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"One nation under God" - Does it belong in our Pledge of Alliegance?

From: WeirdBliss
Date: Thu, 27 Jun 2002
Subject: serious thoughts


" A house divided against itself cannot stand."
This evening while I was out in Port Jefferson, I went into a store with
Barbara (my friend who rocks). The radio was on and I could not believe my ears
when I heard what the announcer had to say. Apparently, the Pledge of
Allegiance was ruled unconstitutional today because it says, "One nation
under God." So first we have no prayer allowed, now this too. It doesn't
surprise me, it only worries me. This country was built upon the foundation
of the Bible. Our rules, our morals, come from God's word, or at least they
used to. People are always asking if God is real then why doesn't he help us
out, meanwhile we are stuffing him in a closet in this country every day of
our lives, I myself in many areas of my life are guilty of this, as we all
are in some regard. Do any of you own the Sonic Flood CD? Right after "I Have
Come to Worship," one of the members of the band starts talking about our
country, he said: "Foundations can't be moved w/o destroying the
building...everything about the laws of this land were taken from scripture."
Along that line of thought, if you destroy the structure that supports this
country, what will happen? We are walking a fine line here...it's
unsurprisingly a scary thing being that what's going on is all coming
directly from Satan himself.(John 10;10-the thief comes only to steal and
kill and destroy. I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.) It
makes me want to lay in bed all day crying just thinking about it, but don't
worry, I won't do that. I will eat some lollipops and move on out of the
house. God has come so that we may have abundant life!(very cool of him!) It
seems like were are now in a time where we are like grains of sand sliding
through the hour glass of time that leads to the end. I am only writing all
of this because I am very upset about what's going on these days, especially
the message I heard on the radio tonight. God's message is clear to me right
now (at least I think...)
2 Timothy 3;1-4 : "You must understand this, that in the last days
distressing times will come. For people will be lovers of themselves, lovers
of money, boasters, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents,
ungrateful, unholy, inhuman, implacable, slanderers, profligates, brutes,
haters of good, treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of
pleasure rather than lovers of God."
Does 2 Timothy sound like us as a nation or what?! Like I said above, this is
some scary stuff.
If all that has bothered me has bothered you to, I ask of you the following
things of you today.
1) please pray for our country EVERYDAY!
2) time is running short, life has no guarantees, pray that you'll have the
opportunity to talk to someone about Christ today, and if you get the window,
pray that you don't pass it up.
BE BOLD! And,
3) tell the people that matter to you how much they do, you never know what
tomorrow brings, don't be left with regret, trust me, I know tons about it!

Tiffany
p.s. the Bible quotes are from the NRSV (New Revised Standard Version) of the
bible.

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Date: Thu, 27 Jun 2002
From: Jonathon Schilpp
Subject: Oh poo.

Tiffany,

Sorry, this is going to be very quick indeed.

I know you're upset about this Pledge decision, but I have to agree that the phrase "under God" didn't belong in the Pledge in the first place.

And in fact, it wasn't. Congress didn't revise the Pledge to include the words "under God" until 1954. Ah, the 1950s! McCarthyism, Cold War paranoia, conformity, etc. And let's not forget about the politicians who, pandering for votes by appealing to the flag, mom's pies, June Cleaver, religion, and of course "patriotism."

How long before the media ask these judges "are you now, or have you ever been anti-American?"

Johnny Rocket
Thu 27 June 2002

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From: GOVTKIM
Date: Thu, 27 Jun 2002
Subject: Re: serious thoughts

Tiffany, I am so very happy that you had inspiring words for all of us. Your collaboration of thought was interesting. I wrote to all of you to explain my thoughts on this subject and I have to say they won't be so well put as Tiffany's.
Separation of Church and State was never outlined in the Constitution, this we know is true; but however the Founding Fathers all had a silent agreement on it. Now that's simply be cause we were a religious "free" country. Anyone who wanted to live here could, and practice whichever religion they cared too. That's what makes us the country we are. Now even though the founding fathers were protestants, Catholics, Christians, whichever sector of Christianity; they believed this too. They integrated things like "under God" into our country for a reason. Although we were religiously "free" we weren't religiously abstinent. But what we all must understand is that the saying "under God" can mean something different to the Muslims in this country or the Buddhists for instance. So it wasn't just directed for us out there who believe in God, meaning the God we believe in.
Why was separation of church and state so big the last hundred years? Well not only did it become a part of political lingo and culture; but everyone knows what it means. It was merely done for monetary issues initially so that the government wouldn't' favor any religion in particular and given them more money than another, so that's why it exists.
As far as my reaction as to yesterdays ruling. I think its all ridiculous. Prayers in school is used to optionally, no one was forced; so to being stripped from the roster was pathetic. But think about the sorts of people we have in the country. There are still atheists who want that cross that was standing after the WTC fell to be taken away, after all why have a cross up if not everyone believes. So I say this country needs revising but it always has. We're not perfect and unfortunately I don't think its the last we heard about the atheists of this country so in all this; write more comments I love when we discuss American history and Politics.
Thanks again Tiffany and you too Allison
Kim

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Date: Fri, 5 Jul 2002
Subject: One nation under God
From: Norbert Paetz

A message to all who happened to drop something in my "Inbox" recently.
(and to all my other friends who have been reading the news lately)

Hey guys,
My Inbox has been getting busy lately, with unfamiliar addresses and
interesting, and somewhat upsetting messages dealing with the removal of
"under God" from our Pledge of Allegiance. It seemed to have started with
a message from WeirdBliss. (Hooray for Tiff!) It obviously
started a ball rolling, and caused me to consider what I believe.
I went through elementary school back in the 60's when we said the
Pledge of Allegiance, had a moment of silent prayer, and we found the words
"God" and "prayer" in my history books. Yes, this was public school. In
the summer, I went to YMCA day camp. For those who do not know, YMCA
stands for Young Men's Christian Organization. I never heard about
Allah, and I didn't know what an atheist was. At 12 years old, I
believed that this nation was founded by people who turned to God for
advice on how to build it.
God. Yeah, that's what we call him, since he never told us his name
except, perhaps YHWH or I Am. Since we believe he is the only one (I'm a
Christian) then only he can be called God. But who is he? I believe he
is the god of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, and the father of Jesus Christ,
who I call the Messiah. Only he, who fits that description, can I call
God, and he is the one named in our Pledge of Allegiance.
Why is it in our Pledge of Allegiance? Why can "In God we trust" be found
on all our currency and in all our courtrooms? Because the people who
implemented that practice wanted to give God the glory for what he has
done in creating this nation. Most of the people before me believed in
this. If you don't believe that, then just look at what most of them
wrote. In my generation, and thereafter, people seem to have forgotten
where credit is due. Removing God from the equation is like removing the
foundation this country is built upon. It would surely fall. WeirdBliss
expresses this in her letter very well.
Lastly, it is about religious freedom. We enjoy giving God the glory
for what he has done. If an atheist wants to live here, fine, but it is
still a nation "under God" whether he likes it or not. We will let him
believe what he wants. Are you Islamic? Come on in and worship Allah.
We don't mind, but don't ask us to change our country to conform to your
beliefs. Anybody, regardless of their religious faith, or lack of, may
live here, but don't ask us to forget the god that helped our forefathers
establish this great nation.
May God bless,
Bert

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The Pledge of Allegiance
A Short History

by Dr. John W. Baer

Copyright 1992 by Dr. John WE. Baer

Francis Bellamy (1855 - 1931), a Baptist minister, wrote the original Pledge in August 1892. He was a Christian Socialist. In his Pledge, he is expressing the ideas of his first cousin, Edward Bellamy, author of the American socialist utopian novels, Looking Backward (1888) and Equality (1897).

Francis Bellamy in his sermons and lectures and Edward Bellamy in his novels and articles described in detail how the middle class could create a planned economy with political, social and economic equality for all. The government would run a peace time economy similar to our present military industrial complex.

The Pledge was published in the September 8th issue of The Youth's Companion, the leading family magazine and the Reader's Digest of its day. Its owner and editor, Daniel Ford, had hired Francis in 1891 as his assistant when Francis was pressured into leaving his Baptist church in Boston because of his socialist sermons. As a member of his congregation, Ford had enjoyed Francis's sermons. Ford later founded the liberal and often controversial Ford Hall Forum, located in downtown Boston.

In 1892 Francis Bellamy was also a chairman of a committee of state superintendents of education in the National Education Association. As its chairman, he prepared the program for the public schools' quadricentennial celebration for Columbus Day in 1892. He structured this public school program around a flag raising ceremony and a flag salute - his 'Pledge of Allegiance.'

His original Pledge read as follows: 'I pledge allegiance to my Flag and (to*) the Republic for which it stands, one nation, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.' He considered placing the word, 'equality,' in his Pledge, but knew that the state superintendents of education on his committee were against equality for women and African Americans. [ * 'to' added in October, 1892. ]

Dr. Mortimer Adler, American philosopher and last living founder of the Great Books program at Saint John's College, has analyzed these ideas in his book, The Six Great Ideas. He argues that the three great ideas of the American political tradition are 'equality, liberty and justice for all.' 'Justice' mediates between the often conflicting goals of 'liberty' and 'equality.'

In 1923 and 1924 the National Flag Conference, under the 'leadership of the American Legion and the Daughters of the American Revolution, changed the Pledge's words, 'my Flag,' to 'the Flag of the United States of America.' Bellamy disliked this change, but his protest was ignored.

In 1954, Congress after a campaign by the Knights of Columbus, added the words, 'under God,' to the Pledge. The Pledge was now both a patriotic oath and a public prayer.

Bellamy's granddaughter said he also would have resented this second change. He had been pressured into leaving his church in 1891 because of his socialist sermons. In his retirement in Florida, he stopped attending church because he disliked the racial bigotry he found there.

What follows is Bellamy's own account of some of the thoughts that went through his mind in August, 1892, as he picked the words of his Pledge:

It began as an intensive communing with salient points of our national history, from the Declaration of Independence onwards; with the makings of the Constitution...with the meaning of the Civil War; with the aspiration of the people...

The true reason for allegiance to the Flag is the 'republic for which it stands.' ...And what does that vast thing, the Republic mean? It is the concise political word for the Nation - the One Nation which the Civil War was fought to prove. To make that One Nation idea clear, we must specify that it is indivisible, as Webster and Lincoln used to repeat in their great speeches. And its future?

Just here arose the temptation of the historic slogan of the French Revolution which meant so much to Jefferson and his friends, 'Liberty, equality, fraternity.' No, that would be too fanciful, too many thousands of years off in realization. But we as a nation do stand square on the doctrine of liberty and justice for all...

If the Pledge's historical pattern repeats, its words will be modified during this decade. Below are two possible changes.

Some profile advocates recite the following slightly revised Pledge: 'I pledge allegiance to the Flag of the United States of America and to the Republic for which it stands, one nation under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all, born and unborn.'

A few liberals recite a slightly revised version of Bellamy's original Pledge: 'I pledge allegiance to my Flag, and to the Republic for which it stands, one nation, indivisible, with equality, liberty and justice for all.'

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A question asked... "What Is Beauty?"

Date: Thursday 28, 2002
 
Basically I got into a conversation the other day about beauty.  And I wanted to know what you guys thought beauty is or if you could give an example.
 
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Tell me, "What makes a Man?"

Subject: Unusual question
Date: Tue, 17 Dec 2002
I figured I'd ask a Question
 
What makes a Man?  What defines him?
What makes a woman? What defines her?
What the difference between an adult and a child?
A boy and a man,  A girl and a woman?
 
Paul

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And what do you think "Love" is?

To: "just a girl"
Subject: Hey
Date: Sat, 26 Oct 2002
I know I asked you the other day this question but I wish to ask it again.
What do you think love is?
 
Paul

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Trust is needed
and family is a good example "You don't want to go on vacation with them but you cry at their funeral" Mark Lowry
Actually I'm learning to be better with my family, My little sister is definetly a pain. Oh and she does enjoy reading my emails

In some ways I guess love is being for someone even at the cost of self.
Love at times desire the happiness of someone else even if they don't return the feeling.
It giving without expecting anything in return. Although when love is given the receiver should respond in kind
Love has a proper response, yet it is wild and powerful
It's hopeful. It believe in great expectations

Love is dangerous
It can and does change people. It changes the one giving it as well as the one who receive it.

Love is not guranteed. It is a conscience effort. People can fall out of love

Perhaps Love best defined is the gaze of the heart. It what we dwell upon. So real love I guess depends on the object you looking at. Let me explain. Some people have a love for money. All they do is think about getting money. That desire of the heart, when given to money will return empty and destroy the heart. Yet if you look upon something worthy of love. Like someone else and especially God, then the love returns and fills the person who gave with great emotion and satisfaction. So by giving our lives we gain it when we give it to something worthy of that love. The more value that individual has the more satisfying the love

Since I don't write poetry or anything really worth quoting I give you one of my favorite quotes about Love and Yes it from C.S. Lewis

To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal... lock it up safe in the coffin ofyour selfishness. But in that casket... it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbrakable, impenetrable... The only place outside Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers and perturbation of Love is Hell

Lastly I think that love is and essence, a virtue and out that being comes forth powerful emotions. The emotions are not the source but the result.

Paul

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"What Does 'America' Mean To You?"

 
Thought this might spark some letters  and or conversation to you new website.
"  WHAT DOES AMERICA MEAN TO YOU"
 
From a Romanian newspaper

We rarely get a chance to see another country's editorial about the USA.  Read this excerpt from a Romanian Newspaper. The article was written by Mr. Cornel Nistorescu and published under the title "C"ntarea Americii
meaning "Ode To America") on September 24, 2002 in the Romanian newspaper Evenimentul zilei("The Daily Event" or "News of the Day").

~An Ode to America~

Why are Americans so united?  They would not resemble one another even if you painted them all one color!  They speak all the languages of the world and form an astonishing mixture of civilizations and religious beliefs.

Still, the American tragedy turned three hundred million people into a hand put on the heart.  Nobody rushed to accuse the White House, the army, and the secret services that they are only a bunch of losers.  Nobody rushed to empty their bank accounts.  Nobody rushed out onto the streets nearby to gape about.  The Americans volunteered to donate blood and to give a helping hand.

After the first moments of panic, they raised their flag over the smoking ruins, putting on T-shirts, caps and ties in the colors of the national flag.  They placed flags on buildings and cars as if in every place and on every car a government official or the president was passing.  On every occasion they started singing their traditional song: "God Bless America!"

I watched the live broadcast and rerun after rerun for hours listening to the story of the guy who went down one hundred floors with a woman in a wheelchair without knowing who she was, or of the Californian hockey player, who gave his life fighting with the terrorists and prevented the plane from hitting a target that could have killed other hundreds or thousands of people.

How on earth were they able to respond united as one human being?  Imperceptibly, with every word and musical note, the memory of some turned into a modern myth of tragic heroes.  And with every phone call, millions and millions of dollars were put in a collection aimed at rewarding not a man or a family, but a spirit, which no money can buy.

What on earth can unite the Americans in such a way?  Their land?  Their galloping history? Their economic Power?  Money?  I tried for hours to find an answer, humming songs and murmuring phrases with the risk of sounding commonplace.

I thought things over, but I reached only one conclusion... Only freedom can work such miracles

What I think!

"One nation under God"

To: Jonathon Schilpp
From: jstagrlnd
Subject: Re: The "Oh poo" letter

"I don't know who you are, but you know a friend of mine, Tiffany, and this letter was sent to me whether you knew it or not. As you saw fit to express your opinion, i believe i have my right to do the same."

"I personally believe that 'under God' should not be omitted from the Pledge of Allegiance."

"The phrase 'under God' was added to the pledge of allegiance in 1954 to refute the evils of atheistic communism that our country, for the most part, was opposed to."

"Our country prides itself on its freedoms and liberties which, in the Declaration of Independence, says that these liberties and freedoms were granted to us from God."

"Now, whether you accept this or disagree, there is no need to remove this from the pledge."

"Watching the news coverage of this event unfold ..."

"... I saw many people who claimed that the phrase 'under God' is unconstitutional. Well, being the fanatic for what really happened that i am, i looked up the copy of the constitution that i have in my 11th/12th grade history book. I read through the Bill of Rights (the first 3 parts of the constitution are just about the 3 branches of government...i really didn't want to read them again if i knew what i was already looking for.)"

"The first amendment, Freedom of Speech, the amendment EVERYONE latches on to so they may get their point across, says this: 'Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people to peaceably assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.'"

"It seems to me that all who do not want the phrase "under God" are using this amendment as a freedom from religion, not a freedom of religion (which it was originally meant to be.)"

"And for the claim that there is separation of church and state and that is why the government should not impose this sentiment of God upon the children of public schools...the separation of church and state has nothing to do with religion or God or the government enforcing anything."

"Thomas Jefferson, i believe, created this to please a Baptist church from...i don't remember. Anyway, the church wrote to Thomas Jefferson requesting that the money they were paying the government in taxes was not used to build any churches of other religions. To please the church Jefferson made a law separating the money of a church and the money the state."

"That is why a church is a 'charity' and doesnt have to be taxed!"

"Now, I know this letter isn't as short and sweet as the one you sent to Tiffany, but I hope you don't mind me voicing my opinion."

"Hey, it is a free country, isn't it?"

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"What is Beauty?"

Hi Paul,

First off, what type of beauty do you mean? Inner or outer? People or the world around you? There are so many different kinds. As for the general thought of beauty I believe in the old saying, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." One man could be totally in love with something, say a car, he thinks is beautiful, while next door the man hates cars...hates driving....and thinks all things made of metal are ugly and evil, but he finds the trees in his backyard to be God's gift to the world as an example of beauty. And for all we know the man who thought the car is beautiful could think all trees should be destroyed because they are so putrid. Now, I don't think there are any situations that extreme, but you get the idea. As for beauty when it comes to people I think there are two kinds. Inner and Outer. In this also, everyone has their own tastes. One thing though, that I have found most interesting, in most cases when someone has conflicting beauty (say...inside beautiful and outside ugly, or visa versa), no matter what someone's opinions are on what is what, when the inside is beautiful and the outside is beautiful it is hard to find a flaw. When the inside is beautiful and the outside is ugly you learn to over-look any flaws. When the inside is ugly and the outside is beautiful you tend to not really like the person. When the inside is ugly and the outside is ugly not too many people want to even try to like the person, most likely the person is not liked. And those are my theories on beauty. I believe everyone has there own personal tastes and that determines so much of what is found to be beautiful. Like, I think that things that are new and clean are beautiful (yeah, I know, I'm weird) even if it's like a new sponge or a new CD. So, as I prove my point of how people find different things beautiful (it is my life's goal to be not like the crowd) I will stop writing.

With Love - Christina

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What makes a man

Date: Tue, 17 Dec 2002
From: "just a girl"
Subject: Re: Unusual question
 
What makes a Man?  What makes a man is not an easy dfinition... i beleive what makes a man is responsibility.  Someone who can handle stress and deal with it.  A man is someone who is not afrai to speak their mind if they deam it necissary, but a man can present his ideas and views diplomatically without the threat of "hurting ones feelings".  A man can take crtitizism and learn from it.  He will not sit and mope and complain about those who do not "understand" what he means.  The next time he will just be clearer.  A man, a fully grown, mature, man is one who does not need the crowds approval, one who does not need to be the center of attention, is one who is free to be who they are and can deal with people not liking who they are. What defines him? ...and i think that is kinda intertwined up in the previous answer>>>
What makes a woman? ...What makes a woman?  Well, i am still trying to figure that one out for myself...but what i have figured out so far..and what i suppose is true (i may be proven wrong someday...probably by myself...) is this... A woman is someone who has responsibilities and does not shy away from them, but completes each required task with confidance and pose.  A woman is a strong person who can bear the weight of the problems in her family...and job...and those who come to cry on her shoulder.  A woman is trust worthy and able to do whatever is asked of her.  A woman is strong even in times of sorrow.  A woman has the ability to run many tings at once and not get lost in the mix.  A woman can stand up for who she is and what she beleives and not need approval with an audiance.  A woman is not always the same as a mother, although many characteristics are the same.  I beleive a woman has more of the ability to be a mother than a man does, but it is not impossible for a man to play the role of mother.  Just as the role of mother and woman are different it is not a requirement for every mother to be a woman...and in this day and age, it is often very much a way of life that mothers are still just girls.  But i beleive that being a mother can develope a woman.  What defines her? ...And, as before, the answers just sort of flowed into each other...
What the difference between an adult and a child? ...I beleive the difference between and adult and a child is the ability to handle responsibility.  Although many children are given the responsibilities of adults, and it is true, i have seen it done first hand, a child cannot always handle the responsibilities with the ease an adult can.  Not saying that a child cannot at all accomplish such responsibilites as paying bills...working to pay the bills...shopping and caring for the youngest in the family...some children do this BETTER than adults do and often times this is when they are handling such tasks.  But what i mean is emotionally.  Children are still growing into who they are...their personalities are still forming and values are still being implanted in them...some children do grow up more quickly than others, but thay are still not adults.  There is no final or definate age when a person reaches maturity and "grows out" of childhood and into adulthood...there are many "children" who are more adult than anyone you can know...and there are some adults who still have growing up to do.  It is all dependant on the individual and there is no way to measure...it is something that is observed and have the results modified often.  It can take as little as a moment to change the once child into the adult you know.
A boy and a man,  A girl and a woman?...these differences are as general as above, but if you are speaking biologically, well...that is a different explanation.  Although outwardly a person may seem like and "adult" but in fact, internally, medically, most people do not stop developing until their twenties...some sooner and some later...it's all abpout genetics...but i know you were speaking mentally....but i answered that questions already...you asked the same question twice you silly Paul...! teehee...it's okay, i know what you mean.

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What Makes A Man

This isn't goodbye, even as I watch you leave
This isn't goodbye, I swear I won't cry
Even as tears fill my eyes, I swear I won't cry

Any other girl, I'd let you walk away
Any other girl, I'm sure I'd be OK

::Chorus::
Tell me what makes a man
Wanna give you all his heart
Smile when you're around
And cry when you're apart
If you know what makes a man
Wanna love you the way I do
Girl you gotta let me know
So I can get over you

What makes her so right?
Is it the sound of her laugh?
That look in her eyes
When do you decide?
She is the dream that you seek
That force in your life

When you apologise
No matter who was wrong
When you get on your knees
If that would bring her home

::Repeat Chorus::

Other girls will come along
They will always do
But what's the point when all
I ever want is you, tell me

::Repeat Chorus::
 
-Westlife_

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Love Is...

Flying Without Wings

Everybody's looking for a something
One thing that makes it all complete
You'll find it in the strangest places
Places you never knew it could be

Some find it in the face of their children
Some find it in their lover's eyes
Who can deny the joy it brings
When you've found that special thing
You're flying without wings

Some find it sharing every morning
Some in their solitary lives
You'll find it in the words of others
A simple line can make you laugh or cry

You'll find it in the deepest friendship
The kind you cherish all your life
And when you know how much that means
You've found that special thing
You're flying without wings

So, impossible as it may seem
You've got to fight for every dream
Cos who's to know which one you let go
Would have made you complete

Well, for me it's waking up beside you
To watch the sunrise on your face
To know that I can say I love you
In any given time or place

It's little things that only I know
Those are the things that make you mine
And it's like flying without wings
Cos you're my special thing
I'm flying without wings

And you're the place my life begins
And you'll be where it ends
I'm flying without wings
And that's the joy you bring
I'm flying without wings

 

 

-Westlife-

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Okay, this is what i think love is...

Love is a choice that you make

it is a feeling that you have

when you care for someone even if they tick you off and annoy daylight out of you

love is something that can be broken with the absence of trust

love is very dependent on trust

love is what keeps us close to each other as people

and love is what keeps us close to God

Love can not always be kept when chosen, but is always there with who you're stuck with (brothers-sisters-mothers-fathers - whoever you know as your family)

Love is somthing that some people have an aboundance of

and some people never truly experience it

Love is something so precious it feels wonderful to recieve it and just as powerful to give it

...

8-22-02

How do you know when you love someone?  you can love your family and just know you love them.  you can love your friends.  you love God.  but there is another love that twists you differently.  this love slowly ovetakes you and you choose to love.  this love is a choice that you make.  A choice made because you like someone.  you like to talk with them.  You like to do things with them.  You can be annoyed with them and you can forgive them.  You feel safe.  you can be yourself and put away your mask.  You want to know everything about them.  And all the while, you want them to be happy.  No matter what you feel, above all else you want their happiness to come first.  But how do you know if you LOVE them love them?  How do you know if this love will last through a lifetime?  How do you know if  this love that is so real right now will be real forever?  How do you know if this is God's plan or your own foolish whim?  Is there anyway to know?  And ho do you know if they feel the same?  You know they consider you a friend, but how deeply do they care?  Hours you spend wondering if they even know you're there.  There is a fine line between friendship and love.  How do you find the line?  How do you know where you stand?

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Feel free to write to me!  My e-mail addy is: jstagrlnd@penguins.zzn.com

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