BDSM ACTIVITY CHECKLIST

Instructions for use:

To be filled out by Dom/me listing preferences on a scale of what they would wish to do to the submissive
or have the submissive do…such as different types of service. Similarly to be filled out by the submissive
as to what they would like to do or have done to them.


Willingness quick key:


? Not sure what to put for this item…see special notes
NA Not applicable to gender
No I will not do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit)
0 No desire, don't like (a soft limit)
1 Don't want to do but will, could be used as a negotiation if one of the other P/partner's favored items
2 Willing to do, but has no special appeal
3 Usually like doing
4 Like doing
5 Wild turn on
6 Something non-sexual considered to be a basic requirement of the relationship
7 Never done but wouldn't mind trying
8 Never done but would really like trying

ACTIVITY	EXPERIENCE	WILLINGNESS	SPECIAL NOTES
Abrasion	mmm	mmm	mmm
Age play	mmm	mmm	mmm
Anal plug (public, under clothing)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Anal plug (large)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Anal plug (small)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Anal sex	mmm	mmm	mmm
Animal roles	mmm	mmm	mmm
Arm & leg sleeves	mmm	mmm	mmm
Aromas	mmm	mmm	mmm
Asphyxiation	mmm	mmm	mmm
Auctioned for charity	mmm	mmm	mmm
Ball stretching	mmm	mmm	mmm
Bathroom use control	mmm	mmm	mmm
Beating (hard)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Beating (soft)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Being bitten	mmm	mmm	mmm
Being serviced	mmm	mmm	mmm
Bestiality	mmm	mmm	mmm
Blindfolds	mmm	mmm	mmm
Bondage (heavy)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Bondage (light)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Bondage (multi-day)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Bondage (public, under clothing)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Boot Worship	mmm	mmm	mmm
Branding	mmm	mmm	mmm
Breast whipping	mmm	mmm	mmm
Breast/chest bondage	mmm	mmm	mmm
Breath control	mmm	mmm	mmm
Brown showers (scat)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Cages (locked inside of)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Caning	mmm	mmm	mmm
Castration fantasy	mmm	mmm	mmm
Catheterization	mmm	mmm	mmm
Cattle prod (electric toy)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Cells/Closets (locked inside of)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Chains	mmm	mmm	mmm
Chamber pot use	mmm	mmm	mmm
Chastity belts	mmm	mmm	mmm
Chauffeuring	mmm	mmm	mmm
Choking	mmm	mmm	mmm
Chores (domestic service)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Clothespins	mmm	mmm	mmm
Cock rings/straps	mmm	mmm	mmm
Cock worship	mmm	mmm	mmm
Collars (worn in private)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Collars (worn in public)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Competitions (with other subs)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Corsets (trained waist reduction)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Corsets (wearing casually)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Cuffs (leather)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Cuffs (metal)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Cutting	mmm	mmm	mmm
Diapers (soiling)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Diapers (wearing)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Diapers (wetting)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Dilation	mmm	mmm	mmm
Dildos	mmm	mmm	mmm
Double penetration	mmm	mmm	mmm
Electricity	mmm	mmm	mmm
Enemas (for cleansing)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Enemas (retention, punishment)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Enforced chastity	mmm	mmm	mmm
Erotic dance (for audience)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Examinations (physical)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Excersize (forced, required)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Exhibitionism (friends)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Exhibitionism (strangers)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Eye contact restrictions	mmm	mmm	mmm
Face slapping	mmm	mmm	mmm
Fantasy abandonment	mmm	mmm	mmm
Fantasy gang rape	mmm	mmm	mmm
Fantasy rape	mmm	mmm	mmm
Fear (being scared)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Fisting (anal)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Fisting (vaginal)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Flame play	mmm	mmm	mmm
Following orders	mmm	mmm	mmm
Foot worship	mmm	mmm	mmm
Forced bedwetting	mmm	mmm	mmm
Forced dressing	mmm	mmm	mmm
Forced eating	mmm	mmm	mmm
Forced homosexuality	mmm	mmm	mmm
Forced masturbation	mmm	mmm	mmm
Forced nudity (around others)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Forced nudity (private)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Forced servitude	mmm	mmm	mmm
Forced smoking	mmm	mmm	mmm
Full head hoods	mmm	mmm	mmm
Gags (cloth)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Gags (inflatable)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Gags (phallic)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Gags (rubber)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Gags (tape)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Gas masks	mmm	mmm	mmm
Gates of Hell	mmm	mmm	mmm
Genital sex	mmm	mmm	mmm
Given away (or giving sub away) to another Dom/me (perm)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Given away (temp)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Golden showers	mmm	mmm	mmm
Gun play	mmm	mmm	mmm
Hair pulling	mmm	mmm	mmm
Hairbrush spankings	mmm	mmm	mmm
Hand jobs (giving)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Hand jobs (recieving)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Harems	mmm	mmm	mmm
Harnessing (leather)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Harnessing (rope)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Having clothing chosen	mmm	mmm	mmm
Having food chosen	mmm	mmm	mmm
Head (give fellatio, cunnilingus)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Head (receive fellatio, cunnilingus)	mmm	mmm	mmm
High heel wearing	mmm	mmm	mmm
High heel worship	mmm	mmm	mmm
Homage with tongue	mmm	mmm	mmm
Hoods	mmm	mmm	mmm
Hot oils (on genitals)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Hot waxing	mmm	mmm	mmm
Housework	mmm	mmm	mmm
Human puppy dog	mmm	mmm	mmm
Humiliation (public)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Humiliation (private)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Hypnotism	mmm	mmm	mmm
Ice cubes	mmm	mmm	mmm
Immobilization	mmm	mmm	mmm
Including others	mmm	mmm	mmm
Infantalism	mmm	mmm	mmm
Initiation rites	mmm	mmm	mmm
Injections	mmm	mmm	mmm
Interrogations	mmm	mmm	mmm
Intricate Japanese rope bondage	mmm	mmm	mmm
Kidnapping	mmm	mmm	mmm
Kneeling	mmm	mmm	mmm
Knife play	mmm	mmm	mmm
Leather clothing	mmm	mmm	mmm
Leather restraints	mmm	mmm	mmm
Lectures for misbehavior	mmm	mmm	mmm
Licking (non-sexual)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Lingerie	mmm	mmm	mmm
Manacles & irons	mmm	mmm	mmm
Manicures	mmm	mmm	mmm
Massages (giving)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Massages (receiving)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Medical scenes	mmm	mmm	mmm
Modeling for erotic photos	mmm	mmm	mmm
Mouth bits	mmm	mmm	mmm
Mummification	mmm	mmm	mmm
Name change (for scene)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Name change (perm, legal)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Nipple clamps	mmm	mmm	mmm
Nipple play/ "torture"	mmm	mmm	mmm
Nipple rings (piercings)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Nipple weights	mmm	mmm	mmm
Oral/anal play	mmm	mmm	mmm
Orgasm control	mmm	mmm	mmm
Orgasm denial	mmm	mmm	mmm
Outdoor scenes	mmm	mmm	mmm
Over-the-knee spanking	mmm	mmm	mmm
Pain (mild)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Pain (severe)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Persona training (in scene)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Personality modification (RL)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Phone sex (commercial provider)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Phone sex (serving Dom)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Piercing (perm)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Piercing (temp)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Plastic surgery	mmm	mmm	mmm
Pony slaves	mmm	mmm	mmm
Prison scenes	mmm	mmm	mmm
Prostitution (actual)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Prostitution (public pretense)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Public exposure	mmm	mmm	mmm
Punishment scene	mmm	mmm	mmm
Pussy worship	mmm	mmm	mmm
Pussy/cock whipping	mmm	mmm	mmm
Religious scenes	mmm	mmm	mmm
Restrictive rules on behavior	mmm	mmm	mmm
Riding crops	mmm	mmm	mmm
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Rituals	mmm	mmm	mmm
Rope body harness	mmm	mmm	mmm
Rubber/latex clothing	mmm	mmm	mmm
Saran wrapping	mmm	mmm	mmm
Scratching (getting)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Scratching (receiving)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Sensory deprivation	mmm	mmm	mmm
Serving	mmm	mmm	mmm
Serving as art	mmm	mmm	mmm
Serving as ashtray	mmm	mmm	mmm
Serving as furniture	mmm	mmm	mmm
Serving as maid	mmm	mmm	mmm
Serving as toilet (feces)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Serving as toilet (urine)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Serving as waitress/waiter	mmm	mmm	mmm
Serving orally (sexual)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Serving other Dom/mes (supervised)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Serving other Dom/mes (unsupervised)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Sexual deprivation (short time)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Sexual deprivation (long time)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Shaving (body hair)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Shaving (head)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Skinny- dipping	mmm	mmm	mmm
Sleep deprivation	mmm	mmm	mmm
Sleep sacks	mmm	mmm	mmm
Slutty clothing (private)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Slutty clothing (public)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Spandex clothing	mmm	mmm	mmm
Spanking	mmm	mmm	mmm
Speculums (anal)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Speculums (vaginal)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Speech restrictions (when, what)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Spitting	mmm	mmm	mmm
Spreader bars	mmm	mmm	mmm
Standing in corner	mmm	mmm	mmm
Stocks	mmm	mmm	mmm
Straight jackets	mmm	mmm	mmm
Strap on dildos (penetrated by)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Strap on dildos (sucking on)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Strap on dildos (wearing)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Strapping (full body beating)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Supplying new partners for Dom/me	mmm	mmm	mmm
Suspension (horizontal)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Suspension (inverted)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Suspension (upright)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Swallowing feces	mmm	mmm	mmm
Swallowing urine	mmm	mmm	mmm
Swapping (with one other couple)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Swinging (with multiple couples)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Tampon training (in ass)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Tattooing	mmm	mmm	mmm
Teasing	mmm	mmm	mmm
TENS unit	mmm	mmm	mmm
Thumbcuffs (metal)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Tickling	mmm	mmm	mmm
Triple penetration	mmm	mmm	mmm
Uniforms	mmm	mmm	mmm
Urethral sounds (metal rods)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Vaginal dildo	mmm	mmm	mmm
Verbal humiliation	mmm	mmm	mmm
Vibrator on genitals	mmm	mmm	mmm
Video (recordings of self)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Video (of others)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Violet wand	mmm	mmm	mmm
Voyeurism (watching others)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Voyeurism (Dom/me with others)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Water torture	mmm	mmm	mmm
Waxing (hair removal)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Wearing symbolic jewelry	mmm	mmm	mmm
Weight gain (forced)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Weight loss (forced)	mmm	mmm	mmm
Whipping	mmm	mmm	mmm
Wooden paddles	mmm	mmm	mmm
Wrestling	mmm	mmm	mmm