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i look forward


to criticism


in


the


form


of a poem
















we live by dollars


we survive by dollars


we die by dollars
















publicity drags


too many


skeletons


out of


the


closet
















if you win


don't touch it


it can become


unwon
















spacing lines like i do


just gives


an


extra dimension
















the poetry of others


has a veneer of difficulty


compared to


ones own writing


because


it


is the


writing


of others



that is


ones


own poetry


reads


easier


to oneself
















an essential thing


my


early


morning


exercises
















if you are putting


your lifes work


on a hard disk


you need


to


think


about


a backup
















    a dual meaning saying


“when the going gets tough


      the tough get going”
















you can change so much


you don't know


yourself


and


its frightening
















the real is a form of imagination
















abstract embraces the imaginary


and the real


therefore


you can


and cannot


apply it to real life
















the way we operate


there's consensus in a generation


and consensus across the generations


consensus across the years, centuries and generations cannot be known


since it happens after we are dead


but there is a conversation across the generations


and that is occurring


but people only take consensus within a generation as valid
















mobile phone use while driving is a definite accident causer and i don't see that cd's and radio are that different in the way attention is distracted or modulated, tho less in effect than a mobile phone and not so brain damaging


long distance driving has its own set of hazards and at moments one needs complete attention and music distracts, delaying the response time
















i am not going to tell you


because working things out yourselves is fun


we expect everything


to be given to us


into todays society


working things out yourself


you see


everything is endless process


weaving


and unweaving


and in the end


we unweave


and die
















i really think


that


vege gardening


is the


sanest


activity
















my advice for improving couple communication


set up a message boards just for yourselves


you will see that it works
















we have a tendency to search over and over


in the same spot


because we think its there


but in fact thats telling us


its


not


there
















you can walk against schizophrenia as well


as along the line of schizophrenia
















i'll give this for bukowski


he ended my


toni packer


obsession
















people want an explanation


but they can't be bothered


to read or think


its just not possible


it requires the abandonment


of so many


exisitng viewpoints
















theres some coherent backdrop


against which all


human life and experience


makes sense
















going back to the null position


i find this helpful


writing everything off mentally
















we all get eaten alive


by the aging process
















one of the problems people have


is not being able to disclose things about themselves


in a way that is helpful to them


on the one side you need input about a problem


on the other you don't want to disclose things


that may lead to blackmail


or put people off you


its a delicate art
















as far as you have come there's 10 times further to go
















what would a black hole think?
















i wonder if lesbian couples are always a bit doomed


two horse drivers


and no horse
















my writings are a discursion on reality


without the illusions
















women are horse drivers


men are the horses
















i think pyschiatric meds mask things


or give a false appearance


but the reality will always come out
















the problem with eft is it is like religion


it rewires the brain in a schizophrenic like manner or actual schizophrenia


meditation does this too


however there is a certain authenticity to schizophrenia


i am not saying its all negative
















what i have noticed is that people don't like truth on the web


what they want


is saccharine bullshit


life too


i suppose
















to know wether eft was fucked or not


all i had to do was look at the individuals promoting it on the web


they were the most loathsome sickly sweet shits i had ever seen
















people only oppose what they know to be right


but can't bear to hear
















i love silence and nonbeing
















emotions appear to be fixed in concrete


but in fact are amenable to thought


and more plastic than appears


with a few stratagems
















thoughts can change instantly


but emotions can't
















couples have different strengths


though it seems like the other party should not need to have a deficiency of judgement remedied


in the end you always have to rectify the deficiency
















its like john of the cross


life is just one gaping wound
















i think the thing about a practical approach


is the outcome is always uncertain


you just have to live with that


the lack of uncertainty with theory is why just following theory can be a problem


what works best is a mix of both, especially a tenuous testing of theory
















a lot of people just hold thier opinions as being right


simply because they hold them


the notion of being right as the most consistent explanation of the facts or what occurs


escapes them


but the necessity of violence and theft doesn't
















there's a certain natural roughness of relationship that needs to occur


or it will break up


the world is full of this loathsome and destructive avoidance of necessary friction
















we both have our issues with ourselves and each other


best to take a practical approach
















a womans needs are endless and increasing
















words of wisdom (from a female correspondent)


“they are all wankers”
















people are a form of sheep basically
















you have to be careful not to get defined by opposition to something
















words of wisdom


“they are all bitches”
















where the crowd is


i am not
















you have to be careful of religions and translations


you can get something profound


turned into the most inane drivel


and thoroughly wrong minded
















i think you are a writer


when you would rather write


than make money


Damn!
















“you need protecting”


i am transparent like a ghost


things go straight through me


i can't be hurt that much


so i don't really need it
















what i figured in the end with the health message boards


is a person could be dying and if they had to lift a finger to save themselves


they wouldn't


if they could ask someone to save them they would


if they could take someone else with them on the way out


they would


just be careful
















one thing i am learning is not to try and solve more problems than i need to


how completely problems should be solved is an open question


sometimes it really pays to go that extra mile and bring the problem/solution nexus to the next level


other times it can pay just to let it drift on
















i think theres a philosophical thing about not completely avoiding problems, but there's some inescapable level of difficulty and its better to live with  “the devil you know”
















amateur and professional is a human paradigm


my problem is i give my complete soul to everything


and it kills me
















the odd thing about love


is despite the pain it can bring


we don't particularly


want to fall out of it
















liking bukowski's poems


does not make you bukowski
















sometimes i think i am going to die


somtimes i don't
















its better to be behind than ahead
















bound in the shackles of egoism


the morons never see


what is in front of them
















how disturbed they are the proles


by anything that brings into question


the mechanisms of their existance
















wether there's sex or not


everyone is living a sexual paradigm


that includes celibates
















cockroaches don't have any illusions about their powerlessness
















SCD and BCD co-exist
















you overpaid fat cats!


go wipe your arses


then blow your noses with that lavatory paper
















there's always a long way to go
















time doesn't heal, but it makes it bearable
















medicine is the new religion


people claim to be religious


but they only worship medicine


any problem and they run to mommy doctor


in other words


they only worship their own comfort
















a cold wind guts the sun of its warmth
















poetry depends a lot on “knowing the answer before the question is finished”


that is, you know what it is talking about before you have finished reading


or even if the poem is not quite right in its expression
















everything is just one endless approximation
















there is no reward


but the mortification of me


believe me


i am mortified
















i am tired of the insincere


pretenders
















religion is boorish


full of boors, thugs and psychotics


typical human organizational behavior


on the other hand if john of the cross had not been taken in and fed by religious institutions in medina as a child


he would have died

















i am tired


of attending


my own crucifixion
















being educated


is like a pyschotic episode


in ones life
















the crossed stars of love
















with contraception


there is a heap more female sexual appetite


out there


than there is male ability to satisfy it
















things can get worse and more dangerous as you get older
















kings are arseholes that crush


until they are crushed
















i do nothing quite well
















english literature education is not education


but the cultivation of moronacy


nothing is more loathsome than an english lit phd


well any university nutrition qualification


it might all be bearable


except for the way they shoot anybody who is compedent


and the morons like nazis


spread their sexual fluids everywhere
















in my  reply  to bukowski's "the trash can"


i could have put HA HA HA at the end


but i didn't have to


he had already said it


i think what is not said in a poem is sorta like the shape the poem is sculpted around


keat's  “ode to a grecian urn”  is prominent for this


time, frozen time and beauty are themselves sculpted around
















you can know something in theory


and its sort of easy and smooth


but if you do something for real


it gets very messy, hard and the results are ambiguous
















there's nothing more disheartening than reading the lives of poets and writers


born in misery


live in misery


and die in misery
















i remember reading on the web this description of this guy who was on LSD and describing looking at a stream


he was amazed to be totally absorbed into it


i thought, well this is how i am normally


its like i am permanently on LSD
















everybody is important as individuals


but as a crowd we are not
















even truth is limited
















in the right


or in the wrong


it doesn't really matter


you are still the injured party
















modern society is too hazardous for the damaged female


they get suckered by the pyschiatrics


those wonderful killers of any intelligence


there are some good women writers but no greats now


sappho had quite a nice time


but she must have been suicidal to write with the insight she did
















one of the weird things about the web


is you can publish a poem


before it


is finished
















bukowski is such a genius


you wonder what he would have been like


not an alcoholic


even though he said he would have comitted suicide without the alcohol


he would have been like goethe or something
















this sort of episodic, semi-consequential


is twitter across the centuries


if you know what you are looking for


you can see


it


wisdom writings


sayings


rambles of like minds


to like


minds


usually not


temporally


contiguous


i have no responsibility for


its persistence
















human taste is so little


for what


it's not
















sometimes


sleep is like


a balm
















the eyes may smile


though the face does not
















i find bifocals too abrupt with the transition in focal length, messes my brain


i have three pairs of glasses


one pair is just distance, one pair is for the computer and general use, closer focal length, can read with them but a bit marginal and the graduated which gives distance to reading


i am sure i have it right
















the clutch of dying
















God taketh


and God returneth
















i don't think it would be OK


except there is absolutely no choice
















nothing has to be done today


it can all be put off till tomorrow
















i seem to have become a writer


because all i do is write




with the internet now there's so many in writing


and a profusion of blathery verbal effusion


that submerges any real quality




typical