Hurt Feelings
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While reading articles on the Unofficial A-R Forum the other day, I noticed the article of Hurt Feelings. By what I can make out of this, Mr. Vranasevic claims that there are hurt feelings over these webpages that have been put up? WEEEELLLLLLL, EXCUSE ME!
I guess since this involves me somewhat, I am honored to respond. Although I cannot respond for the Forum, I can certainly SPEAK about my pages.
So Folks, unless you don't want your boat to get rocked, or if you get offended easily, you better bail the boat now.
Hurt feelings..........why exactly would the school have hurt feelings???? Could it be that my child was tortured for having a physical handicap, and they've been exposed for what they truly are? Now that could cause hurt feelings. Could it be that people underestimated the World Wide Web & Feel Helpless like I did when I came to the office and cried, begging for help? Now that could cause hurt feelings.
It amazes me how abusers can turn things around to look like the abused.
How DARE YOU have hurt feelings....Could it be guilt???

When I would hold my daughter, sobbing in my arms from the atrocities that took place & was allowed, you dare to say you have hurt feelings.
When I spoke with my daughter over why her word was being put up against a teacher's, you tell me about hurt feelings.
When I put ice on my daughter's foot over this incident, because she was so upset, it caused her foot to swell more than it ever had, you tell my daughter about hurt.
She was the one who suffered nerve pain in her foot from the pressure. Endless times, she would have to come home, and I would have ice waiting, because she was afraid to ask for help due to your harassment, neglect, abuse, and stupidity. She was the one who would vomit at the thought of going to school so she could be harassed. You dare to act like the abused.
Well, Buddy Boy, I'm not the little girl...I'm the mother.
You want somebody to pick on? You don't have to pick on little girls, children with handicaps that struggle daily to make it through each day. Does it thrill you to make a child cringe, add more pressure on parents. Does it make it easier for you to get through YOUR day if you hurt another child's feelings, make them feel worthless, so you can be the Big Powerful Administration? Does it make you feel better to know that this child's foot was getting worse and worse because of added aggravation due to your "Power Thrill"? You are a JOKE! *Spit*
I'm the one who has tried to deal logically with you people. I'm the one who cleaned the vomit, made calls to the doctors, tried to calm my daughter down. I'm the one who sat & sits with my child through her every appointment, treatment, therapy, while you sit at your
desk with hurt feelings. YOU MAKE ME SICK!
When a child fears what she has to go through physically, if or when she will be able to walk normally without severe pain, and you have the sick gall to sit under or at your desk feeling sorry for yourself? What a Laugh!
My daughter will be on the honor roll...No thanks to you! She has struggled & pushed to get her work done, and even do more than the tutor asks her. She's not going to fail despite Notto's attempt. So, to hell with your feelings.
I will do my best to help other parents learn how not to be abused by a school district, or allow their children to be ruined, try to or commit suicide! I will look up every avenue for parents to help provide them with advocates, attorneys, whatever they need. Why don't you talk to these parents, cause I have. Talk to a mother who can't bring her child back. And you have the nerve to talk about hurt feelings. Look what you have supported! Those who have hurt feelings supported Federal Laws being broken to handicap children. These laws were pointed out! You just didn't want to rock the boat. You sold your morals!
So, the next time you have hurt feelings, I have advice where you can put it!
My daughter doesn't feel sorry for herself...She's happy not to be in the abusive setting anymore. She draws, builds puzzles, listens to music, and plays with her pup.
She's a survivor!
If you feel helpless with these pages, maybe it's because you know they speak the truth. If the truth hurts, then so be it. The Story Would Not Have Been Had It Not Been For You!
And I Thank Mr. Vranasevic, Mr. Forsman, and Mr. Notto for telling me throughout this story to do whatever I felt I had to. Thanks so much!
I did!

Gwen Cravener

Disclaimer: These views are mine, these words are mine. (FREEDOM OF SPEECH)
If by chance your feelings are hurt over this, may I suggest that "you take it to the pre-meeting", or use one of Mr. Forsman's handy dandy, super tear-absorbent tissues!


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