unity of attention: this is the hardest thing to understand, somethings are at the
expense of others, developing the child in a certain direction pulls away from others
at the same rate. Alternatively, somethings seem to add in a way that does not cost.
if you ever look at a van gogh painting, you see how the brush strokes are part of the picture,
you cannot seperate what is portrayed from the process of it being formed.....
that is god or "higher being" or whatever
autism sees and is this naturally which is why it is important.