"I believe the single most significant decision I can make on a day-to-day basis is my choice of attitude. Attitude keeps me going or cripples my progress....it alone fuels my fire or assaults my hope. When my attitude is right, there's no barrier too high, no valley too deep, no dream too extreme, no challenge too great for me." ~~Charles Swindoll

"instead of looking at the situation in a realistic manner, you're letting your emotions and thoughts control your feelings. Until you get to the point of looking at things as they are and not as you wish them to be, you will continue to have bad times. Eventually you will look at this in a realistic manner and start to see things for what they are."~~My Dad

"if you ask "why me" for every bad thing that happens, you must also ask "why me" for every good thing"~~Arthur Ashe

The smallest deed is better than the grandest intention.
 
Wealth is not what we have, but what we are.
 
The gift of happiness belongs to those who unwrap it

Happiness is like jam. You can't spread even a little without getting some on yourself.

We didn't lose our Husbands, THEY LOST US.