i remember reading on the web once a true story

must have been narrated by the father

a girl had got pregnant and her family had taken her in, but she still slept around and went out all night to parties

well her father was pissed, he was a pastor

so she came back to a locked door one night

she knocked and knocked etc

she had to stay outside that night with her baby

the next day she capitulated and agreed to their terms

well i am not being anti-female

but women can be headstrong and only see their own needs

she was using the child as a lever against her parents