Sexual
Harassments: Most of women undergo unwanted humiliating sexual acts at home to satisfy inmates, resisting would result violence.
Women also faces marital rape is forcible intercourse without womans willingness such acts generally ends up in violence some
times results to organ mutilation and painful experience. She not only faces sexual harassment in home but also in working
places and outside home. Woman are seen as sexual object are very vulnerable often become prey to ill-natured men who rape
women to fulfill the sexual desire. Many societies have advised a woman to dress simple that does not provoke men for any
such acts. Also many organizations also have come forward advising women for self defense to awaken crowd for help and physical
protection. Many voices commended the yelling as better self-protection as helps gathering people to help fast. Between 12-25%
women report that they have experienced forced sex or attempted by their inmates or ex-partners. Major percentage hesitates
to come out with complaints of such acts. In part of Asia still women of tribes or low castes are gang raped by high caste
men for want of revenge, many of such cases were not brought. During war mass rape is common in border villages though fourth
world conference has declared that rape in armed conflict is war crime. Due to ineffective constructive implementation and
punishment to regiment that was present, mass rape is still continued.
Mental
Harassment: This is psychological method of harassment by way of humiliation and isolation. Mens dominance dictates if food
is not good, if cloths are not ironed properly she is bad, you spoke to that man not allowed, as you are my property. Homely
women generally run short of finance to maintain house because husband does not give enough and spends in liquor shop and
gambling. Working wife when comes to home from work place it is her job to get the dinner ready for the family. In offices
for not favoring bosses with sexual pleasure often causing mental torture and harassments. This is a great concern of womans
health due to mental harassment apart from this woman also suffers in work place is inability to work properly and less wages.
Mental harassment also results too many other internal deceases and cause fatigue Mentally harassed women generally feel as
if they are in captivity
Physical
Harassment: Until recently in most societies, beating a wife considered as part of marriage. According to study report between
10%-50% of women report that they have been physically abused by inmates in their lifetime. Major percentage still accepts
and justifies domestic violence and they do not report. Out of total hospitalization of women for physical injury is due to
beatings by inmates in the houses. Violence extends to extreme cruelty causing to death, that personal violence was the tenth
leading cause of death for women 15-44 years of age in 1998. Physical abuse has contributed major percentage of death rate
to women between 15-30 years even outside the house, rapist generally to conceal proof, after gang raping kill and dump in
secret places.
· No laws can protect until social awareness is initiated strictness is obtained. Under present laws culprit gets minimum
punishment if found guilty. Minimum sentence to rapist should be life term. Besides this there should be modification in laws
that rapist should prove his innocence that to be believed. Many rape cases are abandoned due to lack of legitimate proof
that is concealed or destroyed. Guilty persons should also be made as why he should not be doubted until he proves is innocence.
· Most of populations of developing countries do not prefer indulging with police and harassing process of courts. Therefore,
most of the cases are lost due to lack of support from public. Face humiliated and harassed by police and legal procedures.
As long as public feel harassed they will not come to support in fear of after affect. Only friendly process will help police
departments. Public see police as evil as they had their experience with police.
· Single woman should not live alone, rather should live with parents or other friends. Best preferred is parents who
are more conscious and supporting. System of joint family was the best for protection though with strict laws framed which
was for protection.
· Should learn methods of self-defense to save self from intruders in the house or outside. One of the best methods
for protection is association with good neighbors who will rush in good and bad times instantly.
· Avoid going from lonely areas and places. Stay in offices late hours only when other colleagues are there. Do not
indulge too much in conversations with less known or unknown and avoid giving secrets.
· Dress wearing also provokes man for unwanted acts so to avoid maintain simplicity when go out without the inmates
or known reliable.
· Women need not to be hesitant to expose the culprit. In many cases women being shy or keeping in mind of future in
society, avoid to complain. This would only encourage escalating.
· To put off fire only water or other cool elements are effective. So when there is heat arguments, require patience
and not to react until situation cools down. Much home violence occurs when both partners indulge into heat argument that
shifts to physical violence.
· Initiation to set up community in residential areas as watchdogs with the assistance of local police stations, which
would be immediate support to crime affected during presence in the home.
· In most cases women feels humiliated when explaining rape incident to cross questioning by advocates in open court.
This should be protective way that helps encouraging woman to complain and explain.
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A woman generally feels what will happen to her and
her children in absence of husband or societys attitude, or revenge by husband after separation. These feelings make women
to accept the violence as fate and men escape legal proceedings. Woman needs to be self reliant, self-defensive and self-confident.
