The Story Behind The Hannukias

Our younger son, Gabriel Baram (Gavri), was killed in his Patton tank on the shores of the Suez Canal, on the first day of the Yom Kippur War, October 1973. It was only months thereafter that we learned what had happened to him.
During those long nights when I had failed to find escape in sleep, I was constantly seized by the oppressive fear that my son would remain an unknown soldier and disappear into oblivion. I felt the need to do something so that he would remain more than that.
Gavri was born on Hannuka, the Festival of Lights, in Kibbutz Kfar Menahem. As a child he liked to hear me tell stories of my childhood experiences in Lithuania, my East European home, and stories from the bible and Jewish history. Of all the biblical and traditional stories that I told him, the Hannuka tales fired his imagination the most. There were also times when he would join me in my blacksmith shop and there I taught him the skills of welding and soldering. To practice we once created a hannukia together where the notes of the popular Hannuka song "Maoz tzur" are prevalent.
While recalling those wonderful moments with Gavri and how much light and love he brought to his mother, Rozka, myself and to those around him, the thought occurred to me that an appropriate memorial to him would be the creation of a number of hannukias.
The first ones that I did were of the traditional style like those lingering in my mind from my family home in Europe. I used traditional Jewish motifs and symbols including Torah crowns, scrolls and the seven varieties of agricultural products of ancient Israel. I also incorporated illustrations from holy books, Passover Hagadas, and old Jewish manuscripts.
I was commissioned to create larger hannukias by Beit Hahayal (The Soldiers Home) in Tel-Aviv, by the regional Museum at Kfar Menahem and by Yad Labanim (The Soldiers Memorial House) in Petah-Tikva.
These are designed around the words "Gabriel", "Hannuka", and "Tashnav", respectively. All three serve to inspire creativity among the school children visiting these establishments and I continued to use these themes in other, smaller, hannukias.
When Gavri became Bar Mitzvah, his mother and I took him to Jerusalem for a week and we crisscrossed the city on foot. He was deeply moved as he came face to face with Jewish history. Two of the hannukias are reminiscent of those days with Jerusalem as their main theme.
Gavri became a very proficient handball player and as such was sent to the Olympic games in Munich in 1972 as part of the Israeli youth delegation. There, eleven Israeli athletes were murdered. This tragedy affected him very deeply. One hannukia recalls this event in his life.
Time went on and I continued to create hannukias in Gavri's memory. They dealt with themes of war (fire, flames, weapons) and a yearning for peace (doves, the word "shalom", the olive branch).
I have used quotations from the prophets as well as past and present Jewish writers for inspiration.
Isaiah's vision of swords turning into plowshares was always on my mind.
Each hannukia includes a dedication, in Hebrew, to Gabriel. The text reads: "In memory of our dear Gavri who was born on Hannuka 5716 and fell in the Yom Kippur War 5734". (Wherever a Hebrew text on the hannukia has not been explained in the description it is this dedication).
Gavri was 18 years  9 months and 10 days old when he fell. His tank and crew were found in the sand dunes on the eastern banks of the Suez Canal by army search teams, six months after the end of the war.
A watch in the tank had stopped at 21:45 on the night of Yom Kippur. At that very hour time stopped for our Gavri of blessed memory. In one hannukia I have expressed those two fateful years of his birth and death as the beginning and the end of a life cycle.

Myrim Baram
Kibbutz Kfar Menahem

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