LifeStyle Domination, submission learning, growing what is pain for what is in store it is not about pain it is a matter of control there is no give and take both give for loves sake A Dom has control but the submissive must agree pain can be pleasure but there is more by any measure learning and growing as one pleasing and being pleased to train or just to scene to be nice, or sometimes mean Domination, submission lifestyle, true belief time will not stand still pure joy or test of will