WEDDING PLANNING GUIDELINES
TO FOLLOW FOR A YEARLONG
ENGAGEMENT
12 Months before
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Buy a wedding planner or date book
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Consult with fiance and all parents about
budget and style--from colors to cake
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Select your attendants
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Decide on wedding and reception sites and
reserve both
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Book consultant, caterer, photographer, videographer,
florist, and musicians
9
Months before
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With fiance, visit clergy or justice of the
peace
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Choose and order your dress and accessories
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Register for gifts
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Begin guest list, have fiance start his
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Consult travel agent about honeymoon
6 Months before
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Plan details with wedding professionals
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Book calligrapher, portrait photographer,
and limousines for wedding party
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Order invitations and announcements
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Complete honeymoon plans with fiance
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Set date to order attendant's dresses
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Discuss rehearsal dinner with fiance
3 Months before
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Finalize guest list
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Shop for lingerie and honeymoon clothes
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Order wedding rings
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Check state requirements for blood tests
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Make appointment with hairdresser
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Talk to fiance about reserving a block of
rooms for out of town guests
6-8 Weeks before
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Mail your invitations
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Buy groom's wedding gift
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Choose gifts for your attendants
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Have final dress and headpiece fitting
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Have portrait taken
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Pick up rings
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Plan bridesmaids party
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Write thank yous as you receive gifts
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Send announcement to newspapers
2 Weeks before
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Get marriage license with fiance
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Confirm honeymoon reservations
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Submit request lists to photographer, videographer,
and musicians
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Address announcements to mail on wedding day
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Arrange to move belongings to new home
1 Week before
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Pack, get going away outfit ready
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Purchase traveler's checks, inquire about
ATM's at honeymoon site
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Give final guest count to caterer
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Give bridesmaids party
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Check final details with wedding professionals
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Keep up with gift acknowledgements
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Remind attendants of rehearsal dinner details