Where
Have All The Daddies Gone
Written and © by
Chick Velasco
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10/4/99
*Used With Permission*
[Note from the Author]
This
is a poem written by me about what I did when I
was young and foolish. The problem is, my foolishness
affected other peoples lives,
mostly my children, and there are things I
can never change or undo or go back to and get a second try. As
painful as it was to write this poem, I felt it was necessary. We
must stand responsible for our actions. This world we live in today
says otherwise, but there are consequences, even after our sin has
been forgiven there are things we cannot undo. When I stand before
my Savior I will have no excuse for what I have done.
If He asks me why...............I have no answer for Him.
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If
you listen quietly
You
can hear the babies cry
Their
Daddies have all moved away
And
no one's told them why
Just
because they are so small
We think they do not know
What
it is we've done to them
When we decide to go
That's
a lie we tell ourselves
To make ourselves believe
That it really doesn't matter
When we decide to leave
Not
only does it matter
Hear
me when I say
They don't need us just on weekends
They
need us every day
As I
sit and write these words
I
can't describe the pain
As I
recall the things I did
I
relive it once again
I
cannot even see the page
My
eyes so full of tears
Still
I cannot cry them dry
After
all these years
I
love my sons so very much
But
I did not put them first
I
was just so selfish
That
I behaved my worst
I
left them with their Mommies
I
left them all alone
I
saw them on the weekends
And
sometimes on the phone
Why
did I leave my sons behind
Did
I think I could be free
If I
blamed it on their mothers
When
the fault belonged to me
Listen
when I tell you
These
words I speak are true
There's
no freedom in the prison
That
your acts create for you
The
day will come when you will see
What
you have done so wrong
You'll
know your babies didn't get
What
they needed all along
You'll
realize that it's your fault
And
there's nothing you can do
You
will not get a second chance
To
see your babies through
Before
you know it they are grown
And
their choices aren't so good
Because
their Daddy didn't teach them
All
the things he should
Oh,
they will always love you
But
that just makes it worse
For
in your heart you'll always know
You've
given them a curse
And
in your heart you'll always know
That
love is not enough
You
need to teach them every day
And
do the "Daddy" stuff
They
need you there to laugh with them
To
hold them when they cry
To
hug them and to kiss them
And
be the apple of your eye
I
often wonder what went on
Inside
their little heart
When
I packed up and went away
And
ripped their lives apart
If
you leave your babies
That's
exactly what you do
Then
one day you realize
Just
what you've put them through
Then
every time you see a child
Your
heart will start to swell
You'll
remember what you've done
It's
your little piece of hell
There'll
be nothing you can do
To
satisfy the guilt
It's
like a dagger in your heart
That's
buried to the hilt
Every
time you see a Daddy
Doing
what is right
You
will know that you have failed
And
you can never make it right
Every
night when you lie down
You'll
hear your babies cry
You'll
taste the salty teardrops
That
trickle from your eye
You'll
ask the Lord for mercy
And
He'll forgive you too
He'll
wrap His arms around you
And
He will help you through
Still
you have to face the sunrise
Each
and every day
Always
knowing in your heart
It
was you who walked away
My
Father up in heaven
Has
forgiven me that sin
But
I cannot leave this prison
That
I am living in
I
can only promise
To
be here every day
So
when my children call on me
They'll
know I'm back to stay
Even
then the pain persists
It
never goes away
I'm
shackled in this prison
I
live in every day
I
have no one I can blame
The
fault is only mine
I'm
the one who made the choice
To
leave my sons behind
So
many other Daddies
Have
done the same as I
And
if they listen quietly
They
can hear their babies cry
They
can hear them crying
No
matter where they roam
Yet
all those tears would turn to joy
If
Daddy would come home
I
heard another baby cry
Just
the other day
She
told me that her Daddy
Had
packed and moved away
I
went off by myself and cried
Knowing
I'm the one
I
caused this problem long ago
...............Her
Daddy is my son
That's
why this is a prison
I am
living in
Because
my former selfishness
Has
hurt someone again
Even
though the years have passed
And
I have changed my ways
I
cannot reverse the damage
Of
my younger days
So
in this prison I will stay
Until
my days are through
Always
wishing I could change
What
I cannot undo
If
you are a Daddy
Do
not move away
They
need you more than weekends
They
need you every day
Every
day that you are gone
Is a
day you cant retrieve
And
it soon creates a prison
That
you can never leave
If I
could do it all again
I
would not move away
I'd
spend some time with all my kids
Each
and every day.
Midi is used with permission, and is entitled For The Children Of
The World.
An Original
composition by Yuko Ohigashi © Copyright 2000.
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