Important
Issues In Society "The Adolescent Child In
America"
In today’s society there are many
controversial issues which as of yet are not
fully recognized or just ignored all together.
One of the main issues is the shocking increase
in the trend of fatherless children and teen
parents. Young women most typically being those
in the mid to upper teen age group, are having
children outside of the haven of wedlock and that
has eased the way for irresponsible young males
to go around droppin "seeds"
on innocent and naïve young females. The welfare
system also has led to the emergence of many
teens having multiple children before they are
indeed legally adults. In the many books that I
am using to research this subject farther I found
that many childhood problems are some which can
be prevented by steady planning and less "accidental"births.
One of
today’s biggest problems is the lack of
proper governmental funds for child welfare. By
the constant budget cuts the welfare child is the
one who suffers most. The book "The
Adopted Child" talks mainly about
this aspect of a child’s life. It touches
many facets from who adopts the children and
there reasoning behind seeking adoption to what
the future may hold for that child. When the talk
about the adopted child they are focusing mainly
on the younger pre-teen age groups. Many young
children are overjoyed when they are adopted
because they feel like they are wanted by
someone. As the book notes the kids general mind
frame is "I’m LUCKY! My PARENTS
chose me from all the others" (pg.18 line
#1) This phrase is common among young
adopted children. Since the adopted child has
spent a good portion of their developmental years
at an orphanage they have these thoughts engraved
into their mind and they rehearse potential
behavior like a script. As opposed to an infant
who has not yet encountered preconceived feelings
other than emotional and physical pain a young
child in an orphanage is old enough to realize
that they need someone to love them. When a child
is adopted it gives them a sense of normalcy so
to speak. When they are raised in there
upbringing, they are hit with the label of being
a "BAD SEED"which is
undoubtedly unjust in most cases. As things
progress into the more mature stages of an
adopted child’s life so should the ways in
which they view things. They are more liable to
be upset about being in an orphanage than a child
of a younger age. Since the adolescent stage is
that in which the most obvious physical and
mental changes occur, dealing with there varying
problems can be a bit difficult. Their feeling
about being different from most kids is more
obvious than that found in younger children. They
are more picky in things ranging from what to
wear to how they act to many different things.
They are subject to more scrutiny than most kids
their age because this is the time in there
lives, when belonging to certain social status
groups in vital to their emotional maturation
process. They can go through many tribulations
especially if they have siblings whom are not
adopted. They may be looked down upon in the
family tree. His parents may be quicker to side
with a non-adopted sibling before taking their
side. Many adolescents especially females may
fear of repeating the steps in which there
mothers may have journeyed by having illegitimate
children. Some parents are shameful of there
adopted children because they may feel that they
are not "normal." It is
an uneasy situation for both parties (ai. Parents
and children). Since this is not an ideal society
adopted children shall always face more scrutiny
than there un-adopted counterparts.
The next issue
at hand is the increasing number of teen
pregnancies. In the book "The Teenage
Parent’s Child Support Guide" it
states that by having more teen parents who are
still children themselves has led to many of
today’s next generation children to be
engulfed by the violent terrain’s of the
streets in urban America. From personal
experience, I have seen what teens, with kids go
through. The few that take responsibility for
their actions end up having a very rough route to
go. The book tells about how the common
perception in mainstream America is that the main
causes of these problems are due to the minority
community but in fact the Caucasian race also is
being plagued by this growing phenomena. The book
points out many things such as places in which
one can call in for or contact to seek advice
regarding places to turn to paternity tests. It
talks about the increase in teenage pregnancy and
how it could correlate to the constant growth in
the murder rate and percentage of violent acts
committed by minors. Inside the book there is a
comic strip called, "Teenage Parents:
Choices and Responsibilities." In
this comic strip various scenarios are broken
down. Everything from accidental pregnancy’s
to responsible fatherhood, to paternity cases. A
lot of times today many teens don’t take on
the responsibility of a child and try to use
every viable resource to dispel the notion that
the child is in fact theirs. In one scene the
male and female are in the courtroom and the
judge tells the man "You have a right
to have an attorney represent you, the right to
present your own evidence and witnesses, and the
right to blood testing, among others. A blood
test can scientifically prove you are not the
father of the child" (pg.47 column #4).
But the main legal technicality to stop abuse of
that right is the fact that "Many
courts will not pursue paternity and child
support if the alleged father is under 18 years
of age, a full-time student, and unemployed. They
prefer to wait until he is 18 years old and fully
employed. Other courts will order a "token
payment" of $5 or $10 a week to help the
young father understand his responsibilities for
his child" (pg.58 caption). By the
lackadaisical lifestyles in which most teens
engage raising a child is not most suitable
because the nurturing environment and the
constant responsibility requirements are not met
on a constant enough basis. Unless the government
asserts power and more money geared toward teen
parental mentoring classes these problems shall
continue. Many of the proposals involve complete
abstinence and safe sex. Now safe sex is a
reasonable request but the majority of teenagers
have outrageously high hormonal levels so
abstinence is an option that I feel is not very
viable.
The third issue
is a bit more specific. The book "Children
Of The Storm" focuses on racial separation
and black children and the welfare system. This
book has many in-depth charts focusing on a
variety of social issues. It talks about the
racism minority children face. Also topics
touched upon are that of the negative conception
that is placed upon black people, black children
and welfare since World War II, the black
community to black parents adopting. The book
states that "All of the agencies had
difficulty in finding sufficient numbers of Black
homes for Black children they had available for
placement".(pg.188 paragraph #2, line #1). Another
stereotype based on black orphans is that they
are more so mentally dysfunctional, than per say
their white counterparts. There are three
different systems involving with adoption and "All
three systems tolerate overt racist practices,
and all three have covert racist aspects. (pg.134
paragraph #2, line #3). Another aspect hit is the
"White System". Places like "The
Jewish Child Care Association of New York City,
The Lutheran Child Services, and the Catholic
Association of Children’s Agencies are
excellent examples of white child care systems
designed expressly to meet the needs of groups of
white children (pg.222 paragraph #1 line #1). This
book mainly expresses the vast differences that
is encountered between black and white children.
This book is a bit more racially driven than the
other books but it has a lot of facts, and
figures to back up its claims. Overall even
though a bit outdated the book still reflects in
a sense of how today’s modern society is
still a bit "shady".
Personal
Note:
If politicians
such as President Clinton and other major party
leaders and chairman stop bickering over
irrelevant issues like "White
Water" and scandalous actions
indulged in by the current president before his
office term then the blame should be a burden in
which they start to take direct responsibility
for. Maybe this old and balding Member of
Congress and menopause induced females should
stop resting on their laurels and dedicate more
financial aides to the minority community so that
the people can be educated. I feel that better
budget management would drastically decrease many
of the problems today that face society. Instead
of spending billions of dollars to build fighter
jets why doesn’t the government pay money to
keep people alive and educate them over just
trying to kill them off. Maybe peace is the way
but until many of today’s leaders in these
bureaucratic civilizations decide is humanity
worth investing in then the quickly approaching
anarchic times may engulf us prematurely. As I
did this book report my goal was to set out and
try and shade light a bit on the rugged life in
which a large portion of today’s youths have
to endure. Everything from group homes to church
ran orphanages. My main assessment of the current
state is that things still really aren’t
changing at a rapid enough pace and with the
approaching millennium, important issues such as
proper child care by public and private agencies
should be just as big a focal point as things
such as a Balanced Budget and education. In a
sense this is education because if people
aren’t taught how to raise there kids and
have illegitimate children then, more than likely
they will put them up for adoption, and then the
child will have to go through a life of false
misconceptions. As you can see the order in which
I did this report was in a manner in which you
could see a progression.
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