If you don't have a style of music that soothes and relaxes you, find one. I never really had one. I listened to all the metal and I dare not name bands. I didn't really like 'classical', and then I heard Native American music and fell in love. This is what this music should for you. This music made me relax and think of God & His beautiful world that He made. That He gave to us. I know that we have not taken very good care of it, so I pray for the world that they may understand the beauty of God & appreciate it, take care of it because it is of God. Love it because it is of God. Take care of & love others, because we know they are of God. The music itself I found was beautiful, but the man's voice and how he used it was what got me the most. Different thing do different 'things' to us. Maybe instead you prefer music that has a steady, heavy beat to remind you of God's pulsating energy surrounding and filling you, to keep a constant, easy flow going.
Leave the radio station on a classical station and see what comes on. Not all of it is bad. You may pick up on something. Go to the library and ask for audio tapes of different types of music.
There's so many different types of instruments, or spiritual props out there... experiment. Learn what your style is. Find which one puts you in touch with God. We all have our own way of doing things. As long as things get done and they're for God & the Good of All, then Amen to you ~
God Bless you all ~