In China there is a belief that people are bound together
by an invisible red thread. These Red Threads bind person to person,
across cities, continents and time. In waiting for my daughter, I am continuing my belief that this invisible red thread
will connect me to my daughter.
How I got started:
In November of 1998, I was searching the web
for information on adoption, especially on adoption from China, when I saw the
news -- China had just announced a change in their laws regarding adoption of
children by single women!
No longer would I have to wait until my 35th
birthday to be allowed to adopt -- and I immediately began the process of
researching adoption agencies. I was amazed at how many there were.
Facilitators -- For-Profit Agencies -- Non-Profit Agencies. Different
services, costs, timelines. It was amazing, but between November 98
and the end of January 99, I researched over 30 different agencies.
The Adoption Process:
At the end of January 1999, I settled in with a
final decision on the adoption agency that I would work with -- WACAP (World Association
for Children and Parents).