A Father's Story
On July 22nd I was en route to Washington, DC for a business trip. It
was all so very ordinary, until
landing in Denver for a plane change. As I collected my belongings from
the overhead bin, an announcement was made for Mr. Lloyd Glenn to see the
United Customer Service Representative immediately. I thought nothing of
it until I reached the door to leave the plane, and I heard a gentleman
asking every Male if they were Mr. Glenn. At this point I knew something
was wrong and my heart sunk.
When I got off the plane
a solemn faced young man came toward me and
said, "Mr. Glenn, there is an
emergency at your home. I do not know what the
emergency is, or who is involved,
but I will take you to the phone so you
can call the hospital." My heart
was now pounding, but the will to be calm
took over. Woodenly, I followed
this stranger to the distant telephone where
I called the number he gave me
for the Mission Hospital. My call was put
through to the trauma center where
I learned that my three-year-old son had
been trapped underneath the automatic
garage door for several minutes, and
that when my wife had found him
he was dead.
CPR had been
performed by a neighbor, who is a doctor, and the
paramedics had continued the treatment
as Brian was transported to the
hospital. By the time of my call,
Brian was revived and they believed he
would live, but they did not know
how much damage had been done to his
brain, nor to his heart.
They explained
that the door had completely closed on his little sternum
right over his heart. He had been
severely crushed. After speaking with the
medical staff, my wife sounded
worried but not hysterical, and I took
comfort in her calmness. The return
flight seemed to last forever, but
finally I arrived at the hospital
six hours after the garage door had come down.
When I walked
into the intensive care unit, nothing could have prepared
me to see my little son laying
so still on a great big bed with tubes and
monitors everywhere. He was on
a respirator. I glanced at my
wife who stood and tried to give
me a reassuring smile. It all seemed like a
terrible dream. I was fill-in
with the details and given a guarded
prognosis. Brian was going to
live, and the preliminary tests indicated that
his heart was OK, two miracles
in and of themselves.
But only
time would tell if his brain received any damage. Throughout
the seemingly endless hours, my
wife was calm. She felt that Brian would eventually be all right. I hung
on to her words and faith like a
lifeline. All that night and the
next day Brian remained unconscious. It
seemed like forever since I had
left for my business trip the day before.
Finally at two o'clock that afternoon,
our son regained consciousness and
sat up uttering the most beautiful
words I have ever heard spoken. He
said,"Daddy hold me" and he reached
for me with his little arms.
[TEAR BREAK...smile]
By the
next day he was pronounced as having no neurological or physical
deficits, and the story of his
miraculous survival spread throughout the hospital. You cannot imagine
when we took Brian home,
we felt a unique reverence for
the life and love of our Heavenly Father
that comes to those who brush
death so closely.
In the
days that followed there was a special spirit about our home.
Our two older children were much
closer to their little brother.
My wife and I were much closer
to each other, and all of us were very close as a whole family.
Life took on a less stressful
pace. Perspective seemed to be more focused, and
balance much easier to gain and
maintain. We felt deeply blessed. Our
gratitude was truly profound.
The story
is not over (smile)! Almost a month later to the day of the
accident, Brian awoke from his
afternoon nap and said, "Sit down
Mommy. I have something to tell you." At
this time in his life, Brian usually
spoke in small phrases, so to say a
large sentence surprised my wife.
She sat
down with him on his bed, and he began his sacred and
remarkable story. "Do you remember
when I got stuck under the garage door?
Well, it was so heavy and it hurt
really bad. I called to you, but
you couldn't hear me I started
to cry, but then it hurt too bad. And then
the 'birdies' came."
"The
birdies?" my wife asked puzzled.
"Yes," he replied. "The
birdies made a whooshing sound and flew into
the garage. They took care of
me."
"They
did?"
"Yes,"
he said. "one of the birdies came and got you. She came to tell
you I got stuck under the door."
A sweet reverent feeling filled the room.
The spirit was so strong and yet
lighter than air.
My wife realized that a three-year-old had no concept of death and
spirits, so he was referring to
the beings who came to him from beyond as "birdies" because they
were up in the air like birds that fly.
"What
did the birdies look like?" she asked.
Brian
answered, "They were so beautiful. They were dressed in white,
all white. Some of them had green
and white. But some of them had on just
white."
"Did they say anything?"
"Yes,"
he answered. "They told me the baby would be all right."
"The
baby?" my wife asked confused.
Brian answered. "The baby laying on the garage floor." He went on, You
came out and opened the garage
door and ran to the baby. You told the baby
to stay and not leave."
My wife
nearly collapsed upon hearing this, for she had indeed gone and
knelt beside Brian's body and
seeing his crushed chest whispered,
"Don't leave us Brian, please stay if
you can." As she listened to
Brian telling her the words she
had spoken, she realized that the spirit had
left his body and was looking
down from above on this little lifeless form.
"Then
what happened?" she asked..
"We went
on a trip." he said, "Far, far away." He grew agitated trying
to say the things he didn't seem
to have the words for.
My wife
tried to calm and comfort him, and let him know it would be
okay. He struggled with wanting
to tell something that obviously was very
important to him, but finding
the words was difficult. "We flew so
fast up in the air. They're so
pretty Mommy," he added. "And there are lots
and lots of birdies." My wife
was stunned. Into her mind the sweet
comforting spirit enveloped her
more soundly, but with an urgency
she had never before known. Brian
went on to tell her that the "birdies" had
told him that he had to come back
and tell everyone about the "birdies."
He said they brought him back
to the house and that a big fire
truck and an ambulance were there.
A man was bringing the baby out on a
white bed and he tried to tell
the man that the baby would be okay, but the
man couldn't hear him. He
said the birdies told him he had to go with the
ambulance, but they would be near
him. He said they were so pretty and so
peaceful, and he didn't want to
come back. Then the bright light came. He
said that the light was so bright
and so warm, and he loved the bright light
so much. Someone was in the bright
light and put their arms around him, and
told him, "I love you but you
have to go back. You have to play baseball,
and tell everyone about the birdies.
"Then the person
in the bright light kissed him and waved bye-bye. Then
whoosh, the big sound came and
they went into the clouds.
The story
went on for an hour. He taught us that "birdies" were always
with us, but we don't see them
because we look with our eyes
and we don't hear them because we listen with
our ears. But they are always
there, you can only see them in here (he put
his hand over his heart). They
whisper the things to help us to do what is
right because they love us so
much.
Brian
continued, stating, "I have a plan, Mommy. You have a plan. Daddy
has a plan. Everyone has a plan.
We must all live our plan and keep our
promises. The birdies help us
to do that cause they love us so much."
In the
weeks that followed, he often came to us and told all or part of
it, again and again. Always the
story remained the same. The details
were never changed or out of order. A
few times he added further
habits of information and clarified
the message he had already delivered.
It never ceased
to amaze us how he could tell such detail and speak
beyond his ability when he talked
about his birdies. Everywhere
he went, he told strangers about the
"birdies." Surprisingly, no one
ever looked at him strangely when he did this.
Rather, they
always got a softened look on their face and smiled.
Needless to
say, we have not been the same ever since that day, and I
pray we never will be.
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