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 "I feel lovingly toward you."


 
Whereas the personality of love is often motivated to act, the brotherly kind of love, is content to merely be.  No actual giving to the beloved, or even interaction with the beloved is required.  "Pure and chaste, from afar."  ...Or, even close up.  It is internal to the lover, and it is passive.  A sweet, peaceful, contenting state of bliss is experienced.  There is no pain or longing to express itself to the beloved, as with Love: The Passionate.

 And, because it has no need to be expressed, there is no risk.  The heart is not given away, so it does not feel vulnerable.  The lack of pain and risk preserves the state of bliss.

 There is also no need to ever receive anything from the beloved.  If he or she is not aware of the lover’s existence, it makes no difference to the lover.  He or she is content to love on, alone.

 To the lover, it is the love he or she feels that is precious, moreso than the beloved.  Therefore, the love is easily transferable to a new beloved.  In fact, one can feel brotherly love toward any number of people, at the same time.  It is not exclusive to one specific individual, as with Love: The Passionate.

     As Emily Dickenson wrote:
    "My business is to love.  The mere sense of loving, is joy enough."
In order for the beloved to benefit from the love, he or she must be there, with the lover, and seek it out.  The beloved must actively take advantage of the situation, or it will never be received.

Love: The Brotherly is defined as an internalized loving feeling about someone, which inspires a feeling of contentment and peace.


 
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