	And what are these modes of cognition? 
Where can the average Joe find them? In books? In schools? 
In the teachings of one's parents? Yes the search may appear 
complicated and it is. For it is the search of a lifetime. 
But far better that the the search be complicated than that it be 
non-existent.
	
	For not to have searched and researched one's values 
is not to be without values; but rather to have received by default
ones values- values that are not one's own, values that are randomly 
distributed across wide and nameless cultural fields, 
and which therefore in the end serve only to dissociate an individual 
from his rightful path and righteous self.; and to render that 
individual easy prey to whatever ill wind comes along which will 
denigrate and disparage the true heart of that individual.
	
	It might be added here that to search for one's values 
is to embark on the all important process of self-discovery. 
And one may be sure  that each and every child of God has within 
an undiscovered country of great value- and of great values.





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                                Dreamer of Dreams
    
     Wheel within a wheel, play within a play, dream within a dream
Can it be that herein lies the key to Reef of Solipsism spoken of by
Sartre in his work Being and Nothingness? The head of a family must
have a dream and must be singleminded in that dream; and yet must
at the same time leave room in his family for the equally important
dreams of his children and particularly his spouse.
     Therefore I propose that the art of leadership requires the
capacity to dream dreams that encompass the dreams of others, their
utility and interrelationships, using them as building blocks of that
major all-embracing life enhancing inspiration.  


Joseph Ferrara MD    http://members.tripod.com/~uncljoedoc/values.txt