When a girl child is borne she is dependent to her parents
then to husband, if husband dyes before she dyed in her old age she is dependent to her children, only sons because the same
situation is with her daughter. If son is not borne she is in the streets begging or homes made for old aged. Rich society
women can manage with the husbands property. Provision of social security to non- working married women from working husband
as a share to be deposited in social security funds by Governments. This provision should begin the day marriage contract
is signed.
For rich society it may not be that big problem due to
incoming of enough amount of dowry, however, dependability has resulted cruelty and atrocity even in rich societies, that
can not be denied she has to bear till she is widow or dies. Retaliation to atrocities is not possible in if she leaves her
husbands house she is not entitled to return to her parental house due to religious belief. For poor families it is most awful
that she not only tolerates atrocities of husband and his family but also she is responsible to stand economic crisis of the
family as she is directly connected to daily home maintenance of food, clothing et cetera, In such circumstances she has no
way but to opt the prostitution or ask CHILDREN to go to work to earn for family.
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Social awareness of self-reliance should be encouraged among women. All help should be given by way of education,
employment, security and legislative support.
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Motivate major percentage of women to learn at least one professional qualification, which can be of highly
useful for them.
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NGOs and other organizations help to introduce small sectors mainly for training and employment to illiterate
and poor women.
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It is woman and her children who have to suffer due to husbands lacking to arrange livelihood, or drunkard,
or sickness.
· In most cases where
bride joins not only husband but also husbands family the atrocities are from mother in laws, son may not be cruel with wife
as long as his mother does not influence him or he is attracted to other woman. Mother and wife war starts when ego of both
clashes. It is a fear that leads to I am better. In that case both have their genuine cases relations can be refined by social
education provided by NGOs and other concerned organizations. 70% of problems can be solved when two women are made to live
in one sword case. A woman has power to deal and fight poverty and bear any social or economical pressure but the weakness
is that she cannot stand the second woman.