Young people today have a defining event of their own, a revolution that
may be greater in its long-term effects than Vietnam, the cultural revolution
of the 1960s or the death of disco. Generation X faces a brave new world,
one made up computers and routers, bits and bytes, World Wide Web pages
and e-mail addresses.
In less than a decade the Internet has become a real force in peopleâs
lives. It has allowed Serbian dissidents to broadcast their political views
despite government censorship. It has been the meeting place for virtual
support groups. It has seen people find each other and fall in love in
ways that would have been unimaginable just a decade ago.
Christy and Scott certainly never imagined how their lives would be changed
by the Internet. Despite the fact that they are separated by 1,000 miles
they met and fell in love on an Internet bulletin board run by the Iowa
State Computer Association.
In the beginning Christy, who is a college student in Missouri, says that
they were just friends, friends who lived 1,000 miles apart. Then one fall,
after having known each other online for over two years, things began to
change.
ãSo one night he mentioned that it would be nice to finally hear
the voice of the friend that he had been talking to for 2 years and we
ended up talking on the phone,ä Christy writes through e-mail. ãWe
spent many, many hours on the phone between October and December just talking.
ãWe found out that a lot of our views on certain issues were the
same and we had a lot in common. Sometimes I was surprised at just how
well we understood each other. Finally, when school got out for the semester
in December, he had decided that he wanted to meet me.
ãThe night we met in person, we both knew that we wanted a
lot more than just a friendship and we knew we were in love. It's strange
how you can feel so much for a person and not even have any type of physical
interaction.ä
Christy and Scott plan on getting married, and Scott is going to move closer
to Christy after he finishes in college in May.
Christy says that despite the difficulties and the odd way they met she
and Scott are happy.
ãIt's very difficult to live so far away from the one that you love,
but if the commitment is there then it is so much easier,ä she says.
ãI have found Îthe oneâ and it just so happened that
we initially met over a computer, which in my opinion, was almost better
than meeting at a party or other place. We got to know what each other
was like on the inside.ä
For more and more people like Scott and Christy, the Internet is a lot
more than the latest whiz-bang computer craze orchestrated by people that
used to be the nerds everyone beat up in high school. For them the over-hyped
ãInformation Superhighwayä is more than a high tech sound byte
to be used in a politicianâs latest campaign speech. For people like
Christy and Scott, the Internet is as life changing as the first antics
of Uncle Milty on television were for their parents and grandparents.
ãI believe it (the Internet) is comparable to the advent of the
television,ä said David Visschedyk, the editor of the Internet Herald,
an electronic magazine aimed at Generation X. ãWhen our parents
first saw a television a whole new world opened for them.ä
Visschedyk sees the Internet not only as a new way for old ideas to spread,
but as a means of self-discovery. He said that the Internet can be a tool
that lets twenty-somethings discover and reshape their identities.
ãAdvertisers have found a new way to try and sell us their pre-washed
dreams. We found a new way for lunatics to spread their rhetoric,ä
he says. ãBut, we've found ourselves. The Internet is one of the
only ways most Generation X people can put some sort of control into their
lives. We can reinvent ourselves until we find the 'person' we want to
become.ä
As an Internet consultant at the University of Alabama's Seebeck Computer
Center, Patrick Crispen sees Generation Xers get their first taste of the
Internet. He said that members of Generation X have an easier time of adapting
to the newest trends in technology than older people.
ãThe earlier people of Generation X grew up with Pong and the later
people of Generation X grew up with Atari and Nintendo,ä he said.
ãGeneration X seems much more likely to adopt the new technology
of the Internet. I think theyâre really almost on the cutting edge
of what it means to be on the Internet.ä
ãI think the impact of it [the Internet] has been that itâs
allowed a level of communication that has never been seen,ä said Crispen.
Lovers, friends and family are keeping in touch over the Internet via e-mail
and chat rooms. These days you donât even need a computer of your
own to keep in touch. A lot of public libraries and campus computer labs
offer access to the Internet these days, and services like Hotmail, Rocketmail
and Mailexcite offer free e-mail access from any computer in the world
with access to the World Wide Web.
One thing that people are doing with the huge amount of information available
on the Internet is job-hunting. World Wide Web sites like Careerbuilder,
The Monster Board, and Intellimatch all offer job listings, help with your
resume and career planning. They also offer customized job searches in
which you specify what youâre looking for, and get back a listing
of jobs that meet your needs.
The Internet is also great for networking. The Internet plays host to numerous
professional organizations, topical mailing lists, and trade and professional
publications, from the Inland Empire Hoo-hoo Club #117 (a forest industry
organization) to the Society of Professional Journalists.
The bottom line is that the Internet isnât going to turn your life
into something out of Star Trek. It isnât going to make you a happier,
more fulfilled person. It isnât going to be your all-in-one life
appliance that slices, dices and purees. What it will do is let you more
easily communicate with people, regardless of where they are, and give
you access to storehouses of knowledge that dwarf most of the great libraries
of history.